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  • scotianscotian Member Posts: 1,064
    "[A]llowing right-turn-on-red is an excellent example of a counterproductive traffic law" -- Did you mean "Not allowing ..."? I would agree with that. Disallowing right on red is counter-productive as it greatly impedes the efficient flow of traffic. You yourself admitted this: “It will definitely impede traffic flow in many areas.”

    "No one argues with your current right to make a right turn on red." -- Huh? You yourself just advocated making right turns on red illegal: “I'm in favor of abolishing ‘right turn on red.’” Sound familiar?

    Good lord, townha11, Get your story straight.

    You seem to see every intersection and crosswalk overflowing with pedestrians, I rarely encounter anywhere there is a pedestrian whose path I could possibly block. If there are no pedestrians around, I cannot possibly be said to be blocking their path, period. If there are some around, I avoid blocking their legitimate path (by that I mean a pedestrian has no right to cross the street against a red light at all, let alone in front of my car turning right on red. But even then I will endeavor to not hit them if they choose to do so).

    And if you want to call me a self-centered, selfish jackass, go right ahead.
  • wale_bate1wale_bate1 Member Posts: 1,982
    Must...resist...urge...to...call...scotian...a...

    ;)

    No right turn on red? We ain't never getting home, people. Be sitting there for days, waiting for naught more'n air to pass by...
  • black_tulipblack_tulip Member Posts: 435
    I also think right on red should be illegal but only near busy intersections with high traffic volumes. Pedestrian issues aside, most motorists can not judge distance/speed by any degree of accuracy, and therefore, more often than not, simply cut off drivers who have the right of way.
    Sometimes they would wait and wait(while I am approaching) and suddenly pull out when I am about one car length behind.
  • scotianscotian Member Posts: 1,064
    Yes, there are many intersections that warrant the special No Turn On Red sign. But I would say that the vast majority of intersections with such signs, at least here in the Twin Cities, they are completely unwarranted.

    It should be noted that the same idiotic-right-turn-cutting-off-traffic scenario can and often does occur where there is an intersection with a Stop sign, so this is really not a No Turn On Red issue at all, it is a driver competence issue.
  • carlisimocarlisimo Member Posts: 1,280
    Yeah, that bothers me. And some people justify throwing organic things into the street by saying it'll decompose, but before that happens it leads an animal to the middle of the road, and *squish.*

    Now that I think about it, the only thing about smoking that bothers me is that most smokers throw their butts anywhere they are (when outdoors). No wonder people want to ban smoking in public places.
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,675
    on red discussion. But here in Ohio I believe the law is the pedestrian has right of way even if they're crossing against the red light in their direction; you get points on your record for hitting a pedestrian!!!

    2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,

  • scotianscotian Member Posts: 1,064
    Yes, do avoid hitting the pedestrians, even the ones with a death wish.

    Sometimes I like the way cigarette butts look at night as they shower sparks when flung from the car in front of me...
  • carlisimocarlisimo Member Posts: 1,280
    What I was told in driver's ed here in Cali was that if you hit a pedestrian, even when you had the right of way, the decision will never go in your favor. But they're easier to watch out for than some drivers I can think of...
  • hampsterdamhampsterdam Member Posts: 18
    Worst of all are those people who change their kids diaper in the car, then throw the used didy out on the parking lot.

    I generally have no objection to pouring out liquid from coffee cup, soft drink, etc; it'll evaporate soon enough. (maybe it doesn't bother me because I'll do it myself, but I try to do it where it won't be a nuisance).
  • hampsterdamhampsterdam Member Posts: 18
    About cars in crosswalks waiting to turn right on red. Crosswalks are often invaded even by traffic heading straight ahead. Instead of stopping at the white line painted before the crosswalk, or the first line of the crosswalk if that line doesn't exist (and that's another story... underfunded municipalities not maintaining signage, etc on roadways), many people just pull up as far as possible, blocking the crosswalk. At least that's the case here in the pedestrian-unfriendly city of Houston.

