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  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    #849 and 850

    # 837 is what I really said!! :)
  • eharri3eharri3 Member Posts: 640
    A) Other than when I am in stop and go or very slow traffic where neither lane is moving much, I must ALWAYS be passing a slower car when I am on the left.

    b) IF the lane is empty in front of me and I know I still am in the process of passing a long line of cars or if Im not passing fast enough for the person behind me(a situation which almost never occurs because my passes usually don't take more than 10 seconds per car) then I will stop passing temporarily and move right to yield to the faster car and then move left to continue my pass once they move one.

    c) If I am headed for a left sided exit such as a rest stop. (By the way I think it's pretty stupid to have people exiting and merging in the passing lane.) But in that case I dont do what most people do and get to the left 25 miles before the exit and then do exactly 55 the whole time. I either wait until signs tell me the exit is nearing to get over or else I get over early but keep my speed up.

    The common denominator: If traffic is flowing freely, you will NEVER see me pacing the car beside me while I am in the left lane. You will also NEVER see more than 5-6 car lengths of space between me and the car in front of me. Maybe these personal rules of mine are extreme, Idonno, but other drivers tend to be very appreciative of my left lane habits.
  • pat84pat84 Member Posts: 817
    I frequently see the left lane totally full and even stopped in bumper to bumper traffic. This on 3 lane Interstates. Check out I-495 in Wash DC during rush hour. Now, no one is passing anyone in the left lane when it, too, is stopped. I can not figure out how the left lane comes to a complete stop and then moves 2-3 car lengths at a time. BTW the middle lane moves faster than the far left lane 4 out 5 times.
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    Actually because of the preponderance of LLC's, the defacto "fast" or passing lane is usually the extreme right lane! I don't mind using it for it is usually guarded by folks like Kinley! :)
  • eharri3eharri3 Member Posts: 640
    As ruking said, people who dont want to expend the effort to change lanes get in the left lane and stay there. Whether they're passing a slower car or not, it's less work for them.

    Also, there's the people who always thqink if they change lanes enough times in heavy bumper to bumper traffic they'll suddenly find that magic lane that gets them ahead of everybody else. So they'll be in the right lane then every 2 minutes when they see that the left lane is moving faster they'll cut in suddenly, forcing the left lane to suddenly come to almost a complete stop. Then the people who are smart enough to pick a lane and stick to it close the gaps in the right lane and move ahead while the left lane stalls as it gets more congested with lane jumpers. Then all the lane jumpers see that for some strange reason the lane they just left is moving faster so they force their way back to the right just in time to cause a slow down on the right. But the net effect is usually that the left lane moves slower because Everybody thinks it's the best place to be, so it gets congested quickly.
  • maltbmaltb Member Posts: 3,572
    I find this to be the case frequently going up grades. The same was true last night going up the Cajon pass. Left lane (#1) was moving about 60-65, #2 was going about the same, #3 was wide open and #4 was slow moving big rigs. I hate doing it and I have to pay strict attention to trucks passing, but I typically take lane 3 at 70-80 and occasionally use lane 4 for a straggler.
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    #856

    Actually, I do app what you do!!! I won't advertise this too much if you dont! :)

    I think Malb has done the math.

    I mean, which makes more sense:
    1. passing a guy like Kinley in the right hand lanes driving rock steady at 55 mph and having clear daylight or

    2. trying to pass 4,5,6,7, cars in the number one lane that will not move out of the way, for whatever reason!!??

    I can tell you what I see most folks doing.. I can also tell you what I think makes more sense!
  • kinleykinley Member Posts: 854
    Getting through the pack is a continuous process because there are always herds to conquer. It is safer to just relax, throttle back and submit to the situation. That brings you home safe and sound only 5 minutes later, but living.
  • maltbmaltb Member Posts: 3,572
    That brings you home safe and sound only 5 minutes later, but living.

    Over the last 6 weeks I have logged almost 5k miles.

