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Let me explain a little before the interesting part.
I went to two of my Grandsons local hockey tournament games today. The first was Grandson #3 (Son #2's son) at 10 this morning. They lost and are now eliminated. Don't want to talk about that anymore. The parking lot at this arena has some pretty skinny parking spots (that's why we always take Mrs. j's Subie and not my Genny) and is surely why Mrs. j's Subie got wacked 2 years ago like I just mentioned in my post above.
At tournament time it is mighty tuff to find a parking spot but I got lucky with the first game because a game had just finished and I found a spot right away. The second game Grandson #4 (little goalie belonging to Son #1) was at 1:30 so Mrs. j wanted to go get some groceries rather than sitting around waiting. Nice guy jmonroe agrees. I knew I couldn't be as lucky finding a spot for the second game and I was right. Drove around the building and just about when I was about to give up I see someone backing out. As I'm pulling in I realize I am between 2 pickups. I damn sure didn't like that idea but there was nothing else available. As I'm walking to the arena (I had already dropped of Mrs. j before my drive around), I see a parking spot about 4 spots down with cars on both sides, no trucks. I think it just became available as I was pulling into my spot. I look around and don't see any cars coming so I quickly jump in the car and move it into this safer spot. That was a relief. Now as I'm again walking to the arena, I see another parking spot about 5 spots down. I'm not moving her car again and even if I wanted to I now hear a car racing down this aisle. The car is moving way too fast for this parking lot but I figured they saw a spot open and they wanted it. The car didn't have to speed because the aisle is one way anyhow but it was really moving and I could tell it couldn't pull into that spot so I thought that car was leaving not coming. Wrong, the car screeches to a stop past the spot and the front bumper really dipped down. Even with all of the windows closed on this smallish Jeep I can now hear the radio blasting some rap music and the woman immediately throws the car into reverse and is backing up almost as fast as she was going forward. BAM, she backs right into the car that was about a car length behind her. She jumps out of her car screaming at the driver that she just ran into. Here is some of that conversation:
As I said the woman (30 ish) was screaming.
Woman: WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU. DIDN'T YOU SEE THAT I WANTED THAT PARKING SPOT?
GUY: Lady, all I saw was you backing up into me.
Woman: YOU OTTA WATCH WHERE YOU'RE GOING.
GUY: Mam, I think you should have been the one watching. I was stopped and you backed into me. Anytime you are backing up and the other car is stopped, you are the one at fault not me and your insurance company will be paying for this.
Woman: LIKE HELL, PROVE IT, I'M GOING TO TELL THEM YOU RAN INTO ME.
WOW, I now have to get into this.
Me (talking to the guy): I saw what happened and I'll be a witness for you.
Woman even more irate and even louder.
Woman: YOU STAY THE HELL OUT OF THIS. THIS IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.
Me (talking to the guy): Just get her info and I'll back you up on this.
Woman: I'M NOT GOING TO GIVE ANYBODY ANY INFO.
Me: Just get her license plate number and call the cops. I'll stick around.
He didn't have to call the cops. About 4 cars back (a line of about 10 cars has formed by now) a guy approaches and asks what's going on.
Woman: WHY THE HELL DO YOU CARE?
The guy reaches into his coat and pulls out his ID. He's an off duty cop from and adjoining community coming to his kids hockey. What are the chances of that happening?
Woman (no longer screaming): Do you have jurisdiction for this parking lot?
Cop: I have enough authority to make sure information is exchanged during an accident. If you want, I can get the local police here to make sure you do the right thing. So, how do you want me to proceed?
Woman: OK, let me get my purse.
The guy was driving an Escape and their bumpers matched pretty well so as best as I could see there was only bumper damage. But the guys bumper was a little worse off. A piece was hanging down pretty low (maybe 8 inches from the ground) and the cop went to his car and got some duct tape because he said if the guy drove out on the highway he could be pulled over because of that.
As we were walking in, the guy, the cop and me, the cop said, "for his sake I hope you don't back out of being his witness. Because he won't have a leg to stand on without it. When that happens the insurance companies will each pay for their insured and both parties will have rate increases".