    I think that Chicago, with many more pedestrians crossing intersections, was less subject to this.

    Or maybe it's just a function of the number of people walking across the street, where there's a bunch of people, like in core downtown centers, drivers HAVE to stop before the crosswalk or they'll get a psycho pedestrian on them. Now, what happens when a psycho pedestrian and a psycho driver (stopped) meet up?
  • akanglakangl Member Posts: 3,282
    I'm one of those guilty parties who doesn't brush off the snow. I admit it, however, I'm usually the only one on the highway when I leave in the morning so its not a huge deal.

    There is NOTHING I hate more in winter (besides the cold) than brushing snow and scraping ice off my Explorer. Last winter I had the lifted Suburban, I couldn't get the snow off of it, it was too high (I used to climb on the front tire to check the oil).

    If my husband is home he usually gets my vehicle ready for me....hehehe.

    I have auto start on the Explorer, so I just set the heater at night and then hit a button in the morning in my jammies, its nice and toasty when I get in it.

    Thankfully in the past few years we haven't had much snow, here it is October 11th in Alaska and its still in the 40's during the day.
  • tornado25tornado25 Member Posts: 267
    Quote: "Driving near Dallas a few weeks ago in a pouring rain the boards were alerting drivers to an alleged kidnapper driving a white vehicle..."

    Sigh. Perhaps you have heard of something called an Amber Alert? A now federal law allows local authorities to use numerous resources to alert the public of an abduction in the hopes the sooner the information is disseminated, the better the chance of apprehending the abductor.

    The use of highway signs is particularly important since most abductions...wait for it...involve vehicles. Yes! I bet it's easier to be on the lookout for a particular vehicle WHILE I'M IN MY CAR than sitting in my La-z-boy watching the evening news.

    At any rate, since you are apparently more concerned about the people that might be in an accident, I'll be sure to ignore any notice given if or when your child/neice/nephew/whatever is abducted. Especially since I have to avoid all the other accident-causing concerned citizens out there.
  • tornado25tornado25 Member Posts: 267
    I still don't see your connection between overall poor driving by Texans and the Amber Alert system. What you're saying is people blithely ignore all the other messages on those boards re: travel times, accidents ahead, detours, etc and suddenly focus on the report of an abducted child. How unfortunate it must be for you to struggle in a civilized society where citizens participate in maintaining the safety of others, lest those people cause some irrational annoyance to you.

    Sounds like the original purpose of said signs is a huge waste of money, then. Aside from that, what does the RV driver have to do with an Amber Alert. Oh, right, I'm betting you're making an unfounded generalization with the only consequence of very little concern--the perception of your character.
  • pat84pat84 Member Posts: 817
    I'm sad to report Texas does not have the only drivers acting like second graders.
    Come to the DC beltway. We don't have message boards alerting us of lost / abducted children.
      We put their pictures on milk cartons.
  • tpat3tpat3 Member Posts: 119
    Rained like crazy here (near Boston) a couple days ago. I noticed when I was about to get in my truck to head to work that the storm drains were plugged in front of my house and a good section of road was flooded.
    So I grabbed the rake from the tool shed and proceeded to muck the drains out. Just as I am doing this, a minivan sped through the puddle and soaked me. OK.
    So I cross the street to get the other drain and, of course, same thing happens again. I doubt either driver did it intentionally, but I was certainly visible to them so it wasn't accidental, either. Mainly thoughtless.
    Guess next time I'll park the truck in front of the drains or let the DPW worry about it.
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    Well your experience certainly is not encouraging to do ones civic duty! :(

    But to cut to the nexus of this thread. It can work the other way. Like when a car ahead of me in the passing lane moves out of the way to let me pass, I almost always make it a point to thank the person doing the behavior by waving etc. I also show him I would have done the same for him by when safe moving over to the right hand lane/lanes. So in effect if he wanted to overtake me in that instance he can. Does it really help work? I truly don't know in the grand scheme of things but I definitely would like to think so.
  • tornado25tornado25 Member Posts: 267
    Fair enough and I see your point. My only point is that the signs were there blathering more or less useless info long ago (I don't really care that it's 14 mins to the Marquette--knowing this doesn't get me there faster).