    1) I've made it home safe and sound.
    2) I've made it in much less time.
    3) I tend to be more alert and don't get tired when I am constantly on the lookout...almost like a game.
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    #859

    That is also a ditto on this side!
  • pjyoungpjyoung Member Posts: 885
    Put on a nice relaxing new age CD...fall asleep at the wheel and hit a tree...
  • dinu01dinu01 Member Posts: 2,586
    I missed this one for a few mths, and you guys are still going at it.

    My guide for night highway driving:

    For me, if the left lane person is passing someone, then that's cool. I will wait for them to pass. But if they're just sitting there pretty admiring the road, I will get my fogs and high beams on as I approach them and over 95% of the time they will move over. If they don't I will sit there for a few mins and blind them until they do, and if they still don't I will just use the ctr. lane.

    People must be taught lane discipline somehow and since the cops won't do it... Oh God, I sound like "K".

    Dinu
  • eharri3eharri3 Member Posts: 640
    All depends. IF 'the pack' is traffic in general, and there's no reaching daylight no matter how much you try, just relax. But I see no reason why if I'm approaching an isolated pack of cars with clear road ahead that anyone else should be able to hold me back or dictate my speed. For me, it's a choice between travelling with the pack and risking that someone else's accident will become yours too or trying to keep moving so you spend less time in close proximity to others. And believe me, with all the things I see people doing in their cars lately that have nothing to do with driving such as reading, writing, talking on cell phones, eating complete meals(sometimes with both hands while steering with knee), I prefer to keep to myself whenever possible.
  • pjyoungpjyoung Member Posts: 885
    That's the issue...some seem to define LLC as anyone who slows down another driver, regardless of the circumstances. My point is, if I am indeed in the left lane, and passing vehicles at a decent rate, then I am not "camping". Some other posters seem to feel that I should move to the slower lane, reduce my speed, let them pass, then move back over and proceed at the rate I had been going.
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    #864

    "My point is, if I am indeed in the left lane, and passing vehicles at a decent rate, then I am not "camping". Some other posters seem to feel that I should move to the slower lane, reduce my speed, let them pass, then move back over and proceed at the rate I had been going."

    "Keep Right Except to Pass" or "Slower Traffic Keep Right" are the signs stating the law.

    Where in the law have you seen your above quote? I KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt that you INTREPRET the law as you SAY. But that is not what the law says.

    I also made a statement about right lane camping that in CA anyway is not technically correct. On a two lane road (one direction each way) the law makes a provision that if you are impeding 5 cars (behind you) you are obligated when safe to pull off the right side of the road to let them pass.
  • kinleykinley Member Posts: 854
    impeding for no one is to go faster. When there is no speed limit, get out of the way of wannabe racers. The speed limit justifies LLC, but LLC at less than the limit is a no no. When the flow of traffic exceeds the speed limit then the flow is speeding, but the speeding herd going over the cliff does not justify being frustrated at the others driving within the limit. "Slow traffic Keep Right" means slower than the limit, not whatever the "flow" happens to be. Is not the lead driver in the left lane of the speeding flow a LLC? So do you expect the inside lane to be your private speedway?
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    When someone gets out of the #1 or left lane I pass in the #1 or left lane.
  • pjyoungpjyoung Member Posts: 885
    If there are 20 cars in the right lane going 55 and I am in the left lane going 75, I am indeed passing them, therefore, I am heeding the "keep right except to pass" law. I suggest that you satisfy yourself that you are passing the slower traffic...albeit, not at the speed you would like to pass them. If I pass the 20th car and fail to move right, then complain, but methinks you might be the type who would rather sqeeze into the right lane between the front bumper of the 20th car and the rear bumper of my car before I'd ever get the chance to move right so that you could pass me and flip me off. I would agree with you if there were 20 cars in the right lane going 70 and I was in the left lane going 72. That's camping. Going 20 miles per hour faster than the cars in the right lane is far from camping.
  • eharri3eharri3 Member Posts: 640
    Please pardon the long post:
    But I believe very mental patient, retard, and illiterate within 100 miles of the city limits seems to have decided to take a drive all on the same night right when im on the way home from a party in Maryland. Check the news by the way, there were lots of accidents around here tonight including a taxi cab hitting several patrons of a supermarket. Investigators say the guy never hit his brakes once. Go figure.

