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Second, I hear you on quality of life. I'll be 50 exactly one month from today, and I was really hoping to get something new and fun and sporty. I suppose 1 1/2 out of three isn't too bad (new and somewhat fun - don't think sporty enters into the equation). Plus I'll probably be going in for surgery on my face next month, and I have to consider a colonoscopy as well. I'll be having a fun holiday season!
Just for grins, can you explain to us why all the subterfuge with getting the wife on board with the convertible? What are her arguments against you getting what you want at this stage of your life, especially as you've told us time and again that the money is yours, not shared.
I'm off to work delivering pizzas .. one last hurrah in the ION, as the son will come by tomorrow to pick it up. I've cleaned it out and transferred what I want into the Hyundai.
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anyway, the 3 of us wandered up to look at a 2013 Mustang convertible (AT, 6 cyl). kid and I went with the salesdude. wife declined to climb in back and stayed at dealer. Kid fit fine in the back (being 5-2, 110# and a former competitive gymnast helped). Drove fine, OK car. Would have to get used to the high long prow though. Odd seeing the hood on a car like that! Daughter thought it was cooled. Liked the neon blue GT in the showroom better...
then went to look at the 2006 330ci BMW convertible. Took it out. They were not impressed. It had some "old car issues" (trim popping off, visor fell off, creaks/noises). Kid did not find the rear seat very comfortable (and did not like the backward seatbelts!). It was OK, but not quite what I suspected. and it smelled old. At this point, I don't think we want anything that seems old, though does not have to be new.
quite odd that both of them liked the Mustang much better than the E46.
so, down to the BMW dealer to look at an E90. Sat in one (top down) in showroom that was new. they liked that a lot more. And checked out a 2012 (vermillion red, gorgeous) outside. Plenty of room. Very nice. Good visibility with the top up. Zero trunk room with it down (my Miata had way more capacity). Expensive.
also sat in a 2013 128 convertible. blue over beige, wife's favorite color combo. Plenty of room inside, and much better trunk space (bigger sail panel blindspot though). Might be better with one of those over a 3 series.
In honor of Mack, To be continued........
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
so, we decided to go to an old plan (at some point, after college is over, get a toy sportscar as a spare). So, it would make sense to get a fixed roof car, opening up a world of options. Also decided that for a number of reason, better to get a "sporty" 4 door (more selection, cheaper, smaller doors, more usable). so now thinking about a 4 door 328, probably a 2009-2011 vintage (year largely dependent on when we do this).
Now just need to go find one to drive...
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
also had some cool action shot racing photos of various BMWs and a few Porsches, I assume connected to the guy that owns the place (Kyle Griffith, is he famous too?)
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
Same here. Built it myself 30 years ago because I hated paying all that interest (also because I feared I wouldn't qualify for the loan). About $150/mo for land line cable and Internet. Another $100 for my son's phone because he let a pretty girl at the mall talk him into it.
Oh yeah, $20 every few months for a Trac phone which my other son always takes.
Pretty sad.
Except for the 5 cars and trucks I own.
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
I came to the same conclusion a few years ago. I worked hard all my life and denied all the frills. Now, when I can afford a few extras I indulge. Not often but enough to see what it was I was working for.
Enjoy the fruits of your labor.
Don't worry about leaving the car outside. Just get a car cover.
Btw, one of your fellow Floridians on another board who is also a former car salesman told me that this is the PRIME convertible buying season.
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
You're lucky that yours is on board with it. But since I am working now, she might give in to me as it will only cost me the purchase price and the extra insurance yearly. The petrol dollars would just be split between both vehicles and to be honest, once she drove it I think she'd love it and want to use it often. She's already told me that if I were to get the Acura ILX that she was going to drive it also...she said the same thing a few years back when I almost bought the used Volvo S40. I would have not much of a problem if she did drive it occasionally even though we have different driving styles. Now that I am retired and the kids are basically gone, I want to do for me now, call it selfish but it is out time right now and as long as I continue to work, which I plan to do, I don't see the problem. So we shall see but best to get everything lined up and thought out to make the best case for purchase.
