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Since I was already in pretty deep with the house I said, "what the hell, yeah, go for it". I didn't realize I was the talk of the neighborhood until one day about a year later when I bumped into a guy around the circle from me. He wanted to know what house I lived in and I described the house which was different from the standard colonials in that development. He stops me while I'm into my description and says, "oh, you're the guy with the nice green grass. Everybody knows that house". I said something like, "aren't all the lawns around here green"? He said, "not like yours they aren't, I bet that grass cost you a fortune". When I told him it was an extra 5 cents per square foot, his jaw dropped and he said, "my builder (his was different than mine) never offered that to me". I didn't know what he wanted me to say but he seemed very disappointed.
Like I said, famous and I didn't even know it. That was the best bang for an extra nickel I ever got.
Since @sda lives in SC maybe he has a show off neighbor that has Emerald Zoysia.
jmonroe
My inlaws who live in Simpsonville, near Greenville, SC had Zoysia in their yard. It was thick as a carpet. They have since moved to a townhouse community. I have the typical tall fescue in our yard. It is what the builder put down through out the neighborhood. It can be difficult to keep, and requires constant seeding and soil aeration to promote growth. Because of the intense sun there are areas of the yard that tends to burn out during the summer. It is a vicious cycle.
I hope everyone is doing well and has dug out of the snow. Brrrr
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If you aren't in a tax advantage plan it's just more of your overall savings. And the more of that the better. 20 years out, your home equity is also a great source of college funding, depending on interest rates and tax code at the time. Heck, riecently, you can use a HELOC and finance it all at 3-4%, and write the interest off your taxes.
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
'24 Chevy Blazer EV 2LT
As for saving for Sam's tuition, I don't have anything specific to say but you seem to be aware of the costs so going to a financial person that the family has had success with should be high on your list.
I don't know now what I paid for my 2 Sons at Penn State and I don't want to be reminded of it today but they still had college loans but not too bad IIRC. However, that was back when tuition was not what it is today or what it will be many days from now.
I don't want to scare you but when Son #1 had his first son, he was thinking like you and brought up the college thingy to his financial advisor. His advisor said something like, "unless you get fabulous raises from now until he graduates high school or become the CEO of your company, you will probably not have enough to cover all of his college tuition. The costs are going up so fast no one knows what will be needed in 18 years. Just save as much as you can while still living and enjoying his childhood along the way".
My Son now has 3 sons and he knows he can't cover all of that for all of them. Tuition loans for some of the costs are a certainty for them and he has accepted that.
Just save what you can and enjoy the ride. It goes by faster than the sports car you have always wanted.
Good luck.
jmonroe
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Stick and Suydam expressed my thoughts, too (notably, low cost Vanguard Index or Target funds. 529 if you can find one that suits you. The ex and I are using the Fidelity MA 529 to pay for our two kids. I can't believe we've saved enough to fund college, buy homes, cars and likely retire OK. Especially since the ex often and loudly noted what a cheap b@st@rd I was!). It's a long way away, but be careful when using HEL or HELOC; something goes wrong there and the collateral is your home!
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The best way is just to buy an index fund...it will outperform most managed mutual funds at a fraction of the cost....the end results could be much more saved at the end.
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I know there is some concern about having too much in a college fund and it impacting financial aid awards. I think the reality is that unless something dramatically changes between now and 2035 when he is ready to go to college, odds are that our income is going to be the limiting factor in receiving need-based financial aid rather than a college fund. Hopefully he'll be able to get some merit based!
I'll let you know what our financial planner says!
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2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
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I really like hearing that people take responsibility for their lives, and plan for the future.
2017 MB E400 , 2015 MB GLK350, 2014 MB C250
If they decide to stay temporarily after graduation (but while working a real job) that is fine, but expect a rent bill! Our son was here for about a year working a transitional job, but moved out when he landed a career position (made easy decision based on the job being 4 hours away!).
Will likely be different with the baby. We will probably move to be by her when she lands a job (since we were planning to downsize anyway). That will be interesting logistically, but if we pull it off, we would have a new house by the time she starts, and would live with us at first anyway.
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Before our first kid was ready to go to college in 2012, our financial guy said, "If you have any big purchases, do it before the end of 2011 as that's when colleges will look at what you have in the bank". We bought a new Malibu and put a new deck on our house, but it didn't much matter, as we got no financial aid for that kid, anyway.
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To me, when you see a movie or TV show about a college town, it looks like Oxford (where Miami is located).
A friend and longtime coworker, now retired, graduated there in 1969. He talked about when the Lemon Pipers were students there--they had the #1 hit, "Green Tambourine", which is still heard on oldies radio.
Actually, per Facebook, she is.
My one coworker always gave her grief about "what's it take to get a cup of coffee around here?" and she'd give it right back to him. When we'd get back only once or twice a year, we'd always ask for her and she'd give us a hug and could actually remember the orders the three of us typically got!
I haven't been there in at least a year, but the three of us still pitch in money and put it in a Christmas card and mail it to her there.
I do think generally, Bob Evans restaurants have slid in the past few years--the one nearest me has. I'd gladly take Cracker Barrel over them most of the time.