    Based on some of the stunts I've seen pulled on the highway tonight, I get the impression that the rules in the driver's manual have changed. I imagine the passage now goes something like this. "Actually checking to see if a lane is open before changing into it is now unnecessary, and signals are optional. If a driver wishes to change lanes, they should simply give the wheel a sharp yank with their left hand while crossing themselves with their right, assuming in their prayers that a combination of the grace of god and the reflexes of their fellow motorists will get them safely into the next lane over, all the while staring straight ahead and completley ignoring their mirrors."

    I was almost run off the highway twice tonight. I admit, I am partly to blame. I forgot my normal instincts to never spend more than 10-15 seconds next to another car and allowed myself to become ensnared in packs of slow moving vehicles behind left lane maggots.

    Basically, here's the way it went down both times. I'd be passing other cars doing about 75-80 in the left lane, and suddenly I'd come up behind one of these retards who wants to get in the left lane and make their pass at less than the speed of continental drift because they can concentrate better on talking on their cell phone without spilling their Starbucks frapuccino if they go slower. I'd sit there patiently several car lengths back as a line formed behind me and we passed other traffic at the rate of about 1 inch per half hour. Suddenly, the person beside me would decide that having their car occupy the same space at the same time as mine was more important than getting home alive. And so they would suddenly jerk the wheel sharply my way, leaving it to me to simultaneously lay on my horn and careen wildly onto the narrow shoulder to avoid getting sideswiped by them and rear ended by the tail gater behind me all at once. And it wasn't even like I was approaching at a high rate of speed when they suddenly cut into my lane without accelarating to match my pace. I tend to get a little less ticked off at that because I know it can be difficult to judge speed differentials. I would just be sitting there, hovering directly next to another car for minutes at a time because the idiot in front of me evidently thinks multi-lane highways were desinged so 2 or more cars can cruise along side by side at exactly the same speed.

    So it's not like people looked once and nothing was there and by the time they started to change lanes I was running up their butt. There sitting right next to people would be this shiny green Ford pickup, plain as day for them to see if they had just taken the effort to turn their fat necks even 2 degrees to the left and taken their eyes off the evening paper to make a quick check of the lane before getting over. But I guess I still made it too difficult for them. Maybe those people in big trucks and SUV's who keep their various high-powered auxiliary lighting units on even in clear weather and on-road conditions aren't so dumb after all. I bet lane dodgers are a bit less eager to barge in front of them, mostly out of a strong desire to retain healthy retinaes.

    After both incidents I was thinking the same thing. Because someone else wasn't able to get over to the left, make a quick and decisive pass, and then get the heck out of everyone else's way without lapsing into daydreams, I was forced to hover next to inattentive drivers that on two separate occasions came close to causing me serious injury and possibly loss of life.

    After the second time all bets were off. I kicked it down into fourth gear, got up to 90-95 mph, and then stayed there for the rest of my trip home, hands holding the wheel in a death grip as I scanned traffic around me like a hawk to try to predict which motorist would want to try to swap paint next so I could avoid them like the plague. And I made darn sure that I was never even once next to any other driver for longer than it took me to type this sentence. IF I had gotten pulled over it would have been fine by me. Go ahead, fine me, surcharge me, whatever. I won't make it a regular habit to do 90 or above, but I will gladly and dutifully pay my road tax whenever I happen to get caught in exchange for driving at a speed differential that leaves other drivers minimal opportunity to try to commit suicide by Ford truck or prevent my getting home safely.

    Thanks for listening. I am calmer now.
  • scotianscotian Member Posts: 1,064
    I suppose this can be considered inconsiderate driving.