I am not going to back out of this.
So, I'm pretty sure I know what you guys would have done given the same situation, right ?
BTW, Grandson #4's team won 2-1 with his team scoring the winning goal with 4 seconds left. So, I get to go back to this same arena tomorrow at noon and look for another skinny parking spot.
jmonroe
'15 Genesis V8 with Ultimate Package and '18 Legacy Limited 6 cyl
I too am a devotee of finding a safe spot in a lot. And will often pass up risky ones. Especially at Walmart, or the supermarket (anywhere with carts). the wife is used to parking out in the hinterlands and hoofing in.
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
You may be better off getting it fixed now....might as well enjoy the car while you have it....it won't be worth as much when you trade it in if it isn't fixed.
$1000 deductible...may be better to pay yourself. Sometimes they say they won't raise your rate...but, I think they sometimes make sure they get that money back.
2017 MB E400 , 2015 MB GLK350, 2014 MB C250
Mine: 1995 318ti Club Sport-2020 C43-1996 Speed Triple Challenge Cup Replica
Wife's: 2021 Sahara 4xe
Son's: 2018 330i xDrive
When your opponent is shooting himself in the foot, don’t interrupt him.
Mine: 1995 318ti Club Sport-2020 C43-1996 Speed Triple Challenge Cup Replica
Wife's: 2021 Sahara 4xe
Son's: 2018 330i xDrive
I've heard from old friends out of the blue for that reason!
'21 Dark Blue/Black Audi A7 PHEV (mine); '22 White/Beige BMW X3 (hers); '20 Estoril Blue/Oyster BMW M240xi 'Vert (Ours, read: hers in 'vert weather; mine during Nor'easters...)
Shoulda been lunching with you! Didn't really think about that, a bit distraught (and I know it's not a huge deal. Coulda been much worse, taken out a headlight or worse...). It's a 4+ year old Jag, depreciation is its middle name! Still, 50 months unscathed, I guess it was due.
'21 Dark Blue/Black Audi A7 PHEV (mine); '22 White/Beige BMW X3 (hers); '20 Estoril Blue/Oyster BMW M240xi 'Vert (Ours, read: hers in 'vert weather; mine during Nor'easters...)
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
"Do you have jurisdiction for this parking lot?" ...... anybody else find that funny? Bbird?
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
Mine: 1995 318ti Club Sport-2020 C43-1996 Speed Triple Challenge Cup Replica
Wife's: 2021 Sahara 4xe
Son's: 2018 330i xDrive
Her behavior about the accident. Crazy.
I'd throw in all that if her insurance company reads or hears you in a phone interview. Maybe they'd drop her as a client. Serve her right.
Interesting story, despite its being l o n g. lol
2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
You might try to price out a grill from a used parts dealer. That would give you some idea of the cost involved. Looks like it was a red car that did the damage to the door. Looks like a good hard slam.
2017 MB E400 , 2015 MB GLK350, 2014 MB C250
The paintless dent remover place might be able to fix that door. Grille needs some duct tape.
2017 MB E400 , 2015 MB GLK350, 2014 MB C250
IMID....When O'Gara was in their old facility and when they were just "Hess and Eisenhart", I took a tour of their old plant. They showed some of the offensive capabilities they could add to a build (think hidden machine guns) and their ability to build cars that handled well while sporting hundreds of pounds of extra armor.
At that time they had some old, retired armored Cadillacs which were intersting to see, too.
They made a point of stressing their best service.....the ability to keep their client base secret and the details of their builds.
RB....in now way was I indicating you were shilling for contributions. Just that my long, lost friend sought me out for no other reason than to hit me up for money, vs her stated purpose to catch up.
I'm serious, if I could vote for you, I would...based on getting to know you here.
Craig...I've been the target of those who want me to join them on their AMWAY, JL WILLIAMS, PHONE SERVICE, and a wealth of other pyramid schemes. They always get into them enthusiastically and just as quickly get out (usually quite a bit lighter in the wallet).
I assume the main difference is tires though. If you want to compare, take a new mustang GT and the Boss 429, and switch rear tires. See how the new car does with skinny little bias ply tires on it. Much of the rest is probably electronics. And gear count.
