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  • pat84pat84 Member Posts: 817
    Using a turn signal will confuse people and have them wreck ? Sounds incredible.
  • ranaldranald Member Posts: 147
    That gave me a good laugh, thanks.

    Problem is, you could pull out all the "Connecticuts" and insert the name of any state in the Northeast and it would be just as true. Except 5, that's a NJ thing all the way!
  • carguy58carguy58 Member Posts: 2,303
    I was just getting on RT 22 East in Bridgewater, NJ. This guy in his BMW M3 was behind me a couple cars back. I was in the right lane(its 3 lanes in that section of Rt 22) he goes into the middle lane and like BMw drivers always do they zoom past you just to show off. The funny thing after he passes me he gets back into the right lane and then zooms right into the Volvo dealership. Looking back it was kinda stipid of the guy to do what he did but its also hilarious looking back at it.
  • cnorthrupcnorthrup Member Posts: 74
    A BMW owner.
  • carguy58carguy58 Member Posts: 2,303
    but it just seems like whenever I look there's a German Car speeding past me all the time.
  • ny540i6ny540i6 Member Posts: 518
    Don't look. :)
  • seminole_kevseminole_kev Member Posts: 1,696
    you're not the guy in the camcord who goes 25 in front of me through a long, fun, sweeping on-ramp are you? ;-)

    (no I don't even drive a German car)
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    Well... maybe the inconsiderate ones should stay home!

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  • ranaldranald Member Posts: 147
    I was driving along on a 3 lane section of I78, near the airport as you approach the Turnpike tolls. The rightmost lane is exit only, and I'm in the left lane with a Miata in front of me.

    I clearly want to go faster than he does. So he puts on his right turn signal. Hurray! And proceeds to change from the left side of the lane to the right side of the lane. Oh, dear. Is he a jerk, or merely a little.. slow?

    Perhaps he just needs encouragement- so I flick my brights, to ask him to move over (there are 2 nearly empty lanes to the right). He does nothing. So I pass on the right, at which point he puts on his brights. And holds them.

    Start off as a moron, and add jerk to the resume.

    So I slowed down and LLC'ed. :) Sometimes it can be fun to go slow, if just for a little while. Remember if you're going to act like a jerk, someone just might notice and return the favor.
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,675
    Once again we have 6 inches of wet snow. The SUV and Jeep drivers don't slow down enough. They seem to have a feeling of omnipotence as they roll by like they're sitting up on a throne.

    Gave me pleassure to see two of them in the ditch. Also saw two older front wheel drives in the ditch (Escort and Somerset).

     Some folks just don't understand that heavy, wet snow pulls when you hit a ridge of it where wheels have pushed in along the tracks.

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  • pat84pat84 Member Posts: 817
    What is a Somerset ?
  • fintailfintail Member Posts: 58,415
    c.85-87 small car on the same platform as the period Grand Am/Cutlass Calais. Won't go down as one of the best cars ever. Also, I think it was a trim package on earlier Regals.

    I too like seeing the SUVs ditched and crashed in the snow...as I slowly but steadily plod along in my big heavy old RWD car.

    I have noticed a few bad driving trends that seem to be getting more popular in my area. First off is cellphone talking while driving. This has to be stopped. Second is braindead idiots sitting there with a finger up their nose when the light changes. Wake up! And third is the worst...people (of a certain age and gender demographic it seems...) who will pull out in front of you from a side street and expect you to slow down to let them in. When you pull out in front of someone a half block away when they are going 40mph, it causes problems. It's especially bad in my fintail of all cars...like it is invisible. When a 40 year old Mercedes t-bones a 5 year old Civic at 40mph, one car (or driver) will be much better off than the other.
  • seminole_kevseminole_kev Member Posts: 1,696
    Don't forget that when those people pull right infront of you from a side street, there usually won't be anyone behind you for a mile, but they can't wait for that extra second.

    Actually how it happens to me is a slight variation on your's above.