    I was behind a minivan with two king size matress things on top, held on by a helping of twine, going at least 55mph. A while after I passed it, I looked in my mirror and saw the two matresses launch from the minivan, spin and cartwheel across two lanes of heavy traffic, and land safely in the grass due to the strong winds. They hurled themselves right where there weren't any cars, and I didn't see any wild maneuvering.
  • eharri3eharri3 Member Posts: 640
    I see it all the time selling treadmills, ping pong tables, and other large items at Sears. They'll pay several hundred dollars for a big ticket item, but then 50 dollars for a delivery fee or 25 dollars to rent a pickup from Home Depot is just too much even though it'll ensure that their item gets home undamaged and without endangering the safety of other motorists. So rather than do it the smart way and rent a truck, they'll sit there and spend 25 minutes trying to figure out how to cram it into their nice, shiny new car. All all the while they are risking damage to their paint and to their seats that will cost way more than 25 dollars to fix.

    I saw this just on Friday. Nice couple buys a 600 dollar treadmill from me, and despite my various pleas they refuse to let us arrange delivery or hold it while they get a truck. Next thing I know Im taking a walk down to the loading dock and I see them in the parking lot standing next to a nice Camry LE with the treadmill sitting there.

    They look at treadmill, look at truck of car, scratch their heads. Look at treadmill, look at trunk, more head scratching. They lift it and try to cram it in from various angles without succes. They unbolt various bits and pieces thinking they'll get that one part off that makes it possible to slide it in. No dice. After about 20 minutes they finally decide it's not going in the trunk, as there'd be more of the machine protruding from the trunk than actually resting in it. I volunteer to take measurements of the back seat. It would go, with roughly an inch to spare each way. But I assure him his leather won't look quite the same when they pull it back out at home, and that we could still hold it or set up delivery. Finally he sees the light, lets her wait with it while he goes to Home Depot. I woulda told them I owned a pickup, but for various reasons I won't go into in great detail because it would be very off topic I no longer take any personal responsibility for Sears merchandise or customer merchandise. I'll just ask hypothetically, if you came back to your pickup in the Sears merchandise pickup parking lot that was parked next to another truck of the same color and saw a 52 inch big screen sitting on the back of your vehicle that seemingly came out of nowhere, what would you do?

    But now I have to wonder in these situations, if they'd tried to cart it home themselves strapped precariously in the trunk and it had fallen out and caused an accident would they be telling the police and the motorists who got injured, "Your car is totalled and you will be in the hospital for awhile and the 600 dollar treadmill is useless, but at least we saved the 25 bucks!" This all goes to show why I will always own some sort of truck type vehicle.

    Sorry for two such long posts together... I dont get to post much anymore so I guess I gotta vent in one lump sum.
  • verozahlverozahl Member Posts: 574
    On my way up to East Lansing to visit Michigan Central Community College, aka Michigan State "so-called" University (most students in country... only one library, go figure), Detroit/Lansing/Grand Rapids commuting mediocrity was on the road in full force. I-96 from Brighton to Lansing is hell on pavement! Passing line is to pass, people. Only people who use it to pass are, uh, big trucks going, uh, really slow. Okay, you picture what Vero did when he got the chance. You got it! The "thumbs-up" signal... it makes them even angrier than the garden-variety finger.

    Situation number two... last night on I-696, the Detroit autobahn, from Madison Heights to Farmington Hills. The "Detroit autobahn" as sphinx99 eloquently puts it. Vero and the Lincoln LS types (really nice cars, I say, for a Detroit product) trying to pass LLCs with their Blazers and the coffee and donuts roadway diner/dinner club.

    Don't you love it when LLCs flash you when you pass them? Yes, I know you're an idiot, you don't need to flash your lights, I see you... I've been watching you for miles, trying to figure how to pass your sorry butt.

    The 'Silver Bullet' really does have 140 horses!