2013 LX 570 2016 LS 460
1. Safety (they lived)
2. Longevity (pass old Subaru to your kid, don't worry about the safety, see Item 1)
3. Practicality (dog approved)
You don't love it in the commercials because touchy-feely stuff. You love it because it saved your life, lasts long and is super practical, including accommodations for your dog. I think it's a great message. BTW, those claims are not based on some flaky stuff, they are actual data-supported, like essentially on-going IIHS recommendation for all models every year last 10 years, 95% of 10 years old Subarus are still on the road, etc.
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2013 LX 570 2016 LS 460
Having a plan is good, but don't feel like you have to figure it all out now.
My wife and I just saved up bunch of money, that was our college plan.
Some day you will probably have to deal with this thing known as FAFSA.
It's the main way financial need is calculated for colleges.
One of the things it calculates is EFC(Expected Family Contribution).
The first time I got the results, the number was 4 times the amount it was going to cost for TR&B.
A small world thing is that my oldest is a grad of the school mentioned in some of the previous posts.
We are from CT and the school is in Ohio.
Anyone been to Bagel & Deli lately?
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
'24 Chevy Blazer EV 2LT
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
VW has a commercial here that for their lifted Jetta.
Kind of a parody of Subaru.
https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=vw+alltrack+2017+commercial&view=detail&mid=753F5C43FA1FA6B65CD4753F5C43FA1FA6B65CD4&FORM=VIRE
Since I was already in pretty deep with the house I said, "what the hell, yeah, go for it". I didn't realize I was the talk of the neighborhood until one day about a year later when I bumped into a guy around the circle from me. He wanted to know what house I lived in and I described the house which was different from the standard colonials in that development. He stops me while I'm into my description and says, "oh, you're the guy with the nice green grass. Everybody knows that house". I said something like, "aren't all the lawns around here green"? He said, "not like yours they aren't, I bet that grass cost you a fortune". When I told him it was an extra 5 cents per square foot, his jaw dropped and he said, "my builder (his was different than mine) never offered that to me". I didn't know what he wanted me to say but he seemed very disappointed.
Like I said, famous and I didn't even know it. That was the best bang for an extra nickel I ever got.
Since @sda lives in SC maybe he has a show off neighbor that has Emerald Zoysia.
jmonroe
Zoysia is a tough southern grass that takes a lot of abuse. It's only drawback is it turns dead brown at the first frost. Up here in the north it looks great until October then it's terrible until almost June. It was marketed heavily in magazines years ago and you can still tell who got suckered into planting it in May when they have huge swaths of dead looking grass while everyone else has nice green lawns.
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
Imports weren't bought because they were imports. Detroit is supposed to be a good thing?
Second, I reccommend avoiding a broker accociated with your bank. I did that and he always told me any stock I asked about was "a screaming buy" just before it dropped 25%. In fact almost all the stocks I picked did well while all the one they reccommended went down. After 7 years I just broke even especially after outragous broker fees that canceled out any gains. These people are basically salesmen who come and go like the seasons leaving you with a fee for switching to the next guy. At the very end I was told "your portfolio is just too small for us to care about". They make buy here pay here car salesmen sound compassionate.
I finally decided that stock picking wasn't for me so I went with a no commission, low fee mutual fund. I choose Vanguard because the fees were low.
I'd reccommend a broad market index fund like Vandguard's S&P500 Index or their Total Market Index. Index funds are generally good for novice investors. If you DRIP (reinvest your dividends) you almost can't help but make out in the long term.
What you have going for you is the time span available. In 18 years you can build an incredible nest egg for your son.
This is all just my opinion so do your own research. Good luck.
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Anybody know anything about that?
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
It is just getting models like Legacy's and Foresters mixed up that is the hard part. :@
2017 MB E400 , 2015 MB GLK350, 2014 MB C250
Well there's manipulative and then there's just plain crazy.
But on the other hand, the latest 200 was really a Fiat so maybe there was some truth to it.
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
You have to be a car buff when one of your favorite features is the power manually (or automatically) operated rear spoiler. In the picture it is in the "UP" position.
The Buick ad where she buys a new baby cake for "Taylor" and then finds out she bought a girls cake when "Taylor" was a boy kind of makes me wonder how bright the young lady is. IMHO, I am not sure how the ad convinces you to buy a Buick....it almost has the opposite affect on me = doesn't everyone know Taylor could be a boy or a girl? . But, you do remember it.
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When I was there, it was really apparent how small the town was. My car was hit from behind by a guy I had watched drinking a Budweiser from the can when I slowed to make a right turn at the deli on the corner of High and Tallawanda. He didn't bother stopping. When I got to the police station with the license number and description of the accident, the cop on duty knew him by name!!!
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What you ended up doing was perfect.
I spoke to an old school mate who became a stock broker in California....I said you must be doing really well. He said, Right, as we say, wealthy people trust me to invest their great amounts of money, and I get on a bus in the morning to get to work. Makes you think.
*I forget who wanted to share our couch with you....but, the deal is off, actually never got off the ground
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Oxford(OxVegas as it is otherwise known) is probably the only place having a street named after Weeb Ewbank.
NY Jets fans will appreciate it.