On the one hand you're daring yourself to go for that SUV or sports car. As the "why not?, what the heck!, and you only live once" arguments swirl in your head, they're tempered by your voice of reason, which cautions you to be more practical. You're stuck, are devoting a lot of energy and time to your purchase decision, but are not reaching a clear decision. What to do? Maybe your fellow readers, who don't have an emotional stake in your decision (but have their own biases, of course), can help you with your decision. Just describe your dilemna, and evaluate the comments and suggestions of your fellow enthusiasts.