    Next summer I'm going back to Germany or something. I want real road.
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    #868

    I dont even "flip off LL campers" Why would I "flip" you off? Are you offended that the LLC shoe fits? I would say if you don't want to wear the LLC shoes, take them off!!?? If you want to wear em dont be surprised if they get "admired" or noticed.

    Like I said if someone wont move out of the left lane when I am overtaking in the left lane I will pass on the right. If someone moves over to the right I will pass on the left. How you get "road rage" out of this very simple procedure leads me to believe you have some other issues.
  • pjyoungpjyoung Member Posts: 885
    then the next time you're behind me as I passing the line of cars, I'm sure you won't mind my slowing down the 20 or so mph so that I can fit in with the flow of traffic in the right lane. Of course, that manuever most likely will further delay you, but hey...I'm only trying to help.

    I'd agree with you if I were in the left lane and no other cars were in the right. But if you don't have situations where you live where a line of cars is moving slower than the rest of the traffic flow, then you must live in paradise. Where I live, it's very possible to have many many cars that are "bunched" up in the right lane. I tend to pass them. If you think you could make a manuever to get around in the right lane, more power to you, but odds are, there isn't enough space to pull that off since the right lane is moving considerably slower than the left. How you can think that anyone who is passing them is "camping", I'll never know. And the only way to "move over" would involve slowing down to move into the lane.
  • verozahlverozahl Member Posts: 574
    The situation I had on Friday was the problem we talk about so much here. Heavy traffic volume, two lanes. It's not like suburban/metropolitan Detroit, where there are 3-4 lanes at any point, and it's not like I'm going to the middle of nowhere. From Detroit to Lansing to Grand Rapids is a crappy two-lane each-way corridor. Going to be heavy traffic. Truck or camper heading to Lake Michigan is going 65 mph, car wants to pass him at 77 mph, guy behind him in the Dodge truck wants to pass him at 83 mph, and I want to blow past the Oldsmobile Cutlass that cut in front of me (behind the Dodge truck) who's doing 84 and I'm doing 88. Of course, I want to be doing 92. So... you lots of different people in different vehicles and all of two lanes. Meanwhile, entrances and exits abound. Even without LLC-types in their Buicks, you have a nasty situation. >:( sigh. And of course the BMW behind me is riding my tail... I feel your pain, but get off my bumper, please.
  • alfoxalfox Member Posts: 708
    that no matter haw fast I'm going, if I'm passing people in the left lane, there is going to be some nimrod behind me who wants to go faster and expects me to stop passing, slow down and get over just for him!

    If I'm going 95 passing a car going 75, there will be someone behind who thinks I'm lane blocking and fully expects me to get out of his way.

    I figure that there is no reason to worry about them at all, and I don't. I refuse to let pushy people force me to drive their speed. So I drive my speed, which is generally above the limit weather and traffic permitting, pass when I need to and get over when I'm done. Let 'em fume, let 'em flip, let 'em pass on the right.

    Of course, many of the most dangerous situations are set up by kinley-style LLC's, but I see no need to make their idiocy more dangerous than it already is. As annoying as the LLC's are, the real danger is added by the impatient morons who find it necessary to whip between cars and surge by on the right at full throttle, just to make their pathetic point. Actually, it makes no point, just startles and threatens all the other cars who are trying to get by sanely. I get real conservative in those situations, and pass them on the right when I can do it without interefering with others.
  • verozahlverozahl Member Posts: 574
    Sounds like me on Friday. Were you on the road to Lansing?? >;p
  • alfoxalfox Member Posts: 708
    I'm sure I'd remember....