    With me, I'll see somebody sitting on a side street way up ahead with all day to go without bothering anyone....but they don't. Instead they wait...and wait....and wait until I'm almost right there and then pull out in front of me doing 5mph! Never mind the fact that no one is behind me. (argggggggghhhhhh)
  • seminole_kevseminole_kev Member Posts: 1,696
    People who, on a busy road, want to come in from a side business parking lot but don't pull remotely close to the street. Not sure if I'm explaining it well, but they want to turn into the traffic, but sit 20 feet back off the road. I'm not stopping to let you in when it's going to take forever for you just to get to where I'm at. Pull up close to the road and at least look like you want to get into traffic. It's like they're afraid of the stream of moving traffic.

    If I sound like I'm being too harsh, I used to stop for the people doing that, but get screwed as I'd miss the light because they took forever to get out infront of me, or simply never went at all (Fintail's finger in nose people?)
  • ateixeiraateixeira Member Posts: 72,587
    Saw a woman applying eye liner and mascara today while driving (slowly). Vanity mirror and all.

    Then saw a guy reading the newspaper.

    How can they drive if they can't see? :p

    -juice
  • vchengvcheng Member Posts: 1,284
    ....I was driving with the traffic at about 80 mph. I saw a black Escalade really hauling coming up behind me, so I moved over. That thing went past me at about 100-105 mph (my estimate). Fine. But what was following was the real gem.

    About 10 yards behind was a red Mustang, slipstreaming I suppose, with the driver woman applying mascara!

    I kid you not. These two vehicles left the interstate a few miles down at the next exit. I thanked God.
  • bottgersbottgers Member Posts: 2,030
    .....where in the he11 are all the cops? They can't all be sitting at the doughnut shops, can they? If there were even a couple patrolmen on these roads where all these idiots are being a hazard, they could be stopping them and writing them up at least for wreckless driving. All this cell phone yacking, makeup applying, and news paper reading while driving needs to be stopped.

    I have adopted a couple of new strategies. The first deals with the aforementioned driver who's in such a he11-fire hurry they can't wait until you go by, instead he must pull out in front of you and then drive 10 mph under the speed limit. In this case, I pass the driver, then pull into the lane in front of him (all while signaling and without making any radical or agressive moves), then I gradually slow down to about 10 mph less than he was driving. As it turns out, most of these drivers don't like the taste of their own medicine. I just hope they're getting the point.

    My second new strategy deals with merging onto the freeway. Here, our freeway entrances are posted with merge signs instead of yield signs. Apparently, many drivers here don't know what "merge" means because many times when I enter the freeway, drivers refuse to move over into the left lane even when it's completely empty. As I'm coming down the ramp, I will observe the traffic on the freeway. If the left lane is open and there's a vehicle in the right lane that's not moving over, I make sure I'm doing the speed limit and that my turn signal is on, and I slowly pull over into the right lane. Doing this I've forced people to move over into the left lane, and have even drew a few penalty flags (people flipping me the bird). So what? Merge means merge, and as long as the left lane is open, I've got the right away to pull onto the freeway. They need to move their butts over without having to be forced over. Idiot drivers!
  • seminole_kevseminole_kev Member Posts: 1,696
    but the vehicle on the highway has the right of way. Now, I agree completely that people should get over if the left lane is open (I do that all the time) but if there is traffic, the on ramp people need to make an effort to match speed and effectively merge. Not just get over (which I see a lot of too. They may have a 1/4 mile to get up to speed, but they merge into traffic at 35mph when it is moving at 70). Now all of this is assuming that you don't have those jerks that "close the gap" to block you off. You know the ones that will suddenly speed up and almost touch the car in front of them to stop someone from getting on. (There are certain times for that behavior - ie the lane closing, last second bypassers or backed up traffic bypassers, but people honestly merging isn't one of them)
  • fintailfintail Member Posts: 58,415
    Sometimes I want some huge old Dodge Power Wagon or something for when people pull out in front of me as I am speeding down a deserted road. Then I could ram them into oblivion and never turn back.