Luckily I am not to invested emotionally here and I won't be crushed if nothing even happens here...this is a want and not a need, something for my 59th birthday present and since I got this very nice gift from my dad, why not use some of it for me as I've said, the majority is going into my retirement savings for our future. If we could not afford this, there's no way I'd even think about it but this is actually doable,so why not get some happiness for me...and for her. She would love it once she just gets in, drops the top and drives especially that now our nicest weather of the year is about to start. We do not have a real spring or fall...it's either hot and humid or cooler and dry and when I say cool, I mean in the high 50's and 60's...perfect convertible weather. What's there not to like here. And we both deserve to have some fun!!! Also, i know the kids would also love it!
The Sandman
2023 Hyundai Kona Limited AWD (wife) / 2025 VW GTI (me) / 2019 Chevrolet Cruze Premier RS (daughter #1) / 2020 Hyundai Accent SE (daughter #2) / 2023 Subaru Impreza Base (son)
LOL, please don't set it up like that! It's too easy!
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
Isn't it obvious? Your wife is buying a car for YOU! You have married the perfect woman!
Bet she and your daughter are in on it together. Check to see if they are giggling behind your back.
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The Sandman
2023 Hyundai Kona Limited AWD (wife) / 2025 VW GTI (me) / 2019 Chevrolet Cruze Premier RS (daughter #1) / 2020 Hyundai Accent SE (daughter #2) / 2023 Subaru Impreza Base (son)
It's interesting to hear about how people handle family finances. Neither one of us here are shoppers so that probably helps. With all the down time we had this past week, we mumbled about going to a car dealer or two, but that never happened either. Did eat out a lot, which is about our favorite hobby.
We've always lived way under our means and have what we need...our kids always wanted more but we instilled our values in them so they now know the value of a buck and also live below their means. No sense being showy and one doesn't have to have the best and the most to live a happy life. This want of a drop top is really the first time I've really ever splurged on something just for me and luckily the price isn't too far out there for what I am getting.
The Sandman
2023 Hyundai Kona Limited AWD (wife) / 2025 VW GTI (me) / 2019 Chevrolet Cruze Premier RS (daughter #1) / 2020 Hyundai Accent SE (daughter #2) / 2023 Subaru Impreza Base (son)
oldfarmer - ugh, I didn't really think that through when I typed it, did I? Not a good mental image, for sure.
stick - sorry to hear about your friend. A HS classmate passed away a couple of years ago - cervical cancer. Six weeks from diagnosis. OTOH, glad to hear that you and the family were out car shopping - and that you're refining the plan as you go.
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As my late father would have put it, "I stand high in low places."
Mine: 1995 318ti Club Sport-2020 C43-1996 Speed Triple Challenge Cup Replica
Wife's: 2021 Sahara 4xe
Son's: 2018 330i xDrive
If things go according to my plan, hopefully by next Friday there will be another addition to our vehicular stable. But for now, I will no longer bore y'all with the details. I just hope I can add a punch to our final total for 2013. Wish me luck folks! G-d willing my plan will come to fruition, and this would make me the happiest guy on the planet!
The Sandman
2023 Hyundai Kona Limited AWD (wife) / 2025 VW GTI (me) / 2019 Chevrolet Cruze Premier RS (daughter #1) / 2020 Hyundai Accent SE (daughter #2) / 2023 Subaru Impreza Base (son)
Don't worry, most posters wouldn't notice since they aren't a wise-[non-permissible content removed] like me. Besides, Sandy got me good when he responded to your post through mine and I suddenly got worried about my kids.
I think you got a terrific deal on that lease.
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
an E90 328 (so the NA 6), what fuel do you need to use? Is premium required and a must, or recommended and not really needed? The wife was asking.
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
Every car we own uses Premium.. I don't think about it, any more... I love how all of the "engineers" will tell you that they have "always used regular" in their premium required/recommended cars and "it makes no difference"..
Really? How would you know?
I wouldn't risk a $10K engine to save $2 per week..
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I always put premium in the GLI and try to use top-tier fuel at least every once in a while to try to reduce the chance of deposits (not that I'll keep the car long enough for that to matter :P ).
