Inconsiderate Drivers (share your stories, etc.)

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  • xwesxxwesx Member Posts: 17,730
    You are hit with them every day it would seem. I hope all goes uneventful for me on my way home tonight.... :surprise:
    2018 Subaru Crosstrek, 2014 Audi Q7 TDI, 2013 Subaru Forester, 2013 Ford F250 Lariat D, 1976 Ford F250, 1969 Chevrolet C20, 1969 Ford Econoline 100
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,704
    It is strange to have someone complain about cold temps working in midsummer. Then I found you're in Alaska? Good luck getting it dried in.

    2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,

  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,704
    Working on a computer and driving you say!? What could she have been doing on the computer she couldn't have done on a cell phone? At least you can see out what you're working on a cell phone; you just may not realize what you're seeing til too late.

    2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,

  • fintailfintail Member Posts: 58,557
    City/suburb driving is really deteriorating around here, or I have a much more critical eye than in the past. Srangely enough, driving on the packed highways around here is actually much more relaxing. Oh well, at least Sundays are better...save for bad light sequencing.
  • snakeweaselsnakeweasel Member Posts: 19,592
    I think it might have been interesting to see what would have happened had that Hummer decided rather than to wait, but to go over the top of the Mercedes to teach her a lesson???

    It would have made the Mercedes driver a little richer. I would say both were inconsiderate, the Hummer should have just waited for the intersection to clear like s/he is supposed to. What would have been interesting is if the truck would have stopped.

    2011 Hyundai Sonata, 2014 BMW 428i convertible, 2015 Honda CTX700D

  • black_tulipblack_tulip Member Posts: 435
    I was making right onto a winding county road with one lane in each direction from a stop sign. I checked my left and seeing all was clear, pulled in. A chill ran up my spine when I saw a Cadillac SUV coming straight at me at a very high speed. Apparently he was passing traffic by moving over to oncoming traffic lane (legal on this section) and I completely missed him because I never bothered checking my right when I was taking a right turn.

    Anyway, as I had just started moving, it was easy for me to pull over to the shoulder and let him pass. I guess in this case I was the inconsiderate one.
  • snakeweaselsnakeweasel Member Posts: 19,592
    I guess in this case I was the inconsiderate one.

    Maybe, maybe not. I know when I am looking to make a pass I not only look for oncoming traffic but anyone that might be pulling out into the oncoming lane.

    2011 Hyundai Sonata, 2014 BMW 428i convertible, 2015 Honda CTX700D

  • xrunner2xrunner2 Member Posts: 3,062
    A chill ran up my spine when I saw a Cadillac SUV coming straight at me at a very high speed. Apparently he was passing traffic by moving over to oncoming traffic lane (legal on this section) and I completely missed him because I never bothered checking my right when I was taking a right turn.

    Obviously, always have to look both ways.

    What is your state's rules for passing at or near an intersection? My state's rules state that passing on a 2-lane road is not allowed within 100 ft of an intersection. 100 feet is not much distance, especially on a 55 mph road. Would like to see that to be maybe 300-600 feet. From time-to-time I see inconsiderates passing "at" the intersection of some 2-lane roads.
  • euphoniumeuphonium Member Posts: 3,425
    On a two lane suburban road with left turn lanes at an intersection, a car, pulling a fishing boat/trailer, pulled onto the road without looking. Having a choice to either rear end him, hit the ditch, or go around using the vacant left turn lanes on both sides of the intersection, I went around using the clear intersection and left turn lanes. After completing my safe pass, the other guy blew his horn, kept his lights on high beam, & yelled something. There are suckers out of the water too. :(
  • oregonboyoregonboy Member Posts: 1,650
    Always have to check both directions. Not just for cars, but there could be a pedestrian about to cross in front of you from the "off side". I was once nearly run over by a cop who didn't check to his right before starting across a one-way street. :surprise:

    As for passing and intersections, there are often little unmarked side roads and driveways that cannot be seen until you are right on top of them. You have to hope that anyone pulling out is aware enough to check both directions first.

    james
  • oregonboyoregonboy Member Posts: 1,650
    Clearly, you were supposed to lock up your brakes and slide into the ditch if necessary in order to stay behind him, where you belonged.

