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  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    While I can identify with the angst that eharri3 discusses, I am a sure most of us have more than a few miles under the belt and while some would not agree with this, most folks are not bound to change simply because some one else says so or perceives what the other person is doing is dangerous. So to me there are a couple of options :

    1 do nothing and hope he goes away :(:) 2 get in front 3 get behind 4 go along side 5 attempt to change lanes into him :( 6. display the obscene gesture du jour 7 attempt to give him a physical driving lesson 8. go ballistic and call him/her out

    When I have a blind spot lover near me, I either get in front or get behind, not along side if I can possibly help it. Early warning looking ahead as well as behind (mirrors are in the mix too) is really the ticket.
  • scotianscotian Member Posts: 1,064
    http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/4679156/

    Talk about inconsiderate drivers!
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    Interesting! That means there are 60,000,000 deaths per year WW. So that makes traffic fatalites 2% of the WW fatality rate. It would be interesting to put it in perspective and find out what are the causes for the other 98% or 58,800,000 other fatalities. :(
  • mirthmirth Member Posts: 1,212
    ...to this problem:

    1. Increase driver's ed requirements
    2. Fix traffic flow at dangerous intersections/roads

    ...or...

    3. Increase traffic fines and decrease speed limits. Use extra money collected to fund government pork projects.

    Want to bet which one will be selected?
  • gee35coupegee35coupe Member Posts: 3,387
    It's gonna have to handled differently in each country.

    "In the United States, the mortality rate is 15 per 100,000. It is 16 in China (where, in 1999, there were 80 motor vehicles of all types for every 1,000 people, compared with nearly 800 for every 1,000 people here)."

    I think it's commendable we are better than China where they don't even have traffic. I'm sure on a fatality per 100,000 mile basis there are few places that can touch the U.S.
  • tornado25tornado25 Member Posts: 267
    "I'm sure on a fatality per 100,000 mile basis there are few places that can touch the U.S."

    I'd absolutely be interested to see this. Our rate is something like just under 1.0/100M. Despite all the hand-wringing, crying of apocalypse, introduction of heavy-handed, unfunded mandates, and general hysterics from groups like MADD, the rate of fatalities is still going down despite an increase in absolute numbers.

    Now, before I'm branded a stone-hearted menace, I'd clearly love to see fewer and fewer people die each year. But, I'm too pragmatic to ignore the fact that my CHANCE or RISK of dying in a vehicle accident is going down. And that's good!
  • kenjabikenjabi Member Posts: 76
    Some of the highest mortality is in Latin America. In El Salvador, for example, the annual traffic mortality is 42 per 100,000 people.

    I'm not surprised by this at all. Check out a post I made in this thread almost two years ago (#953) about the driving adventures I saw in Guatemala.
  • carlisimocarlisimo Member Posts: 1,280
    I'm not surprised about China. The stereotype of Chinese and Taiwanese (don't know about other East Asian countries') drivers here is based on those who learned to drive there, and then brought their driving habits here... and those habits are pretty anarchic. In Taiwan the red lights were treated as suggestions, and everyone I've talked to from China has pegged their speedometers on the highways (in upscale cars, so I'm talking about 150mph...).

    The other country I've spent time in is Spain, where 8 years ago everyone had a moped or bike. And everyone had lost a friend in a motorcycle accident. It had always been that way until a few years ago insurance skyrocketed and now it's cheaper to own a car. So more people make long-distance trips than before and grisly accidents along 2-lane roads that completely crush those little cars are becoming more common. It's also a problem in the old cities, which simply can't accommodate all those cars... they don't fit and it's a mess.

    About problems HERE, I don't know what they'll do but I don't have much faith. They can't make it too hard to get a license because you're absolutely screwed if you live in suburbia and can't drive, and the government's goal in traffic control is suspect to me. I myself could've benefited from a better driving education though, even if the tests weren't made harder.