I've always ran Chevron premium in my gasoline cars, and never had fuel system issues.
Just curious...if one gets a ticket and goes to school, is that violation still on one's record and can one's insurance company see it? I was bad back in march, very very bad, and got caught in the same place and had to go into court. I paid the fine and went to school even though the cop never showed...out of all the people there, the lady judge called me up last and she just said do ya just want to go to school? After some of the things she had done in that courtroom prior, I jumped at it instead of saying that it should be thrown out due to his not showing up but didn't want to press my luck. As of yesterday, my insurance man didn't see it anywhere but I didn't tell him either. He just said my rate would go up $590 for the year on the drop top. So I guess it won't show up...right? Road, did I do the right thing here by just agreeing with the lady judge??
The Sandman
2023 Hyundai Kona Limited AWD (wife) / 2025 VW GTI (me) / 2019 Chevrolet Cruze Premier RS (daughter #1) / 2020 Hyundai Accent SE (daughter #2) / 2023 Subaru Impreza Base (son)
so functionally, no difference. I would only worry if there was a chance for LT damage.
Besides, it is basically identical to one of the Honda engines that runs on regular. I never take it over about 3.5K anyway, so (as I suspect) if the tweaks were at the upper end of the rev range, I am never getting to them anyway!
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If possible to summarize and in an attempt to avoid all the numerous grey areas..the higher the performance intent of any given vehicle that requires PUG, the greater the chance that engine management will retard timing enough that not only performance, but poorer FE also will be fairly noticeable if subjected to RUG.
Mine: 1995 318ti Club Sport-2020 C43-1996 Speed Triple Challenge Cup Replica
Wife's: 2021 Sahara 4xe
Son's: 2018 330i xDrive
The Sandman
2023 Hyundai Kona Limited AWD (wife) / 2025 VW GTI (me) / 2019 Chevrolet Cruze Premier RS (daughter #1) / 2020 Hyundai Accent SE (daughter #2) / 2023 Subaru Impreza Base (son)
Or $127 a year. That over two free tanks of gas a year.
If it was identical, then Acura wouldn't recommend premium... just saying..
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Like I said... $2 per week... ;-)
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I've converted our 4.54 l gal to your 3.78l and used $ parity. Here I used only 15¢ / litre, yet it can be much more depending on where and when. Like I say, I'm going conservative..and used a very reasonable 12000 mi / year. And using 23 mpg (your mpg) which I think is fair enough for many higher performance types that are going to require PUG. So a little over 521 gal per year. Works out to $300. So for vehicles that couldn't avg 23 mpg or anyone that does more than 12k mi/yr, the cost dif could/will be much much more. In this example though, for Cdns we're talking over 2.5 times Steve's calcs with his van. Works out to about 8 bucks / 14 US gal refill. So with my situation, it does factor in when choosing a new vehicle.
Mine: 1995 318ti Club Sport-2020 C43-1996 Speed Triple Challenge Cup Replica
Wife's: 2021 Sahara 4xe
Son's: 2018 330i xDrive
Bet if you were the judge I might've had a different outcome since I thought the police needed to be there to prove their case? And right now I am involved with a lawyer and judge with the probate of my dad's estate and waiting for the judge to put me in charge. Turns out my mom moved some assets into her estate that she was only supposed to get the proceeds from. Looks like I will have to sue her estate to first get the principle put back into my dad's estate and then sue for the payments I should've gotten since January of 2006. I was written out of her will and she moved some assets into her estate, trust, to keep me from getting my 1/4 share...this situation will have to be rectified and I will have to get paid back 8 years of interest payments. This is going to be a problem because there's only my twin brother and my siblings spouses that I have to go after to get things put back where they belong plus get those payments that they have gotten since 2006. But first I have to write them all checks, or make sure the assets get to their accounts from the brokerage account. Then I might have to sue if we all can't get things straightened out as there must be thousands of dollars here I am guessing...have no clue. Just know that they all tried to steal money from me...I was already able to get the annuity my siblings tried to hide from me by going to the company directly. Once they were "outed", the funds went back into the estate where the funds belonged...came out to be close to $32k they tried to "steal"! I just want to be "fair", a constant in my life especially this week, I just want to follow the wishes that my dad wrote out in his will and that's what I plan to do, get those assets returned to their rightful home and be fair with the other three. That is an executors job I believe!
