I think your maximum capacity is 3500 lbs but of course you should try to to match that, but rather stay at around 80% of maximum. Also, you'll need the right type of hitch and a trailer brake.
I don't see why all this couldn't be fitted to your Highlander.
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I don't see why all this couldn't be fitted to your Highlander.