    Many people in my area seem to think an on-ramp is merely a little road leading to the freeway, and that you are supposed to accelerate once you hit the freeway.
  • stickguystickguy Member Posts: 53,342
    first rule of life: you can't teach people a lesson by giving them a taste of their own medecine, because they will never recognize themselves.

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  • emmanuelchokeemmanuelchoke Member Posts: 97
    I've often wondered if it irks a tailgater to be tailgated. I rarely offer payback, but it seems the people who earn it will most likely have strangely pointed heads, and be oblivious to their surroundings.
  • bottgersbottgers Member Posts: 2,030
    I guess I'll just keep doing what I'm doing for my own satisfaction.
  • seminole_kevseminole_kev Member Posts: 1,696
    never teaches them a lesson and nowadays most of the offenders are on the cellphone, so you can't even get their attention to let them know they've done something wrong.
  • nine51nine51 Member Posts: 77
    I am coming to the conclusion that at least 1/2 of the drivers on the road are drunk or stoned, and close to 1/2 of the other ones are just stupid. I used to consider myself somewhat of an aggressive driver, (5 to 10 mph over the limit on highway) but I seem more like a timid little rabbit lately. On my last trip to Chicago, the toll way was a good practice course for the NASCAR circuit. SUV's running at 90+, tailgating each other while the drivers had cell phones to their ears. Rapid, mufti-lane, lane changes without signals, with only inches to spare between vehicles. Still, there were those who decided that the left lane was the right place to doze off, and not care how many vehicles were backing up behind them. Saw some pretty close calls when the cell phone yakers finally realized they were closing in on a LLC at 20 or 30 mph faster.

    The other pet peeve is the lane changers. Why can't these fools just stay in their lanes? I see it every night. The traffic is heavy, with all 3 lanes of the freeway traveling at about the same speed. There always has to be a few jerks that are running back and forth across every lane, 10 times per mile. Of course they never signal, and if I'm in the left lane, behind other cars, they seem to think I should move over for them and let them pass. Da%##it, I want to get past just as much as you do, wait your turn! If I'm in the passing lane, I'm passing! If the traffic clears ahead of me and you are still behind me, I'll move over, OR I'll floor it and get out of your way.

    The truckers are just as guilty as the 4 wheelers with this one. They see you coming up on the left side to pass, and they pull out in front of you to pass another slower truck, and proceed to pass at .001 mph faster than the slow truck. Takes them 5 miles!

    Maybe thats why most of the other drivers are drinking;)
  • bottgersbottgers Member Posts: 2,030
    How do you folks feel about laws against cell phone use while driving? I'd like to see this law go into effect nationwide. I can't think of a single reason why a person would need to be talking on a cell phone while they're driving anyway. I can think of 100 reasons why people shouldn't talk on cell phones while driving. Now if the vehicle is stopped and the person wants to use the cell phone, or if passengers want to use it while the vehicle is in motion, that's fine. I've just seen way too many near misses caused by the driver paying more attention to his/her cell phone rather than their driving.
  • seminole_kevseminole_kev Member Posts: 1,696
    well I'd actually go a step further and say inattentive driving should be punishable. This would include cell phone users who aren't paying attention AND the people who are reading books, turned all the way around talking to the kids, people who are asleep, looking at the wreck on the opposite side of the highway that kind of thing, people who are fighting, etc...

    Maybe I'm evil, but I enjoy watching video of in Europe when the pull people over for reading books and the like. Warms up my heart to see people getting punished for not paying any damn attention to the road while driving.

    I see a ton of people every day who are not paying one lick of attention to the road. Really, really ticks me off.
  • seminole_kevseminole_kev Member Posts: 1,696
    I forgot that when I was dating my (now) wife she was rear-ended by a lady in a minivan who was turned around messing with her kids. Not just a gentle tap, but hit her so hard it drove her Nissan pickup up a good embankment off the road a bit and into some bushes. Pretty hard impact.

    Totally had forgotten about that.
  • kmagkmag Member Posts: 98
    Dont take this personally but to me, your mergeing method also makes you the inconsiderate driver. Whats wrong with slowing down a little and getting in behind the other guy? Or speeding up and getting ahead of him?