The Sandman
2023 Hyundai Kona Limited AWD (wife) / 2025 VW GTI (me) / 2019 Chevrolet Cruze Premier RS (daughter #1) / 2020 Hyundai Accent SE (daughter #2) / 2023 Subaru Impreza Base (son)
$2 a week here, $2 a week there. I've been on salary some but more often making my own rain over the last ~40+ years, and when you have your outgo "under control" you don't lose sleep if you decide to take off on the road for a month or if you get fired from a contract. (Or if your family gets "weird").
Now, if your thing is head-snapping acceleration, that's cool. Or if premium saves money from better mpg, that makes sense too. Some of us just have different stuff we'd rather spend our money on. Or would rather have the time rather than the dough.
Sorry to hear about the problems with your father's estate, hope you get it worked out!
Confirmed with the wife again about going to the car show next Saturday and showed her a few of her choices on the way to dinner tonight. She liked a few and hated a few and says she wants to just fix her a/c now and keep her Mazda another year. Think we still need to look at new vehicles anyhow as I think it's time to purchase within the year. I think once she goes and sits in a few vehicles and start to get a bit more enthused, I might persuade her to purchase even sooner, like the week before New Years 2014. I just want it done with and move on to the next issue as I know her vehicle will break down at the most inopportune time and cost a lot to fix and then she'll tell me she no longer trusts it and to get into something else. I want to skip all that drama and just cut to the chase with a nice new 2014 model and be done with it be it Hyundai, Mazda whatever...just something brand new for her that she likes and can drive without issue.
The Sandman
2023 Hyundai Kona Limited AWD (wife) / 2025 VW GTI (me) / 2019 Chevrolet Cruze Premier RS (daughter #1) / 2020 Hyundai Accent SE (daughter #2) / 2023 Subaru Impreza Base (son)
If a car requires premium, do it . If it recommends it, at least think about it. If premium is a problem, that person simply shouldn't be looking at a car that recommends or requires it.
Does this place pay enough to allow random month long vacations, even for a miser like you?
For most private sector workers, unless they marry well or are born lucky, time is related to money, you usually can't have both.
Spoke with some co-workers and no one worked this weekend so far though I did let my new boss know that the other guy on the team that I have been akin to work and then home are not a two for one deal and that I am only responsible for myself. I've asked him to chip in for gas and all and he's done it only once and I've been driving him for a few weeks now and I let him know again on Thursday that this will have to change...so we shall see. My new boss understood that I will drive him sometimes but not as a steady diet as sometimes after work I meet the wife in Lauderdale for a bite to eat, sometimes I stop by friends and many times I do have things to do so he will need to either buy a vehicle or go back to the bus. Until then, I will take him when it works for me as I hate others being so dependent on me...it's starting to suffocate me!
Have decided to stop by the nearby BMW store tomorrow just to walk around their used area and see what they've got, maybe even take a short spin in anything that catches my eye. For some reason I like the BMW drop tops and the MB sedans, go figure. Luckily both stores are pretty close to the other as well as the VW and Audi stores nearby also. Something around the $14k mark with miles in the 50's would make me feel a whole lot better, something that maybe was driven 7k to 8k/year would be a better fit actually...that 88+k number is starting to concern me a bit. I have a feeling that at 90k, major things red to be done to German vehicles and those could get pricey...the point of all this is to find something fun but with a very reasonable price tag and something not to be used as a daily driver...more of a nice weather vehicle. And a nice finished inside ceiling would be wonderful as I don't want to go deaf driving anything with the top up as when it gets too hot outside, the top will be up and the a/c on. I know I am asking a lot here but I think I can find the perfect vehicle out there and I do have time on my side which is great. If nothing happens even by next summer I won't die because this is a definite want and not needed one bit...this is me trying to be spontaneous and not thinking much about the costs involved for once! Totally not me!!!