    ;^)
  • kinleykinley Member Posts: 854
    yourself to less time on the Killway. "That's why I was doing 92, Officer, cause its safer."
  • eharri3eharri3 Member Posts: 640
    I did the flow of traffic. Almost died several times. Stayed over 85 the rest of the night. Not one single incident.
  • verozahlverozahl Member Posts: 574
    Hope kinley never finds himself on the Autobahn or Autostrada! ;^)
  • idletaskidletask Member Posts: 171
    You're safe if you keep your distance with the car in front - and watch what others are doing. Constant vigilance, would say Mad-Eye Moody :)
  • karz10karz10 Member Posts: 106
    i almost wish i never found this discussion....lol

    i only read about the last 60 posts, but it is interesting, i drive about 30k mi a year, and have seen a lot, on hwy, in the city, it's amazing what some people do, i wish i had a camera running all the time like you see the cop cars do on those video shows, i could have made a fortune selling my videos to those shows...lol

    i think people should know their limits, and adhere to them, but then it's hard to govern individuals isn't it

    i wish you could take an depth test to determine your abilities, that would get you a special plate and license, by the color code or digital signal emitted or both, an officer could tell this person is qualified for cell phone use and speeding up to x mi per hour over, and this person is lawfully allowed to take the bus...lol

    as for the LLC topic, I think most are making sense here, get over to pass, and move back over as soon as possible, if you feel someone came up on you in mid pass of multiple vehicles and can safely get over w/ out dramtically reducing speed to let them pass, and then resume your passing fine, if not, then continue the multi pass as soon as possible move over, maybe put on the turn signal even before actually finishing the last past to inform the rear driver of your considerate intention, and when approaching from behind try not to tailgate.

    i relate to the post about the follower, what i hate even worse, is when you try to be considerate, and let someone pass, they pass, but then don't go anywhere, you know although it can be taken to extremes, i tend to agree w/ the through the pack driving, i much prefer open space, and am far more relaxed and personally believe i have more easily avoided accidents this way, not to mention invasions to my glossy black paint, but at any rate, i give a person a couple chances, if they have passed me, but then proceed to get us bottlenecked FOR NO REASON, I won't let them pass me again under any circumstance

    it's funny how many times you can pick out someone about to do something really stupid, as someone mentioned earlier, you can see it coming by the little things they do, not always, but many times

    I saw a couple references to headlights, a lot of people are sensitive to this issue, a lot of the newer cars have bright headlights, I happen to have one, although mine aren't as bright as some, the thing that irritates me, I'm going along minding my own business, in the left lane, come up on and pass a car that is in the right lane, i never veered towards him, was never behind him, never did anything but drive my straight line w/ dims on....then he/she has the audacity to move over into the left lane after i pass and bright light me, i don't just mean a flash, but full blown bright light me, i tap the brake light, still bright light me, hmmmmm someone is asking to get shot, i don't condone road rage, but i can see how a mentally unbalanced person with a gun could go off on someone, anyway, my point is, unless YOU ARE SURE someone is using their brights, maybe it's not a good idea to bright them, especially going out of your way to do so, if you do, then just flash, coz you might be wrong and you might p___ someone off :)

    I had one guy do that, and he was in a huge SUV w/ tints, and prob had one of those auto dim mirrors judging by the fact it was late model eddie bauer, and i'm in this low to the ground car, i've driven another car in front of my own, and it's not that bad, although i had one of those little bitty beetles about freak out and look at me like i was the devil,i flashed them as if to indicate, hey you drive a little tiny car this must happen all the time, those are not my brights i mean no harm, the mistake they made then was braking until we were going like 10mph on a 45mph road, well, then i turned on MY BRIGHTS, so they got all 4 halogens and the fogs, they really liked that, they resumed speed at that point

    It's been a long time, but I remember being on some rural roads outside of Dallas, one lane each direction, when approached from behind, the forward car would maintain speed, mover over to the smoothly paved shoulder, let you pass, then resume their course, wow, I wish it was this considerate everywhere, do they still do this down there????

