'03 Pilot with 145k miles on it. The shift lever will select the gears but it suddenly became very sloppy and difficult to find the detent for each gear. It will slide down through all the gears with the lightest tug. Drives and shifts fine but is this a warning sign? I read the discussion about the transmission/drivetrain shuddering at 30-45 mph with light gas pedal pressure. Mine does that too. Is it time to trade it in? This has been a flawless vehicle otherwise.