    I hope this isn't too off-topic. While some fatalities really are accidents, everything we complain about here can potentially be a cause...
  • carguy58carguy58 Member Posts: 2,303
    Thats crazy but its usual Jersey drving. People in New Jersey has have no lane discipline at times. Than again go drive in New York City and you will be proud to live in Jersey. In Jersey you just try to stay out of people's way and drive safely.
  • ranaldranald Member Posts: 147
    I grew up in Brooklyn, and come across the river to visit family and friends often. I drive in NYC alot. :)

    New York drivers have, as far back as I can remember, made fun of Jersey drivers at every opportunity. And now I can confirm they've got a point.

    New York drivers are on average very agressive, but it's pretty straight-forward and I find them to be predictable and thus surprisingly safe. On the roads speed by itself is not dangerous, being surprised *is*.

    Some Jersey drivers are like NY drivers, but some are slow, erratic, unpredicatable and (like that example) often dangerously passive-aggressive. Like PA drivers. (But that's a whole other series of posts.)
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,675
    I just returned from an interstate trip to Pigeon Forge, Tn. Had the usual number of left lane hangers who wanted to stay just behind me in the left lane. They tend to be women or men driving SUVs.

    The cure was to jump ahead in speed and pull into the left lane and pass the cars in the right lane, then I stayed in the left lane...

    2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,

  • bottgersbottgers Member Posts: 2,030
    Here's how I delt with the LLC blind spot dwellers. When I would approach a slower moving vehicle in front of me, I would speed up enough to be able to pull over in the left lane to make my pass and then I would slow back down to my cruise control speed. Once I did this to pass about 2 or 3 vehicles, the blind spot dweller would speed up enough to pass me. Worked every time.
  • carguy58carguy58 Member Posts: 2,303
    I think in NYC the roads are just so crowded with cars that has to do with 50% of the driving in NYC being not good. I always notice the taxi cab drivers sometimes are a little crazy in their road manners. I;m not saying all taxi cab drivers are like this but some of them are.

    As far as driving to Brooklyn or something like that. Some of the people just drive where ever. There's no shoulder on I-278(Brooklyn-Queens Expressway) which I think is bad. If a car concks out its usually in the middle of the road holding up traffic. Going gack to my point of drivers dirving where ever some of the drivers just drive like there is nobody else on the road but them. I have observed this on I-278 a little bit.

    As far as NJ drivers being bad some of them are unpredictable at times yes. People who drive older cars seem to me unpredictable and people in their SUV's tend to tailgate at times. The young drivers can be very aggressive at times.

    I think one of the differences between NYC in NJ is NJ is more spread out. NYC is a tight little place. I'm sure if compared the Garden State Parkway to the New York Thruway it would be about the same in terms of dirving experience.

    Finally, driving to the Jersey Shore in July or August is not exactly a picnic either on the Garden State Parkway. Driving on the Parkway is ddifferent in other time of the year besides the summer time(Exit 127-Woodbridge and South in the summer time.)

    Yes Jersey has its liability's as far as driving experience goes. I will admit that.

    BTW, I think its funny NYC divers make fun of Jersey drivers.
  • scotianscotian Member Posts: 1,064
    http://abcnews.go.com/wire/Insurance/reuters20040429_175.html

    An interesting idea. Maybe we can get some of those people off the road who obstruct the efficient flow of traffic by playing policeman in the left lane, or those who feel justified and take pleasure in forcing other drivers to make emergency lane changes, just so they themselves are not inconvenienced by having to adjust to the traffic they are merging into.
  • gambit293gambit293 Member Posts: 406
    I find that article both hilarious and frightening!
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,675
    Note that they checked people who committed many various types of offenses. They should include the highway bullies who try to dominate everyone else's driving.
    An example is the left lane bully LLB, who expects to never change lanes and expects that everyone should be out of his or her left lane before her vehicle gets close to them.
    If not patronized in that domination mindset, the LLB flashes their headlights, gets very close to the person who has violated their expectations of lane ownership to intimidate and scare the offending driver, and then often makes dangerous maneuvers to get around the person using the left lane, and may even try to make personal gestures and mouth words toward the person who has used their lane.
    Would this be a sign of low intelligence as in the Lagos news story findings? Grin.. Or even undiagnosed insanity?
    I've seen some left lane bullies who exhibited many low-intelligence behaviors.