    He must subscribe to the philosophy that "once my butt's in front of you, I own the road".

    james
  • fintailfintail Member Posts: 58,557
    You should have brake checked or cut him off...it's amusing when a trailer jacknifes and a boat falls off. It might be inconsiderate though.
  • snakeweaselsnakeweasel Member Posts: 19,592
    Oh I hear you on this one. I wish I had a dime for every time I had to take that route because some self important idiot just pulls out into traffic. Then they have the nerve to yell at you like you did something wrong. One of these days I am just going to take the first choice.

    2011 Hyundai Sonata, 2014 BMW 428i convertible, 2015 Honda CTX700D

  • 210delray210delray Member Posts: 4,721
    In Virginia, two-lane roads are marked for passing even through what the state DOT must consider are minor side roads.

    So that means that if you're on the side road, you have to look both ways before pulling out into the main road (a good idea regardless).

    Similarly, someone passing on the main road has to keep a lookout for anyone approaching on the side road.
  • user777user777 Member Posts: 3,341
    your stories are getting more interesting by the day.

    perhaps you:
    a). are experiencing a rapid decline in driver skill in your area.
    b). are looking for or are a magnet for poor skill amongst other drivers in your vacinity.
    c). are experiencing a decline in your own proficiency.

    :P
  • fintailfintail Member Posts: 58,557
    LOL, well, my own proficiency doesn't cause vapid women to use a laptop while driving.

    It's the area. I live in a very goofy part of a strangely passive/aggressive region.
  • redmaxxredmaxx Member Posts: 627
    You're right, driving skills are on the way out it seems. I'm going down the road today and this lady in a Tucson pulls up on a side road, stops, looks right at me, waits and then pulls out right in front of me. So it's no wonder I'm on her bumper now and she is hardly accelerating. So I'm slowing down to add distance and she brake checks me. So I honk the horn and she brake checks harder! I'm trying to fix the situation she created and she just keeps making it worse. It's not like she couldn't accelerate, since her next turn (the same as mine) onto a very short connecting road, she took off.
  • redmaxxredmaxx Member Posts: 627
    A chill ran up my spine when I saw a Cadillac SUV coming straight at me at a very high speed. Apparently he was passing traffic by moving over to oncoming traffic lane (legal on this section)

    You're saying the SUV completed the pass before the lines went to double solid yellow for intersection?
  • carlisimocarlisimo Member Posts: 1,280
    Yeah that's happened to me a few times.

    I see a driver at an intersection or driveway. I have the right of way, so I don't slow down. I make eye contact with the other driver. He stares at me for a second. And then he goes! The worst time, I locked up my brakes and nearly hit the white Astrovan that did it. This morning it was a contractor's heavy-duty pickup. It's always something slow, pulling out when I'm too close even if they were in a fast car.
  • sky23213sky23213 Member Posts: 300
    Not just for cars, but there could be a pedestrian about to cross in front of you from the "off side".
    Not to mention bicycles - I don't know how they are around the country, but tend to think they are at their absolute worst in and around Minneapolis. Not that bad in the suburbs, but where it seems to be their only mean of transportation they are absolutely inconsiderate, since they don't have a driver's perspective. They claim every right as a traffic participant, but fail to obey any of the laws. Running a Stop sign is the norm, a red light is honored with a slight look. And when someone runs against a vehicle and suffers, u never hear the end of it. One I vividly remember is a couple sneaking between our CR-V and the curb, yes, on the right side, while my wife was waiting at a Stop sign to make a right turn. Almost turned them into a hood ornament. One would expect cars, pedestrians, but not a couple of bicycles dashing from under your right side view mirror.
    What's your take on inconsiderate bicyclists?
  • murphydogmurphydog Member Posts: 735
    :( I can tell you that inconsiderate bicyclists have made my heart jump more than a few times. On the way home, very late at night I am at a stop sign about to cross a one way street. I look to the right as that is where the traffic comes from and it is all clear. I start to move and zipping in from the left is a guy on a bike with no helmet, or lights. I missed him by just a few feet. Sure it would have been his fault going the wrong way on a one way, but none the less I would have been very bummed out to see him all banged up on the front of my car.
  • fintailfintail Member Posts: 58,557
    That happens quite often around here. Somehow, the fintail really brings it out in people....they'll pull right out and expect you to slow down, even though there's nobody behind you for a mile. I love the horn on that car...

    If some hag in a Tucson would have pulled than on me, I would have just popped around and returned the favor. Oops, my brakes are better, don't roll that runt! Wouldn't want you to end up in a neck brace!
  • snakeweaselsnakeweasel Member Posts: 19,592
    What's your take on inconsiderate bicyclists?