    But, since the signs aren't going away, why not do something useful with them? After all, bad drivers are going to be bad regardless...and even if they become a little worse, the Alerts at least *attempt* to do some good. Now, if the signs starting saying: "It's now 30 mins to the Marquette, you can use the shoulder and it's ok", then that would be something.
  • pjyoungpjyoung Member Posts: 885
    Said something like "Kinley - get out of the left lane - NOW!"
  • pat84pat84 Member Posts: 817
    But what if Kinley was doing the speed limit in the passing lane ? ;-)
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,675
    If the ramp is light volume, I let in 1 car for 2 that go through in the main lane. If it's a heavy volume ramp, I let in one car for each car going through (Example: I70 and I75 at afternoon peak flow.)

    2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,

  • scotianscotian Member Posts: 1,064
    Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. That's pretty much how I drive, and I let people in most of the time (usually when this occurs traffic is so dense that one more car in front of me is irrelevant -- I have no hope of making forward progress). When I don't, it's because I sense they will be slow and there's no advantage to either of us for them to get in front of me (usually this involves them trying to get into a left lane in front of me with no left exit coming up, and there's hope of me making forward progress without them there) -- I have no intention to screw myself over for no reason; they can wait.

    Sometimes I simply cannot yield to someone's request in a safe or reasonable manner and pass them by, but then there are those rare situations when I know the driver will likely execute a desperate and dangerous maneuver and cause us both a lot of pain if I don't let them in (such as where a major highway splits into two), so I go out of my way to let them in.

    Except in the last mentioned situations, I will never let someone in who is not using their turn signal, even if I see their head wagging around looking for room in front of me. If you don't care enough to use your signal, you can burn in hell for the rest of eternity for all I care.
  • hampsterdamhampsterdam Member Posts: 18
    Now why can't they teach these in Drivers Ed?

    Oh, that's right. They don't have Drivers Ed in high schools anymore.
  • carlisimocarlisimo Member Posts: 1,280
    My Drivers' Ed was in high school (4 years ago), but I thought it was a very useless program. All we did was watch videos of people who died in car accidents. Ok, some theory too, but no lessons on lane courtesy at all.
  • fintailfintail Member Posts: 58,415
    Around 10 years ago when I did drivers ed in school, we got to sit in these "simulators" that looked like 1960s era washing machines, and pretend to drive while watching filmstrips that were usually older than we were. I usually paid more attention to the cars in the films than anything else. The "simulators" were hooked up to some kind of antebellum central computer that supposedly monitored your actions...I dunno if it really did, though. I remember the "simulators" took about a full minute to get up to an indicated 60mph. Man I bet that helped make some great drivers.

    There were weekly in-car lessons, which were the only useful part of the course. And it cost a few hundred dollars to take too.
  • eblumeblum Member Posts: 52
    Here in NJ there is a law that if you are not passing, you should stay to the right. Every day, I have to pass the inconsiderate people hogging the left lane on the right. It's a real irritation... and causes more lane shifting, increasing the possibility of accidents.

    I swear that most people, if asked, don't know common traffic law questions such as if you turn onto a 2 lane highway, you must turn into the closest lane.

    How about people that don't wear seat belts? Man, they obviously never took a physics class....
  • carlisimocarlisimo Member Posts: 1,280
    People not wearing their seat belts aren't really been inconsiderate to others in doing so, but they do tend to be worse drivers.