    Have fun, drive safe and look at the other side once in awhile!!! :)

    Karz
  • karz10karz10 Member Posts: 106
    My first sales job back in 94 was selling cell phones, since then I've burned up to 5k minutes a month on the phone, mostly business, mostly behind the wheel, never had a problem, goes back to the abilities thing, and trust me, nobody was ever mad i wouldn't get out of their way. If I got into a deep conv, I flowed over into the right lane, or if a critical conversation, I would pull over, most talk though required minimal thought, at least not the same kind that driving does. Although I could have written stuff down, at that time I usually kept a small voice recorder handy, worked pretty well. I do recommend hands free kits for most people though :)
  • idletaskidletask Member Posts: 171
    By this period of summer holidays, the matter is even worse, but I do notice heavily loaded cars on the road. So far so good, except that the rear of the car being loaded, headlight beams are going up - and no one that I've seen so far had the idea to lower the beam of their lights. That makes for quite irritating nighttime trips...

    Fortunately (at least here in France), this is not the case with xenon headlights, as the law enforces these to be associated with automatic inclination control - and washers.
  • karz10karz10 Member Posts: 106
    i think that poorly maintained vehicles w/ wandering headlights and poorly aimed headlights on vehicles w/ heavy cargo/tow are much worse than a lot of the newer 'brighter' headlights

    karz
  • jaserbjaserb Member Posts: 820
    I was almost killed on Saturday morning by one of these. I was heading west on a two lane road - the road goes over an overpass at the edge of town, then it's 55 with no stoplights for about 5 miles until you get to the freeway. Really rural area. Just as I came over the overpass I saw brake lights RIGHT AT THE BOTTOM - had to seriously stand on the brake pedal, ABS kicked in, tires squealing, etc. I missed the S10 Blazer in front of me by a decent margin, then looked in my rear-view to see a full-size Chevy skidding onto the shoulder to keep from hitting me - and he didn't miss me by much.
    After I started breathing again I looked to see what the hold up was - as I said, there's no real reason for traffic to be stopped here, so I figured it was either an accident, something in the road, someone hit a dog/goat/cow/etc. None of the above. The car in front of the Blazer (to whom the Blazer driver gave the requisite hand signal) had STOPPED - in the middle of a 55 mph highway - to allow a truck going the opposite direction to turn left in front of her!!! I mean, COME ON! The guy in the truck looked absolutely mortified as he turned. I couldn't believe it. I got a good look at the driver of the car - a clueless looking grandma in a newer Malibu. I thought about following her into the Walmart parking lot to let her know that her "good deed" had nearly gotten me killed, but decided against it. Everybody, repeat after me: AAARRRRGGGHHH!!!

    -Jason
  • taddisontaddison Member Posts: 99
    Yes, people on rural roads in Texas still often move over to the shoulder to allow someone to pass, though it's technically illegal to drive on the shoulder. The passing driver typically waves to acknowledge the courtesy.

    The people who do it most are people who actually live out in the country, especially when they are driving slow, older vehicles and loaded-down pickup trucks. They are used to seeing slow-moving farm equipment driving on the shoulder so it's not such a foreign concept to them.

    City dwellers like myself don't do it as much, though if someone is tailgating me and there is a solid yellow line preventing them from passing then I'll move over just to get rid of them. I don't do it on a habitual basis because I worry about stuff on the shoulder that might damage my tires.

    On the less-travelled rural roads many people even wave at each other, regardless of whether they know the other driver (the "wave" usually consists of just raising some or all the fingers - but NOT just the middle finger! - while the hand remains on the wheel).
  • jwilson1jwilson1 Member Posts: 956
    This suicidal politeness, when drivers stop to let people turn in front, or pull out in front, is a regiional sickness in NE. When I first moved here, many years ago, I nearly got killed expecting people to stay with the flow of traffic, a number of times.

    I even saw a state cop in his cruiser do it!

    The tactic I've adopted is to leave lots of extra room -- of course that means people pull in, but that's gotta be okay, I guess.

    Take care.
    Joe W.
  • pat84pat84 Member Posts: 817
    Thanks for your humerous posts. LOL
  • verozahlverozahl Member Posts: 574
    yeah, eharri is a class act! >:)

    Jason - if she didn't look like a shotgun-totin' granny, you really should have followed her into the Wal*Mart and calmly explained to her why her action could have been problemmatic in a life-and-death sense.