    There is one spot near me where a bike path crosses a road about 100 feet before the road has a stop light. There is no traffic controls for the road but there is a "stop" sign and "cross traffic does not stop" signs for the bike path (I know I have biked that path many times), yet bike rider fly across without stopping expecting cars to stop. Can't tell you how many near misses I have had. And then they have the nerve to yell at you.

    One time (I may of related it here) I came to a 4 way stop to make a left turn. I came to a complete stop and proceeded to turn when an approaching bike ran the stop sign. Of course he had the nerve to yell at me for almost hitting him because he ran a stop sign.

    2011 Hyundai Sonata, 2014 BMW 428i convertible, 2015 Honda CTX700D

  • fintailfintail Member Posts: 58,557
    Around here they are amusingly self-righteous. They demand you share the road with them, but they flagrantly disregard the rules of the road, and especially ignore stop signs and lights.

    I'd be more bummed out to have my car damaged.
  • redmaxxredmaxx Member Posts: 627
    I would have just passed, except that we were on a curve.
  • xwesxxwesx Member Posts: 17,730
    Inconsiderate? No, I think you did great! You were able to do your part in avoiding a terrible collision after the fact. Mistakes happen - regardless of fault or maybe. Glad you are still with us! ;)
    2018 Subaru Crosstrek, 2014 Audi Q7 TDI, 2013 Subaru Forester, 2013 Ford F250 Lariat D, 1976 Ford F250, 1969 Chevrolet C20, 1969 Ford Econoline 100
  • xwesxxwesx Member Posts: 17,730
    Hahaha... no kidding. Every once in a while I will pull out into the roadway (where we have a blind hill just beyond the intersection) and just as I am entering a vehicle will crest the hill at somewhere between legal and :surprise: (SL 55). Even at legal, they come up quick, so if I am pulling a load or on slick roads and am not able to pick up speed quick, I will just slip off to the shoulder for a moment and then come back in behind. There is always a way to make a situation more palatable for everyone if the participants are willing! :D
    2018 Subaru Crosstrek, 2014 Audi Q7 TDI, 2013 Subaru Forester, 2013 Ford F250 Lariat D, 1976 Ford F250, 1969 Chevrolet C20, 1969 Ford Econoline 100
  • billingsleybillingsley Member Posts: 69
    I used to drive tractor trailers. One would think that the average driver would be able to see something that large. I've had them pull out in front of me. The air horn works miracles most of the time. As you can imagine, it's not easy to stop a vehicle towing 80,000 lbs of merchandise. Also, if you try to stop too fast, you could jackknife the rig, and then there'd be h*** to pay.

    :surprise:
  • xwesxxwesx Member Posts: 17,730
    It might be more that "I do not want to be behind THAT" mentality than literally not seeing the vehicle. Any time I am driving a big rig or just hauling a big load in a small rig, other driver's behaviors toward me tend to shift dramatically. :(
    2018 Subaru Crosstrek, 2014 Audi Q7 TDI, 2013 Subaru Forester, 2013 Ford F250 Lariat D, 1976 Ford F250, 1969 Chevrolet C20, 1969 Ford Econoline 100
  • billingsleybillingsley Member Posts: 69
    That's probably more the mentality. It seems no one wants to be behind a slow rig.
  • albert6albert6 Member Posts: 52
    So you swooped down on her bumper and are not backing off very fast so she taps the brakes -you think- to see if you are now paying attention and you honk your horn to try to fix the situation?

    Maybe you were stuck, but horn honking is not fixing the situation. The first brake check should tell you - back off.

    I'll bet you wouldn't yell at a 3000lb growling bear. Why antagonize someone with the right-of-way in a 3000lb vehicle? Your attitude would have been different if the vehicle said Police on it.
  • marjiemarjie Member Posts: 4
    Can you direct me to a section about severe dissatisfaction with my MPGs.
    I am doing everything I can to decrease use of gasoline...coasting, not using breaks unless I must, excellerating slowly, putting up with angry drivers who pass me,
    checking tire pressure, gearing down to slow down when I'm coasting...driving smoothly
    so why am I getting less than 35MPGs??
  • mark156mark156 Member Posts: 1,915
    Marjie... you came to the right place because we have "all" the answers.

    First, tell us what kind of car you have, the year, engine size (4 cylinder, 6 cylinder?), is it an automatic or manual transmission, etc. ???? :confuse:

    35MPG's might be all that you can get.