The Spontaneous Sandman
2023 Hyundai Kona Limited AWD (wife) / 2025 VW GTI (me) / 2019 Chevrolet Cruze Premier RS (daughter #1) / 2020 Hyundai Accent SE (daughter #2) / 2023 Subaru Impreza Base (son)
And yeah, you never have time and money at the same time.
If it was identical, then Acura wouldn't recommend premium... just saying..
Does it have identical power figures? If there's a difference, then that is what the premium gas in the Acura will get you.
Exactly, roadburner... the delta at many stations around here is just 20 cents a gallon, 30 cents at worst. If the premium gets me an extra 2 mpg, then I am breaking even on fuel costs before we even consider what's good for the engine.
When I start seeing 25-30 cpg between mid-grade and premium, that's when I'll start to tighten up the wallet a bit. The few times I've put mid-grade in the Volvo my mpg hasn't suffered much if at all. Haven't dared to put in regular.
I usually stick with the name-brands... Shell when it's convenient, but usually BP because there's a BP right across from my office. If the needle drops too low on me while I am on the East End, I'll go to Thornton's rather than Marathon or Speedway, because I don't want to support the badly-behaving monopoly that drives the fluctuations (gouging?) of gas prices around here.
But if your van is premium recommended or required, you don't know how many gallons you may have unnecessarily burned as a result of using regular. Just a 5% difference in consumption is ~450 gallons, which at the midpoint of prices since 1999 ($2.50) would cancel out over $1100 of your savings.
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How can you tell there is no ethyl alcohol in the premium? In my state, there are no signs on the pump to indicate 10% ethanol--they're not required anymore to encourage ethanol use required in the fuels.
2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,
It's only 2 stations about 15 miles away and also the marinas around here can get no ethanol gas for boats.
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Right.
Premium "required" might not be a deal killer but it would definitely go onto the con side of my spreadsheet when I'm comparing cars.
On the road last summer, I "splurged" on some ethanol-free regular gas for the van, hoping to at last break the mythical 30 mpg tank. That tank was worse than average. Best mpg was on 85 RON at elevation in NM, but the van's record is still stuck at 29.9.
Yes it certainly is. When my mother died and I became executor I sat my two brothers down and said: "I know that you borrowed various sums from the folks over the years (I had too but much, much less) and as executor I'm suppose to get it all back. But if you both agree we will cancel all debts to the estate and go from there."
Sure I lost some money but it kept peace in the family and I still have a relationship with my brothers.
Fighting over money can destroy a family. If you have a good relationship with your siblings now, you might want to think about it.
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So while I sound like I'm portraying sour grapes...I guess I am no doubt..but my point is, as long as I am paying (fastforwarding to present timeframe) be it whether I give to them or things like my Pathfinder to my nephew, rather than sell it for 2000k when he was trying to pay down his mortgage, or whatever, as long as I am paying, I seem to be in their life more. Kept apprised of what they're up to and if they plan to go on vacation etc. But if I start holding back and not be the patsy (since I can't even afford to anymore...they could buy me out 30 x over..or more) then I notice that I am not nearly as involved with their life either. I was literally paying to be a part of their life.
Isn't that a little too close to what a lady of the evening does? Charge people for their presence? But at least with that scenario, they are strangers and on some level, perhaps a case could be made for the exchange of money.
When it's family..it just plain hurts.
I need to check the outputs on the Honda and Acura V6. Particularly the CR, which I don't thing changed. IIRC they tweaked it slightly on the top end, where I never go.
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checked a number of sources, including TOV. Bottom line, the RDX and the 2013 Accord are using the same J35Y (earth dreams) V6 engine. output is within a couple for HP and torque. compression ratio is the same at 10.5-1.
but, the Accord is regular recommended, but the RDX is PUG but OK to use RUG (with usual disclaimer about MPG or performance).
a few people on TOV said they had confirmation from Acura that it did not matter.
why is a good question. I go with the "premium cars need premium gas" theory (meaning it is all mental!)
I still go back and forth with what I use, but would not worry at all about using regular all the time in the rdx.
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