    HAH! When's the last time you think a Detroit-area driver considered stopping to let someone in?? hahahaha right.
  • bolivarbolivar Member Posts: 2,316
    'farm to market' roads have wider and nicer 'shoulders' than the main part of many other state's roads.
  • ghuletghulet Member Posts: 2,564
    Slightly off-topic, but I just went to one of our 'local' City of Chicago offices to pay $285 to get the Denver Boot removed from my brother's Blazer (I was awake, feeling benevolent, and bro was asleep). In so doing, I parked in a tow zone (not marked on the side I parked, but sign on the other side--gee, thanks), and was towed to Chicago favorite Lincoln Towing (of course, nowhere near the office I was at). What's that thing about no good deed going unpunished? So now I get to drive the freshly unbooted Blazer (and $125, cash, Visa or Master Card) to pick up the towed Accord. Oh yeah, and dead Saab is sitting on the street, likely to be booted next if I don't pay the $150 or so owing in tickets on that plate (most of which, incidentally, date back to 1994 and as such are not mine; 1994=seven years before I bought it).

    Chicago life is so glamorous. Pay this, pay that, wait here, wait there, deal with this overpaid drone and that other snotty city worker. Oh yeah, though we have insane taxes (we have extra soda tax, extra tax on carry out food, don't get me started on gas prices) on everything, Chicago doesn't have enough money to keep our schools open or running properly but can afford to plant trees and flowers in the middle of Ashland Avenue and Lake Shore Drive, and for said flora's upkeep and water. Usually the sprinklers (again, in the median on Ashland Avenue, folks) is on during rain storms, and usually just gets cars, cyclists and pedestrians wet, and causes road slickness. Heaven forbid we have all the tourists thinking this place isn't pretty, right? OK, done venting.

    That tow truck driver sure was inconsiderate in towing me, as I was in the office for less than ten minutes. Dammit.
  • karz10karz10 Member Posts: 106
    are brutal, forget any inconsiderate sales people, dealers or service depts, towing companies are brutal

    i've been illegally towed before, what can you do, you gotta pay to get your car at 10pm, 3am etc.

    karz
  • jaserbjaserb Member Posts: 820
    right around the corner from a tow yard. The rule was if you didn't have a parking sticker you had to be out of the lot by 9 pm. Those that weren't out by 9 were generally in the yard by 9:10 - no ifs, ands, or buts. Those guys are heartless.

    Oh, and granny looked harmless, if clueless. I had other things to do, though.
    -Jason
  • pat84pat84 Member Posts: 817
    If I was your brother, you would never hear the end of parking in a tow away zone to pay to get the Denver boot off my Blazer.
    Now when you see the posies on Ashland Ave, you can think how much you personally paid for them.
    You should be getting a Thank You note from the Chicago Chamber of Commerce any day now.
  • ghuletghulet Member Posts: 2,564
    ...last time I was a 'captive audience' at this same city office, I parked in the exact same spot, with no consequence. Natch, there is no street parking near this office, and it's in a strip mall with a tiny parking lot. My bad, but this is just the usual 'icing on the cake', typical Chicago drama.
  • verozahlverozahl Member Posts: 574
    Thanx to New York and Chicago, Ann Arbor can aspire to be "cosmopolitan" and it means a lot of towing companies, rude city officials, and bad drivers (visiting from New York and Chicago, of course, biotching about lack of cosmopolitanism, and going back to New York and Chicago after paying to get their cars back after towing).

    "Thank you come again"
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    We had a neighbor once who just didnt believe that they couldnt park where they pleased. One day after unloading their groceries they just left the car in the middle of the street. Someone called the tow truck company!! Around here it is a 142 dollar charge not including the ticket.
  • eharri3eharri3 Member Posts: 640
    I magine beign an African American man living there in the 60's. My father was once pulled over by two cops for seemingly no reason whatsoever. As he tells it, they asked if he had 15 dollars cash on him to hand over. When he said no, he got to spend a night in jail.
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