    As for the endless left lane discussions... I gotta argue for some understanding here. Very few people that I've talked to learned about lane courtesy when learning to drive. Driver's Ed said "slower traffic keep right" but it came across as "stay to the right because we're expecting you to listen to us and never drive above 55." So we got the idea that the left lane was for driving 70-75 in.
    Passing lane? Like the lanes in between two yellow lines that you stay out of unless you're passing? OK.
    But passing lane on a normal freeway? There aren't enough lanes as it is... they all fill up here in the Bay Area, so when I heard that one lane was supposed to stay pretty much open I was like... woah, I've been driving for a few years and never noticed that the left lane was treated any differently from the one next to it.

    I only learned about all this when I got into cars and joined forums with experienced drivers in them. Now I help spread the knowledge, but expecting people on the road to know this... is unrealistic. Complaining to us who know won't help. You have to complain to those who don't. And to those who are supposed to teach it in the first place.
  • sphinx99sphinx99 Member Posts: 776
    It can be really annoying when I'm in a lane (not the left ones) on cruise control at the speed limit, and someone comes up behind me, changes lanes, passes me, changes lanes to get in front of me, then slows down to 3mph slower than I was going.

    These days, when that happens, I just pass them right back and get back on cruise control.
  • treehumpindogtreehumpindog Member Posts: 22
    who gave me the finger because i was going too "slow" for his liking, and so he swerved right into my lane and nearly pushed me off the road. well, as it turns out, he was late (aren't we always?) for an early morning appointment at the clinic where i work as a proctologist. imagine the look on his face when i walked into the examination room and snapped the XXXL rubber glove onto my gigantic hand. now who's giving who the finger? hahahahahahahahahahaha!
  • eblumeblum Member Posts: 52
    I think they are inconsiderate cause I have to pay to have their brains scraped up off the road and implanted back into their thick skulls for another chance to kill themselves :) Car and medical insurance is expensive enough...

    Well, here on the east coast (NJ and PA) the stay right issue is law and on the driving test, so people should know. Then again, many drivers here in NJ can't read anyway... go figure.

    oh, treehumpindog, I did appreciate you warming your hands up first....sorry about giving you the bird......
  • ern35ern35 Member Posts: 11
    I need to vent about those who drive as if it's 80 and sunny outside!

    First of all, those with 4-wheel drive who feel the need to tailgate, then pass me, then cut back in front of me, while showering me with clouds of snow...just because your vehicle is twice as big as mine, doesn't mean that you have the right to drive like an idiot. And if its windy and snowy, I'm not going to go any faster just so you can get to your destination 30 seconds faster.

    Although sometimes I see something that makes me feel better...like the time i saw three SUV's and a police car pulled over into a lot at the bottom of a hill - apparently the three hit each another...sorry, but I got a chuckle out of it.

    Second is the idiot who can't be bothered to remove all the snow from the top of their car, so there's a foot-high pile right in the center, which then proceeds to blow and throw chunks of snow and sometimes ice into me as I drive behind them. I saw one today; someone in truck with about 2/3 of their windshield obscured by a big chunk of snow...not sure how they were able to see around that! And then there was the minivan I followed for about 6 miles on the highway, while his snow fell off so I had to keep way back of him.
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,675
    I had ice from the top of an SUV slide off and sail in the air long enough it hit the grill on my car. They should have cleaned off the snow so it didn't melt and refreeze during the night to make a sheet of ice.

    2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,

  • carguy58carguy58 Member Posts: 2,303
    when we had big snowstorms in early 2001 on the news they would say clean your car totally off bcause people weren't clearing snow off their roof off their car. 2001 was a bad winter.