    I had a run in with a guy who apparently thought like you do, a month or so ago. I was in the right lane going 70, I saw him coming up the ramp from the right and assumed he would get in behind me if was going at a normal speed. However was in a big old hurry, and at the point at which he could begin to merge his front wheels were off my rears. By now there was an approaching car in the left lane. I maintain my speed. Mr Merger is PO'd and gets in right on my bumper, so close I can see only hood behind me, no headlights. He swings left as soon as he can, pulls beside me, flips me off, swerves at me, and takes off.

    I will get over or slow down for someone merging, but Ive been burnt too many times by people trying to second guess what I am going to do. I slow down, they slow down. I speed up they speed up. I move over and they are merging so slowly that I didnt need to. So my philosophy now is that if traffic is not heavy and Im cruising along, I am going to continue on at the same speed in the same lane, unless I can see ahead that I need to make an adjustment. I am not going to make an adjustment at the merging point for someone coming on. It is the responsibility of the person merging to adjust their speed so that they will merge into an opening and not have to bully someone into making an opening for them.
  • bottgersbottgers Member Posts: 2,030
    I know exactly what you mean. Most people driving these appartment buildings on wheels seem to have this false sense of invincability about them. The vast majority of them speed and tailgate regardless of the road conditions or amount of traffic. They obviously have no regard for the safety of anyone else on the road, and their only mission is to get from point A to point B as fast as possible, all while making as many cell phone calls as possible.

    About the truckers. I recently finished truck driving school and I can tell you from what I learned in this course, these truckers who drive 10-20 MPH over the speed limit, tailgate, and weave in and out of traffic should be arrested for wreckless endangerment. If a trucker is following you within a car length or two and you had to stop quickly, he'd run right over you. Trucks take 4 times the distance a car takes to stop. The guys you see doing this, and there's a lot of them out there, shouldn't even have a CDL. Once I start my new job, which will include driving the big rigs, I'll be chewing some [non-permissible content removed] if/when I see other truckers doing this crap. There's absolutely no excuse for truckers to be driving like this because they know better!
  • bottgersbottgers Member Posts: 2,030
    In that case, had I been entering the highway, I would've slowed down and entered behind you because of the approaching car in the left lane. The only time I move over into the right lane when another vehicle is in the right lane is if the left lane is completely open and the person in the right lane is just being an idiot by not moving over into the left lane. Obviously, the driver in the right lane can't move over into the left lane if there's another vehicle there.
  • carguy58carguy58 Member Posts: 2,303
    No I never drive a Camry or an Accord.

    As far as people driving their cars with cellphones in their ears why do not to talk to somebody that bad? When your done driving home from your work you can call that person you need to call and use your homephone. There is no reason why you have to call somebody while in your car driving.
  • cnorthrupcnorthrup Member Posts: 74
    I have come to the conclusion that nothing is going to change.

    The hard part is how am I going to fit into the equation.

    Some of the worst drivers often have kids in the car who are "learning" from watching their parents. A new generation of bad drivers is on the way.
  • sphinx99sphinx99 Member Posts: 776
    I think truckers are excellent drivers. Every now and then I see one whose driving worries me, but for the most part I find them to be the safest drivers on the road. They don't weave, they don't speed, they don't tailgate, and they patiently apply turn signals and wait for an opening.
  • ranaldranald Member Posts: 147
    About talking on cell phones in cars:

    Are you always alone in the car when you drive? Unlikely. When you have passengers, do you ever talk to them? I thought so.

    There's no inherent difference between hand's free cell phone use and taking with the occupants of your car.

    You're attempting to address one symptom, not the real problem. The problem is people not paying attention to driving. There are any number of ways that can manifest itself, and if you legislate against any single one of them then people will find other ways to not pay attention to the road.

    Next you'll be trying to outlaw car stereos. (Some commuter types I know *really* get into their audio books.)
  • sphinx99sphinx99 Member Posts: 776
    I'm a far worse driver when I'm talking to passengers, than when I'm driving by myself.