    2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,

  • scotianscotian Member Posts: 1,064
    Yes, there are left lane bullies who drive recklessly. But they are far fewer in number and annoyance (to me) than are the left lane campers.
  • kmagkmag Member Posts: 98
    For me it is the opposite. I see many more LLB's than LLC's, probably about 10:1.

    But at times they are one and the same. A LLC will sit doing the speed they believe is correct for the left lane and will never move over, often hover right in my blind spot, with any attempt to get around them they will turn into an LLB.
  • bottgersbottgers Member Posts: 2,030
    I encountered one coming back from Ohio a few weeks ago. The speed limit was 65 on a four lane highway. This guy was running about 66 or 67. I approached him from the rear in the left lane running about 69-70. I didn't tailgate him because that's rude and I hate it when people do that to me, but I saw him look at me several times in his rearview mirror and he knew I wanted to pass. He refused to move over into the right lane. I followed him for maybe 3-4 miles and decided he wasn't going to move over no matter what, so I passed him in the right lane. I kept an eye on this guy in my mirror for several miles watching car after car pass him in the right lane because he wouldn't move over. It wasn't like the guy couldn't tell what was going on, he knew exactly what he was doing. This was one of those times when I wished I had the world's loudest air horn so I could've blasted it at him. That would've been awesome!
  • black_tulipblack_tulip Member Posts: 435
    I also see a lot more LLBs than LLCs.
    I am also seeing a different phenomenon nowadays: I am behind a guy in the left (passing) lane and we are both passing a slow moving truck. The guy ahead of me is doing probably 67 whereas the truck is doing about 65. I am not tailgating ,as like bottgers, I also hate it when someone does it to me. Anyway, after a long agonizing five minutes or so, he passes the truck, moves over to right lane, speeds up to 75 mph and continues at that speed! So strange!
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    I think you guys could cut your "fume time" if you had started your right lane pass when you got within legal/safe range behind him.
  • scotianscotian Member Posts: 1,064
    "Any attempt to get around them they will turn into an LLB" -- well, maybe there are more LLBs that I originally thought. Or I have a stricter definition of LLB. Americans tend to be pansies on the road, and seem to be easily offended by any assertive behavior whatsoever. I'm probably an LLB by some people's standards, especially here in "nice" Minnesota.
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    Yes, you are probably correct in your observations. In psychological terms, it is referred to as passive aggressive behavior.
  • fintailfintail Member Posts: 58,415
    It's just a simple lack of consideration....that's what sets driving in NA apart
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,675
    is the one who comes up behind you doing your 5 over in the 3rd lane (or 2nd lane), tails you until you move over, then moves over behind you.
    Apparently they want someone in front of them running radar shadow for them. They want to speed but don't want to chance the ticket from the overlooked laser or moving radar in Ohio.

    2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,

  • pat84pat84 Member Posts: 817
    Lasers can target individual vehicles, so there is no purpose served by having someone running shadow for lasers. A decent radar detector will detect radar far enough away that no shadow is much good. I used radar detectors in all but my current vehicle. They will give ample warning to slow down 15-20 mph, not much more. I know my detectors paid for themselves many times over.
     Now, I get in the left lane and just do 5 over. All those LL bullies can pound sand.
  • gee35coupegee35coupe Member Posts: 3,387
    They have to see you first. I've never gotten a laser ticket...Knock on wood.
  • kmagkmag Member Posts: 98
    I used to get really mad at the LLC's. This was back in the 55 days, there seemed to be so many then - headlight flashing and tailgating did not move them over. So I devised a system. I get behind them, not tailgating cause I dont like that either, but close enough so they know I am there. I give them 10 seconds if I am feeling generous, 5 if not. If they dont begin to move I go around on the right.