    I was at this intersection on Friday that usually has 2 lanes. People were making it a 3 lane intersection. This person in their Lincoln Navigator would not move. People were trying to get around him(pass them to the left or the right)They were holding up the intersection. I don't get people sometimes in the snow. Then you get the people in their rear wheel drive cars. I saw this guy in his Lincoln trying to make a turn. He got stuck in the ice and was spinning his wheels heavily to try to get out of the ice. Then this person going up a little hill in their 03 Cadillac CTS got stuck a little bit(he faired better than the guy in the Lincoln.) It took the person a little while in the Cadillac to get out of the ice but they did it. I went around him but the Cadillac held up the traffic some. To the Cadillac drivers credit that little hill was icy. I have FWD and even I was slipping and sliding.
  • eharri3eharri3 Member Posts: 640
    How quickly left lane hogs move out of my way now that I have a higher riding truck with fog lights. Used to be in my 2wd Ranger ID be sitting behind the cretins doing 56 mph for 10-15 miles at a time sometimes, now they move right over. I wonder why.
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,675
    Now we have another tailgater with headlights blinding people in front of them and using their vehicle as a bully machine. Sometimes these guys think they're semi drivers and should have the right-of-way yielded by anyone who happens to be in front of them.
    Just what we needed, more inconsiderate trucker wannabes.

    2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,

  • jaserbjaserb Member Posts: 820
    Ask yourself one question: is it foggy right now? If the answer is no, TURN OFF YOUR FOG LIGHTS!!!

    This is a pet peeve of mine ever since I got LASIK surgery. A 4x4 truck with fog lights and headlights blazing hurts just as bad as a passenger car with its high beams on.
    The worst are high end sport utes - think LX470, Range Rover, G wagen, etc - with Xenon lights. Yes, I know they're supposed to be self leveling but when the idiot driver is 6" from your rear bumper it doesn't help much.

    Inconsiderate indeed.

    -Jason
  • vchengvcheng Member Posts: 1,284
    ...have xenon lights.
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    ..."Used to be in my 2wd Ranger ID be sitting behind the cretins doing 56 mph for 10-15 miles at a time sometimes, ..."

    It might be far better to have passed them on the right about 9-14 miles back! :)
  • loncrayloncray Member Posts: 301
    No, I gotta go with EHarri on this one. Folks have forgotten the common courtesy of letting faster traffic pass to the left. If leaving my foglights on means that slower traffic will finally get out of my way, so be it. That's not bullying, it's using legal means to show my desire to pass. I don't tailgate anyone unless they've cut me off - I figure those folks must want to be in my lights pretty bad to have cut me off, so I fulfill their wishes.
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    "Folks have forgotten the common courtesy of letting faster traffic pass to the left. If leaving my foglights on means that slower traffic will finally get out of my way, so be it. "

    I would agree with you! However, if you are coming up behind a LLC and are within 2 mississippi seconds behind him and he does not look like he will move over right when safe, chances are he is not looking to move for love nor money, then discretion is the better part of valor. Just because the one in front of you is a CAD, that declaration will not wash if he slows down and you rear end him. :(
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,675
    You forget the feeling of power by being in a _big_ truck with lights shining right
    into the rear mirrors and passenger compartment. For many weak egos that the
    feeling of power that they need to be fulfilled, for a few seconds at least.

    Forcing someone to do what you want is easy satisfaction. Passing on the
    right and getting on down the road wouldn't leave that power surge in the blood.

    It's the reptilian brain needs that the psychologist talked about in a CBS program about
    designing cars. He consults with car makers in their designs to make the cars (trucks)
    appeal to certain people's needs. Those people do not get fulfillment the usual ways
    through a spouse, children, and their work success. They buy a vehicle that
    allows them to feel they are something different than their own original insufficient self.

    2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,

  • loncrayloncray Member Posts: 301
    I agree, RU - it's gotta be case by case. The foglights help those LLC's who are paying attention to the world (not yakking on cellphones, etc) make the decision to get over. For those LLC's who aren't moving for love or money (nice phrase), they make ME feel better knowing that the moron in front of me is making himself uncomfortable by staying in the path of my lights.
  • loncrayloncray Member Posts: 301
    Oh, I agree Imi - my big truck ('03 Ram 2500) definitely strokes my ego (though it's a matter of opinion as to it being weak/unfulfilled or not) - and it is tempting to bully sometimes. The problem is, there are too many folks on the road here in Northern VA to just pass on the right and be done with it. Also, since you're in people's blind spots when you do that, it's not as safe as passing on the left.
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    "Also, since you're in people's blind spots when you do that, it's not as safe as passing on the left. "

    So since you are talking safety in the left lane, you are a full 3 mississipi seconds behind the LLC? :) (my gut tells me you are right up his A--! How safe is that? :( )
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,675
    "...you're in people's blind spots when you do that, it's not as safe as passing on the left."