    In fact, I actually feel safer driving and talking on the phone, than I do driving with a passenger. I don't know why but at least I can make phone conversion utterly mindless, and I can always hang up, so it rarely is a major distraction. Whereas every now and then a passenger will say "so what's the meaning of life?" and I'll start swerving.
  • seminole_kevseminole_kev Member Posts: 1,696
    one main difference is that most passengers know at least when to shutup (like when you're trying to merge between to cement trucks) whereas the person on the other end of the phone keeps on yammering away, dividing your attention.

    But as I said above, punish inattentive driving (of which cell phones are one of the biggest culprits I see day to day). Just punish all of it.
  • tornado25tornado25 Member Posts: 267
    "Apparently, many drivers here don't know what "merge" means because many times when I enter the freeway, drivers refuse to move over into the left lane even when it's completely empty. As I'm coming down the ramp, I will observe the traffic on the freeway. If the left lane is open and there's a vehicle in the right lane that's not moving over, I make sure I'm doing the speed limit and that my turn signal is on, and I slowly pull over into the right lane. Doing this I've forced people to move over into the left lane, and have even drew a few penalty flags (people flipping me the bird). So what? Merge means merge, and as long as the left lane is open, I've got the right away to pull onto the freeway."

    Bottgers, I read the above and I read your response to kmag's post and determined that 1) YOU are the one that doesn't know what merge means and 2) you do NOT have the "right away" (also known as the "right of way") to pull onto to the freeway. The driver on the highway has the right of way and although you need not "yield" in the legal sense, you are obligated to find a speed appropriate to merge into traffic--remember YOU are merging with flow of traffic, not the other way around.

    If the left lane is clear, I certainly always move over, because it is courteous. However, if the other driver is doing the speed limit and staying in the right lane (as he should be), the onus is then on you slightly slow down to pull behind him or slightly speed up to merge ahead of him. If you were to do this to me "forced people to move over into the left lane", you can be certain I will stay with you until the police have pulled you over, not because I'm a traffic [non-permissible content removed], but because I would assume you are either drunk or driving recklessly. Again, I'll emphasize a driver not moving over if able is not courteous or civil, but it certainly isn't illegal (as LLCing is).
  • ranaldranald Member Posts: 147
    You say that at least people inside the car know when to shut up so as not to distract the driver... then I see you've never had certain of my female relatives in your passenger seat. :)

    And let me assert that someone on the other end of a cell phone conversation is *much* easier to "tune out" than someone sitting next to you who *will* not be ignored.

    That said, I agree with you totally that what needs to be enforced is attentiveness while driving. After all, if selective or simply non-enforcement of current regulations is leading to something like anarchy on the roads, what good exactly is it going to do to pass more regulations?
  • scotianscotian Member Posts: 1,064
    pretty much sucks. When merging, one should examine the current state of the right lane (holes between cars and speed of cars), decide which hole is most appropriate, and merge into that hole, accelerating or decelerating as required. Blindly shoving people over is not an option, especially if there is plenty of room in front of or behind the car you are trying to hit.

    Of course, in heavy, cramped traffic, those in the right lane need to try to figure out what the merging car will attempt and make an accomodating maneuver if required, but only when the merging car really has no other option than to elbow its way in.

    This ain't rocket science...
  • gambit293gambit293 Member Posts: 406
    Bottgers, I agree with your sentiment that people who don't move over are inconsiderate or oblivious.

    But...IT'S JUST NOT WORTH IT to try to teach them a lesson. They will almost certainly NOT get the point, and a bad situation will just get worse.

    What if you tried to "teach" one of these drivers, and a serious accident occurred? Even if you are legally in the clear, do you want to deal with car insurance, physical injuries, police, car-in-the-shop and all that headache?

    If for some reason you were to actually end up chatting with such an offender, I bet you'd find that he/she is actually a fairly nice person. Lots of bad drivers are normal people; they just have different standards of driving than us car nuts.
  • nine51nine51 Member Posts: 77
    "They don't weave, they don't speed, they don't tailgate, and they patiently apply turn signals and wait for an opening."