    Mark :D
    2010 Land Rover LR4, 2013 Honda CR-V, 2009 Bentley GTC, 1990 MB 500SL, 2001 MB S500, 2007 Lincoln TC, 1964 RR Silver Cloud III, 1995 MB E320 Cab., 2015 Prevost Liberty Coach
  • snakeweaselsnakeweasel Member Posts: 19,592
    First off what kind of car are you driving (include engine and transmission) and what does the EPA estimate it to be?

    A good place to go is a forum that deals with your particular car.

    2011 Hyundai Sonata, 2014 BMW 428i convertible, 2015 Honda CTX700D

  • snakeweaselsnakeweasel Member Posts: 19,592
    Just a though, many hand help GPS units can be hooked up to laptops and can use a mapping and direction software on the laptop. She may have been using it as a GPS system.

    2011 Hyundai Sonata, 2014 BMW 428i convertible, 2015 Honda CTX700D

  • euphoniumeuphonium Member Posts: 3,425
    Slide into the ditch? With four adjacent lanes to use? I don't think so. ;)
  • euphoniumeuphonium Member Posts: 3,425
    The Honda stopped for a North bound freight and as soon as it cleared the private crossing, the Honda started out, only to be struck by a 79 mph Amtrack going South.

    The noise of the freight drowned out the Amtracks horn and four people were killed instantly. Very inconsiderate of the RR to not have flashing lights and cross arms at every crossing whether public or private, but as the law doesn't require them - look out. Just because one train passes, doesn't mean another isn't upon you. Look and Listen! ;)
  • user777user777 Member Posts: 3,341
    not seeing is often the issue.

    in order to be seen by a big-rig, you have to see their mirrors right? well, it's good for you to drop back to a good following distance anyway (2 sec rule minimal).

    but, it's also situational awareness. if you are behind a big-rig or a monsterous SUV, chances are you have very bad situational awareness of what is happening up ahead in your lane.

    once upon a time, you could see through an SUVs windows.

    with the proliferation of higher decks, tinted windows, pop-down entertainment systems, the best place to be is not in the same lane. ;)
  • snakeweaselsnakeweasel Member Posts: 19,592
    Yeah I have heard about that happining before. I never cross a track unless I can see its clear in both directions, even if it has lights and gates. Many times you will see me slow down when I am approaching a crossing until I can see both ways (that way if I notice a train I can stop in time.

    To many times I have seen trains in the crossing before the gate went down and the lights went on.

    2011 Hyundai Sonata, 2014 BMW 428i convertible, 2015 Honda CTX700D

  • snakeweaselsnakeweasel Member Posts: 19,592
    in order to be seen by a big-rig, you have to see their mirrors right?

    wrong, just because you cannot see their mirrors doesn't mean they cannot see your car, all it means is that they cannot see the part of the car you are in. They still may see the back of your car or the right side of your car.

    But it is a good rule to follow.

    the best place to be is not in the same lane.

    Or be much further behind.

    2011 Hyundai Sonata, 2014 BMW 428i convertible, 2015 Honda CTX700D

  • redmaxxredmaxx Member Posts: 627
    So you swooped down on her bumper and are not backing off very fast so she taps the brakes -you think- to see if you are now paying attention and you honk your horn to try to fix the situation?

    Maybe you were stuck, but horn honking is not fixing the situation. The first brake check should tell you - back off.

    I'll bet you wouldn't yell at a 3000lb growling bear. Why antagonize someone with the right-of-way in a 3000lb vehicle? Your attitude would have been different if the vehicle said Police on it.


    Hey look, I was braking as fast as I deemed reasonable and prudent for the conditions then existing. Don't try to blame it on me, I WAS slowing down and backing off until she brake-checked me the second time and which I had to brake even more. She was clearly and completely in the wrong by cutting me off and then brake checking me. She violated multiple AZ laws and I used my horn EXACTLY for what it was designed, to warn other drivers of impending danger. No, it wasn't "I think" she tapped the brakes, her brake lights lit up and the vehicle rocked from the brake application. TWICE. No, I wouldn't do that to a bear, but I EXPECT that a driver has more reasoning than a bear. If not, they need their license yanked.

    Yes my attitude would be different if it said Police. Why? Not because I was doing anything wrong, but because I wouldn't want to do anything that could be PERCEIVED as being wrong. But then, if an officer had cut me off like that he wouldn't dawdle along and brake check me. Police know better than this idiot.
  • redmaxxredmaxx Member Posts: 627
    Laws that she violated:

    - Travelling less than reasonable and prudent speed.
    - Not signalling before turning, twice.
    - Driving with reckless disregard for other people and property.