But hugely tires.
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
She asked me one day at work if I was interested in a business opportunity her and a friend had, no mention of what it was. Could they come by my place one evening to discuss. I wouldn't regret it, etc etc. I figured it was property or whatever given her background so I agreed. When they showed as arranged a few days later it turned out that the friend was pitching Amway. I politely listened to the sales pitch given that my boss was part of it and when it ended told them I would let her know once I had a chance to think it over. Now, there was zero chance of me agreeing but I needed some time to figure out how to say no without my boss using it against me. I finally did and there didn't seem to be much fallout subsequently, though she was transferred out not long after. What terrible judgement on her part though.
2017 Cadillac ATS Performance Premium 3.6
as for the feel back then, 2 reasons come to mind: it is all relative AND tanks with poor handling characteristics are downright frightening when moving quickly. The stability and serenity of modern autos makes going fast feel safe and secure.
'11 GMC Sierra 1500; '98 Alfa 156 2.0TS; '08 Maser QP; '67 Coronet R/T; '13 Fiat 500c; '20 S90 T6; '22 MB Sprinter 2500 4x4 diesel; '97 Suzuki R Wagon; '96 Opel Astra; '11 Mini Cooper S
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
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JM, great story and glad that woman got put in her place. Seem to remember a guy walking over to see if I was o k last week but since the other guy got the ticket for improper backing, think I'm good here. Even if I hadn't moved out of my parking spot, the idiot would've crashed into the front of my vehicle so I was a sitting duck either way.
Folks really need to drive slowly in any parking lot because folks start to back out all the time and not everyone had that back-up warning. Eventually, I plan to get a vehicle with all the nannies on it because of what happened to me...it's time!
The Sandman
2023 Hyundai Kona Limited AWD (wife) / 2025 VW GTI (me) / 2019 Chevrolet Cruze Premier RS (daughter #1) / 2020 Hyundai Accent SE (daughter #2) / 2023 Subaru Impreza Base (son)
Mine: 1995 318ti Club Sport-2020 C43-1996 Speed Triple Challenge Cup Replica
Wife's: 2021 Sahara 4xe
Son's: 2018 330i xDrive
Factor in vastly superior fuel economy and 10,000 mile service intervals and it's safe to say that the hot cars of today let enthusiasts have the best of ALL worlds.
Don't get me wrong, I LOVE classic musclecars and sports cars, but to quote Carly Simon, "These are the good old days!"
Mine: 1995 318ti Club Sport-2020 C43-1996 Speed Triple Challenge Cup Replica
Wife's: 2021 Sahara 4xe
Son's: 2018 330i xDrive
2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,
Best of luck as the adventure continues.
OK I have a parking lot story.
My car is getting new shoes today so with pretty decent weather I woke up the bike a little early to run a few errands. I go to this place where the parking lot is rather small but there is a spot right near the entrance that is empty so I made a beeline for it and parked. Well there was this woman in a Prius that pulled into the lot behind me and started to yell at me, it went sort of like this:
Woman: You cant park there.
Me: (I just look around confused, pretty much my normal self)
Woman: See the sign? Fuel efficient vehicles only. You cant park there.
Sure enough the sign did say "fuel efficient vehicles only.
Me: I get over 65 MPG how much does that gas guzzler get?
Oh, you should have seen the look on her face. She continued her triad as I walked into where I was going., She parked further away and I saw her talking to someone inside and I think she may have been complaining about it.
2011 Hyundai Sonata, 2014 BMW 428i convertible, 2015 Honda CTX700D
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
2011 Hyundai Sonata, 2014 BMW 428i convertible, 2015 Honda CTX700D
jmonroe
'15 Genesis V8 with Ultimate Package and '18 Legacy Limited 6 cyl
'24 Chevy Blazer EV 2LT
RB....couldn't agree more about today's cars being in a golden age.
My Acura with a 3.5L V6 is as fast as the 5L in my former Cobra. Cobra was a beast off the line and in the ¼. The Acura would catch it and hang with it the further down the road they would go.