    Surely you jest! Maybe you are driving in some other part of the country than I am, but truckers have become just as inconsiderate as the "4 wheelers". Not trying to get into an argument here, but have you ever listened to a CB radio? I use one on the interstate. It's great for getting a heads up on what is going on up ahead, but you really get an insight as to what they are thinking. Lots of them brag about how they intimidate the "4 wheelers". Sure, most truckers are OK, but there are a lot of them that should be locked up. Give them a wide berth, and don't stay nearby for long, and ladies... be careful what you are doing/wearing/not wearing in your car. They can see everything from up there.
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,675
    Some companies in this area have good, safe drivers in their semis.

    As for many others, what area are you in sphinx99 that the truckers are always courteous.

    Cellphone. I watch people on cell phones and they are not reacting to what's going on around them. There's something about communcating ont he phone that's different than talking to a passenger.

    They are trying to concentrate and read the voice inflections to infer the other person's meanings. In real live conversation it's easy to hear the intonation and get the meaning. I've used a cellphone and it's distracting. I occasionally use ONSTAR and find it's less distracting than Nextel.

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  • bottgersbottgers Member Posts: 2,030
    Hands-off cell phones are less distracting than hand held phones, problem is, almost nobody has them. This argument of lumping cell phones in the same distraction catagory as stereo systems is ridiculous. Cell phones are far more distracting than stereo systems. Can anyone in here tell me why anyone needs to use a cell phone while they're driving anyway? There is no reason. Using one in an emergency is another issue all together, but their use in the vehicle should only be allowed if the vehicle is parked.

    As far as some of you disapproving of my merging tactic, I don't really care what you think. I'm sick and tired of having to always give in to idiot drivers just because they're too busy blabbing on their cell phones to pay attention to what's going on around them.
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  • eharri3eharri3 Member Posts: 640
    I could care less if people don't want to do the considerate thing and clear out of the merging lane. I can almost always be 20-25 mph faster than the flow of traffic by the time I move over. One of the big reasons I just HAD to have a V8 in my new Dakota... so I can do what I need to do and make the moves I need to in traffic regardless of whether other people on the road want to be nice and make life easy for me or not.

    Ive had plenty of cars actually speed up and try to get past when they saw me trying to merge. Everybody assumes you'll slow them down so nobody wants to end up being the guy you merge in front of. But then you get a long line of cars all too lazy to move over a lane and nobody wants anybody else in front of them and it can get aggravating. What a surprise it must have be for some of these people who try to crowd me out when the situation switches from them being next to me not giving ground to me pulling away going 25 mph faster than they are and disappearing in the distance. I did this to a newer Altima just the other night. There seems to be plenty of people out on the road who get on the merging lane and then forget why they even bought a car with all that horsepower in the first place. I do not. I paid alot of money for it. I like getting my money's worth.
  • sphinx99sphinx99 Member Posts: 776
    I'm in the Detroit metro area. Truckers always drive below the speed limit, a good distance behind others, and do not change lanes abruptly... at least here. The Speed Racers in their family sedans are far and away more frightening to me.

    On merging, sometimes I do the same as the guy who's getting beaten up here, and hold my course. I've had waaaaaay too many close calls where I slowed down to let someone into a hole only to see them slow down, or sped up to get past someone trying to merge only to see them try to race me. I know that I can't anticipate what's going on in the mind of the person trying to merge. I wish I could, but I can't read minds. So, I kind of trust that they can read my cruise control and constant speed better than I can read their unknown acceleration, and I let them make the adjustment. If they feel that they can pass me, they are welcome to floor it and get ahead. If they don't feel that they can pass me, they can brake and get behind. Either way I'll try to maintain a steady speed.

    Occasionally I will slow down or speed up if we're side by side, the lane is ending, and I can visibly tell that they are try to get ahead [or behind] me, just to make it easier.