    I passed one on my way to work today, a pickup was just sitting in the left lane doing about 60, speed limit is 65 and on this highway the left lane runs 75-80 most days. I had completed my pass of a semi and I just went right on by him in the right lane. As did any number of other cars behind me that I could see for a few minutes in the mirror, until I couldnt make him out anymore. You wonder what they are thinking.
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    "I used to get really mad at the LLC's. This was back in the 55 days, there seemed to be so many then - headlight flashing and tailgating did not move them over. So I devised a system. I get behind them, not tailgating cause I dont like that wither, but close enough so they know I am there. I give them 10 seconds if I am feeling generous, 5 if not. If they dont begin to move I go around on the right.

    I passed one on my way to work today, a pickup was just sitting in the left lane doing about 60, speed limit is 65 and on this highway the left lane runs 75-80 most days. I had completed my pass of a semi and I just went right on by him in the right lane. As did any number of other cars behind me that I could see for a few minutes in the mirror, until I couldnt make him out anymore. You wonder what they are thinking."

    Makes sense to me! Mine is 0-5 sec, so you are at least 2x as patient as I am! :)

    When I get within legal/safe distance behind and the person is not moving over nor signaling, I take/make the safe assumption that he is not going to or wanting to move over. Also if you stack behind him, you are in effect guilty of the same thing you are probably mad at him for. (impeding traffic)

    I have also found out that in say a freeway with 65 mph speed limit, one can LEGALLY go 45 mph! Given the little to NO enforcement that is not going to discourage LLC ing! :) So given 55 mph that puts left lane legal speeds of 35 mph!! :(
  • seminole_kevseminole_kev Member Posts: 1,696
    Pretty much my method. I don't tailgate, but I let them know I'm there for about 5 - 10 seconds. Then if they don't get over, I pass on the right.
  • kmagkmag Member Posts: 98
    What is ironic is that I am probably viewed as a left lane camper by any number of left-lane bullies.

    Traffic is so heavy anymore that many times I am doing my typical 70-75 and am steadily passing cars, semis or clumps of traffic in the right lane every 20-30 seconds, with other cars in front of me going the same speed, when an LLB will come up to within a few feet off my rear bumper and hover there. I am not going to move over and get stuck in the right lane, just so the LLB can do 85 for 10 seconds until he catches up to the next car ahead. Or to have the LLB turn into an LLC as he comes alongside of me.
  • seminole_kevseminole_kev Member Posts: 1,696
    I'll get over if no one's in front of me (or the car in front of me is moving away at a much faster rate), but yeah, if traffic is infront of me, I can't go any faster than the car directly in front of me....but that's not camping in the fast lane (at least in my opinion).
  • gambit293gambit293 Member Posts: 406
    That's exactly the point that many ppl tend to overlook: It's all relative!

    You can get POed at LLC or LLB, but how do you respond when the tables are turned? If you do 75 and you get mad at ppl who are doing LLC at 70, do you likewise get out of the way for ppl doing 80?

    Lots of ppl end up with the mindset that THEIR speed range is the proper speed range. Anything that strays too far below or above that is inappropriate. Hence you can LLC at someone who is going 85 because heck he is just going way too fast. But then you can LLB someone doing 55 because he's such a slowpoke.
  • vchengvcheng Member Posts: 1,284
    ....anyone who is driving slower than you is a moron, and anyone driving faster than you is a maniac.
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,675
    "Lots of ppl end up with the mindset that THEIR speed range is the proper speed range."

    It's about control rather than safe driving for too many people.

    I was behind a large Chev or Ford pickup going 5 under the limit on a two-lane country road where no passing is allowed. He was dominating the pace for the others behind him. It's a main road for travel. He didn't speed up to the limit or to the 5 over most people drive on that road (limit it 45).