    She should have her license taken away, by all rights.
  • fintailfintail Member Posts: 58,557
    Why do some people always defend the driver who is in the wrong?

    Road rage...symptom vs disease...

    The simp who cut him off might get shot by some other drivers - she should consider herself lucky that she lived through her poor driving. She might not be so lucky if she keeps it up. What a crying shame that would be.

    The cop comparison is mind-numbing.
  • xwesxxwesx Member Posts: 17,730
    I understand what you are saying, but not being able to see beyond another vehicle should not translate into it being "okay" to pull in front of another vehicle at a less than safe distance in order to avoid the chance of "being stuck" behind that vehicle. That could be a steep cost for a little convenience.

    As far as increasing distance or making a point to pass, etc., sure, but please, if passing... GO! Nothing more annoying than driving a load and having someone pass only to slow down and become an obstacle that needs to be passed. I note this mostly on multi-lane roads. I remember once as a teen having the same van pass our rig about 6 times within an hour on I-84 simply because the driver did not want to be behind us, but could not manage to stay ahead! :sick: Haha.... it was mind boggling.
    2018 Subaru Crosstrek, 2014 Audi Q7 TDI, 2013 Subaru Forester, 2013 Ford F250 Lariat D, 1976 Ford F250, 1969 Chevrolet C20, 1969 Ford Econoline 100
  • gogogodzillagogogodzilla Member Posts: 707
    My magic 8-ball decrees:

    It's because you are an inconsiderate driver!

    :P
  • albert6albert6 Member Posts: 52
    Evey morning I get to make a right turn onto a posted 40mph road. It's at the bottom of a lengthy hill and the reasonable and prudent drivers keep their constant gas pedal position and so run up to 50mph or so.

    It would not be so bad but the highway department won't trim back the vegetation.

    Now, I know coming down the hill I can see vehicles at the stop sign long before I can see the occupants who are sitting 5 feet or so back from the bumper. So, I slow down, knowing that, and make sure I have a place to go if they just stomp it.

    Most don't slow down for me, so when I go to make the turn I get to make a right turn, across an extra exit-only lane, into the stream of traffic and try to accelerate to 40mph in about 100 feet, 30 feet of it turning to line up in the lane, in order not to be inconsiderate of the inconsiderate speeders. Do the math - that's about a half G. Needless to say, stomping it is fun when it's fun and not fun otherwise.

    Many's the time someone in the far lane comes over to the curb lane (not the exit only) after they can see I'm waiting to turn.

    So maybe my sympathy lies with someone who has been cut off one too many times.

    I'd have sympathy with the OP if he hadn't tried to make things better by laying on the horn. It was not a warning, it was to express his anger with someone he felt was already behaving poorly and probably to aggravate them as well.

    Don't do anything to other drivers you won't do to Police and the world will be a more considerate place.
  • fintailfintail Member Posts: 58,557
    With all due respect, I just can't see it that way. Accountability isn't a one way street.

    And nobody "felt" (could one be more condescending?) the other driver was behaving poorly...they were indeed behaving poorly. Cut me off, and I'll honk at you too. You have no right to force me to slow, wait for me to pass.

    If the "Police" would focus on more than issues that generate revenue, the world would be a more considerate place...
  • fintailfintail Member Posts: 58,557
    Oh yeah, and my last two commutes have been trouble free...maybe an errant woman in an SUV here and there (one last night screeched to a halt to nudge her way into a turn only lane she almost missed), but nothing horribly offensive. If only this would last...I plan to drive the fintail tomorrow, so I am pretty sure I'll be pulled in front of...
  • albert6albert6 Member Posts: 52
    Yeah, police should only focus on the 'bad' people. Maybe they could use x-ray vision to see crimes in progress. Hah!

    It's elected officials who set the agenda for the police. Vote for the world you want.
  • fintailfintail Member Posts: 58,557
    Maybe they could do something else other than sit and cherry-pick clueless people going 10 over on wide open roads...

    "Vote for the world you want. "

    If it only worked so easily...what a pipe dream. When you have one worthless crony appointed by another who is appointed by another who 10 simps down the line is elected, nothing changes. 'Hah' right back at ya.

    Don't pull out in front of people and self-righteously act like they should slow down to let you proceed (and that you have the right or the means to force them to do so), and everything will be fine. Until then, prepare to get honked at, brake checked, shot at, rear ended...
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