    AND... tailgating them and blinding them with high lights and fog lights intentionally misaimed to be obnoxious IS safe! LOL

    Good driving is a characteristic of a secure person.

    2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,

  • pat84pat84 Member Posts: 817
    I find it interesting how snow brings out the worst drivers. I have an extendable snow brush. I can clear snow off my windows , hood and roof. Why do I clear the snow off my roof ? That's so when some anal pore pulls out in front of me and I have to stop quickly, the snow doesn't slide down on my windshield from my roof.
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,675
    Can partially melt from interior heat or during the day from warming up. It becomes slush, then refreezes. If it lets go at highway speeds after that it can fly off as ice chunks and damage cars behind who hit it before it hits the pavement.

    Semi trailers are bad about having ice on top that melts and then blows off.

    2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,

  • loncrayloncray Member Posts: 301
    RU, you're half right. I'm not right on anybody's bumper (again, unless they've cut me off to get in front of me), but a full 3 seconds behind anyone around here is simply an invitation to get cut off. And my headlights and foglights aren't misaimed at all - they're inspected every year (State of VA), the truck is it's stock height (albeit it's a pretty tall truck), and I keep an eye on where the light is focused.
  • akanglakangl Member Posts: 3,282
    Around here snow brings out the semis in huge numbers. Nothing against truckers, I have some very good friends who are truckers, but it just seems like they lay and wait for it to snow. In Alaska our snow is very dry and it blows, so get a few inches on the road and a semi goes by, instant zero visability.
  • pat84pat84 Member Posts: 817
    Do you know what I call those pieces of slush that are thrown up by your tires and then later freeze behind the tires in big frozen chunks ? I call them fenderburgs.
  • andre1969andre1969 Member Posts: 26,023
    heading south on Route 301 in Maryland, between Bowie and Upper Marlboro. I was riding down with my roommate to pick up my truck, which I had driven down there earlier, when the dealer said my Intrepid was ready to be picked up from servicing. I was in the left lane behind a previous-gen Dodge Ram, who was riding the tail of a Rodeo that was camping out. Traffic was passing by on the right, and it was just making a bad situation in general.

    finally, FINALLY, after what seemed an eternity, the Ram flashed its lights and the Rodeo got over. But then, just as I'm about to pass, and mind you, I'm fairly close to the Ram, the Rodeo just cuts right back over in front of me, so close that I could read the number L93DOT92lxh33439a on one of the taillights! ;-) And then he slows down in front of me!

    So I shoot past him on the right, and he tries to speed up to cut me off, but he's no match for the rev-happy 2.7 in my Intrepid. I cut back over in front of him, as my buddy screams in terror, wetting himself.

    Trooper driver panics, swerves onto the shoulder, and rolls it better than Consumer Reports ever could have. Ends up in oncoming traffic, in front of a logging truck. Logging truck jacknifes, drops its load, and one of the result is so gruesome that I'd better just stop right there.

    Okay, time to roll back a bit here...it's all true, up to the point of my buddy wetting himself, and me causing an accident. Just thought I'd throw in a little artistic license ;-)

    Anyway, I did cut back in front of the guy, and he did try to speed up to cut me off, but I got back in front of him with room to spare. After that, he slowed back down, holding up traffic again.

    Traffic then started to slow in general, so I never got so far ahead that he was out of my sight. A red light slowed us all down, too. Just as I was making my left turn to go into the dealership, this piece-of-work suddenly dives off (if you can use "dives off" to describe someone going so slow) into the right lane, making people over there slam on their brakes.

    Where do these people get their licenses?
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