    "I could care less if people don't want to do the considerate thing and clear out of the merging lane."

    I'd love to clear out of the rightmost lane but some of us want to be able to drive at the speed limit without being forced to drive faster by the Speed Racers because they feel that everyone should drive like them. On some freeways at some times, even the second-to-right lane is going 5-10mph over the limit, and if I'm in that lane I'm sure Joe Racer will come here calling me a LLC or something. (At the minimum I'll get the usual tailgating.) Being in the right lane seemingly is the only place where I can drive at legal speeds and not have everyone on the road holding it against me.

    But if I'm in the right lane, then I'm inconsiderate to the mergers?

    Man, you really can't win.
  • bottgersbottgers Member Posts: 2,030
    There's absolutely nothing wrong with driving in the right lane, as long as you're willing to move into the left lane (providing it's clear) when there's merging traffic.
  • eharri3eharri3 Member Posts: 640
    But 10-15 seconds to move over to the middle or left lane and let a merger in. It's not like Im telling you you have to get out of the merging lane and never come back.

    As for truckers... maybe a tiny handful of times in my 8 years of driving, like 2-3 times, I've seen a real jerk behind the wheel of a big rig. I remember once one of the big dump truck type things with the open bin in the back came barreling through traffic, tailgating, weaving in and out, forcing people out of his way, following cars at 2 car lenghts or less at 7, and THAT was probably the worst I've ever seen. He had pretty much everyone he encountered on that stretch of road on the phone to the police.

    A few other times I've seen truckers start to move over like they didn't notice a car was there. I even had it done to me once. A couple times it just seems like they get frustrated with getting blocked out of lanes and just proceed to move over and leave it to the next driver over to stop being a jerk and let them in. I find them more irritating than anyone else, especially with their 15 minute uphill passes at a .0005 mph speed differential. I think with few exceptions they should be barred from the far left lane.

    But it's what Ive seen people DO around trucks that scares me more. Like the idiots who will hover in a truck's blindspot without passing for miles at a time. It's stupid enough to do this with cars, but with a 100 foot long, 10 thousand pound vehicle? I dont know what the heck it is that attracts some drivers to other vehicles' blind spots, but I am always intrigued by the phenomenon where the car will be in the process of passing, then pause for an extended period of time in your blind spot before proceeding.

    Then there's the drafters, who will hunker down 2-3 car lengths directly behind a tractor trailer where they are completely outside of the driver's field of view. Is the savings in gas mileage really worth it considering the driver of that behemoth in front of you has no clue whatsoever that you're even there? Or those who will be stuck behind a truck in the left lane then fly by him on the right as soon as a gap opens up even though he obviously wants to do the right thing and get over. This will often trap a big rig in the left lane and and snarl traffic even more.
  • sphinx99sphinx99 Member Posts: 776
    Wow, that would be a pain to have to change lanes every 30 seconds. There are commutes involving highways with on-ramps and off-ramps at one mile intervals, you know. I'd spend more time switching lanes than going forward.

    Look, I fully agree in being courteous whenever possible. But saying that someone who is in the right lane at the speed limit is inconsiderate and saying on the exact same hand that someone driving the speed limit in the left lane ALSO is inconsiderate, really takes the cake.

    I stand by what I said: you really can't win. No matter how a person drives, it's going to piss off someone else who expects others to drive their way. All you can do is try to avoid pissing off the minimum number of people possible, and not make eye contact with those who do get upset.
  • bottgersbottgers Member Posts: 2,030
    I guess you haven't seen the way the truckers drive in the Denver area. Some of them drive as a trucker should drive, but most of them are outright dangerous. I had a neighbor who is a trucker and he had to stand in front of a judge and explain why he was following the car in front of him so closely because he got a ticket for aggressive driving. The lawmen need to really start cracking down on all drivers for this type of driving.

    The first time the guy drafting the trucker takes an alligator (that's what the huge pieces of rubber are called when a big rig blows a tire) in the windshield, I guarantee you they will stop drafting. It's not a pretty sight when this happens.
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