    2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,

  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    It is amazing how a simple law: Keep Right Except to pass, really keeps things flowing! :)

    My take: Use the passing lane to pass and as soon as it is practically safe; MOVE OVER and leave the lane free for someone else to PASS!
  • seminole_kevseminole_kev Member Posts: 1,696
    I see it all the time on a certain strech of turnpike that I take on the way to work. Traffic on it is not yet dense, although it keeps gradually picking up in traffic each year, but for now it is pretty sparse. Every day I come up in the right lane as I keep right and you'll see cars just sitting out there in the left lane just tooling along at, or under the speed limit. Now that's no big deal when there's no other cars around, but if there's a couple of cars out there, these same people sit in that left lane and don't get over. Forcing faster traffic to pass on the right and mingle with the occasional on/off ramp. Just keep right and it is no big deal. Especially on this segment which isn't heavily traveled and on/off ramps are spaced pretty far out with light traffic.
  • seminole_kevseminole_kev Member Posts: 1,696
    In my opinion, on the average Oklahomans are pretty poor drivers. It can be pooring, grayed out with rain, whipers going to town while driving some silver or gray car and they won't have any lights on. All the damn time. Talk about a ghost car. No blinker usage whatsoever. And at night often just drive around with their parking lights on (still haven't figured that one out yet)

    I realize every area has some of the same problems, but I've lived and traveled to a lot of different places and this is some of the worst driving I've seen (short of Panama, Saudi and Turkey maybe). Combine the terrible driving with the fact that damn near everyone here has to drive a F-350 dullie diesel crew cab or a Suburban and you've just compounded the trouble.
  • cfg1cfg1 Member Posts: 85
    I was behind a large Chev or Ford pickup going 5 under the limit on a two-lane country road where no passing is allowed. He was dominating the pace for the others behind him.

    Maybe he is just slow and doesn't care. Why do you assume he is getting some secret thrill out of slowing you down?
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,675
    Why do you assume he is getting some secret thrill out of slowing you down?

    Before you project your psyche into someone else's post, please reread the original and check the name of the discussion group.

    2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,

  • pat84pat84 Member Posts: 817
    I know there are those that do get some thrill out of controlling other's speed.
      Whatever happened to Kinley ? He was one of those. He liked to control the speed of the passing lane.
  • imidazol97imidazol97 Member Posts: 27,675
    Are you talking about those who want to control the people in the left or third lane and aren't going as fast as the speeders want them to be going in 'their' lane or are you talking about those who want to make others go slower by being a blockade?

    2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,

  • seminole_kevseminole_kev Member Posts: 1,696
    I'm zipping down the left lane past where several cars are merging from another highway. Well there is a tractor trailer (without the trailer) actually moving along at a decent clip, and behind it a modern VW bug. I'm just about to start passing the pair when the bug floors it and gets in front of me. No big deal because I figure she either wants to travel faster than me, or momentarly go as fast/faster than me to get around the truck and get back in the right lane.

    No

    She speeds up, gets in front of me and then paces the truck beside it.......for miles. eventually she eeks out in front of the truck. Once she had enough space to safely return to the right lane, I gave her my customary 5 seconds to get over. Nope. Just still sat in the left lane. I had to pass on the right to scoot past her.

    I have no idea what these people are thinking.
  • ruking1ruking1 Member Posts: 19,826
    Maybe she wanted to exchange phone numbers. :)
  • seminole_kevseminole_kev Member Posts: 1,696
    I'm getting too old to get noticed anymore ;-)
  • fintailfintail Member Posts: 58,415
    People certainly do run blockades in the left lane and intentionally go slow to exercise a power trip. No matter what someone with zero credentials but possessing plenty of pseudo-psychological babble thinks. Drive on a highway for a couple hours, and you'll see it.

    And people wonder why road rage erupts. If you can move left when a faster car approaches, simply do it, and move back over to where you were once they go past. It's common courtesy and expected behavior in areas with more civilized traffic. Just not here. I can't understand why it is such a problem.
  • cfg1cfg1 Member Posts: 85
    But how do you tell the difference between these people and the ordinary left lane blocker who is just stupid and oblivious?

    I drive a fair amount, but I just don't see it.
  • seminole_kevseminole_kev Member Posts: 1,696
    but they're both morons ;-)
  • fintailfintail Member Posts: 58,415
    How do you tell? It's easy to find a couple cars running side by side, not letting anyone through. If one is making no effort to get by the other, chances are it is intentional.

    I see it now and then...not every day, but it's out there.
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