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  • tjc78tjc78 Member Posts: 17,018
    @nyccarguy
    So sorry for your loss.  40 is too far too young.  I just couldn't imagine how hard this is for your family right now.  

    2025 Ram 1500 Laramie 4x4 / 2023 Mercedes EQE 350 4Matic

  • suydamsuydam Member Posts: 5,075
    So sorry. It's so very sad.
    '24 Kia Sportage PHEV
    '24 Chevy Blazer EV 2LT
  • iluvmysephia1iluvmysephia1 Member Posts: 7,709
    nyccarguy - man, that is awful. I am so sorry to hear the news. My sincere condolences.

    kyfdx, to see an M's game this year will be very cool. Seattle's Mariner's, by all rights, should be atop of the AL West at seasons ending.

    2021 Kia Soul LX 6-speed stick

  • roadburnerroadburner Member Posts: 18,353
    nyccarguy said:

    I had a rough day yesterday. My sister called me at work around 8:00 am to tell me that my brother in law didn't wake up yesterday AM. He was 40. They have 2 girls, ages 5 & 7. It is completely devastating!

    That is horrible; you and your family are in my prayers.

    Mine: 1995 318ti Club Sport-2020 C43-1996 Speed Triple Challenge Cup Replica
    Wife's: 2021 Sahara 4xe
    Son's: 2018 330i xDrive

  • rayainswrayainsw Member Posts: 3,192
    nyccarguy - I echo what several here have already said -
    just awful. My sympathies & prayers for all...
    2022 X3 M40i
  • corvettecorvette Member Posts: 11,316


    On a more upbeat notes, one of my friends dug up this old picture of me with the Jetta I used to have and put it on Facebook. I note that, at just under five years, it's by far the longest I've ever kept a vehicle.
  • tbirdmarcotbirdmarco Member Posts: 3,838
    @qbrozen keep on looking you will find an nother galxy
  • tbirdmarcotbirdmarco Member Posts: 3,838
    @stickguy nice m love those cars.
  • tbirdmarcotbirdmarco Member Posts: 3,838
    @nyccarguy so so sorry to hear prairs for your sister and family I am hearing about this to much lately.
  • tbirdmarcotbirdmarco Member Posts: 3,838
    would be cool to have an meat up for us all one day.
  • Mr_ShiftrightMr_Shiftright Member Posts: 64,481
    corvette said:



    On a more upbeat notes, one of my friends dug up this old picture of me with the Jetta I used to have and put it on Facebook. I note that, at just under five years, it's by far the longest I've ever kept a vehicle.

    Why the big antenna? :p
  • xwesxxwesx Member Posts: 17,697
    nyccarguy said:

    I had a rough day yesterday. My sister called me at work around 8:00 am to tell me that my brother in law didn't wake up yesterday AM. He was 40. They have 2 girls, ages 5 & 7. It is completely devastating!

    Oh, how terrible for his family! I hope your families are able to provide the support she will need to get through this.

    It's been one thing after another this last year, hasn't it? :(
    2018 Subaru Crosstrek, 2014 Audi Q7 TDI, 2013 Subaru Forester, 2013 Ford F250 Lariat D, 1976 Ford F250, 1969 Chevrolet C20, 1969 Ford Econoline 100
  • cdnpinheadcdnpinhead Member Posts: 5,618
    edited April 2017
    xwesx said:

    It's been one thing after another this last year, hasn't it? :(

    Damn straight, Not to detract from Bradd's most recent incident, but there has been a lot of misery on here just in the past few weeks. The good news is that we who share these boards can try to help each other cope. I think it's called a community, one I'm happy to share.

    '08 Acura TSX, '17 Subaru Forester
  • nyccarguynyccarguy Member Posts: 17,516
    Thank-you all for your kind words during this very tough time.  It is so upsetting and and your words are unbelieveably comforting.

    2001 Prelude Type SH, 2022 Highlander XLE AWD, 2025 Camry SE AWD

  • iluvmysephia1iluvmysephia1 Member Posts: 7,709
    edited April 2017
    And I have been told I'm being let go yet they're letting me work through April and May. And my Boss is letting me do home sleep study setups for OT pay during daytime hours two days a week. It's all because I fell 4% short on my Board. The update is I'm getting ready to re-test and I am hiring a tutor to help me over Skype. That was my wife's idea, and a brilliant one at that.

    I agree, cdnpinhead, this Edmund's online community has been very upbuilding. My story is nothing compared to what some are going through on here. Everyone keep their chins up.

    2021 Kia Soul LX 6-speed stick

  • suydamsuydam Member Posts: 5,075
    Good luck, @iluvmysephia1! We are all pulling for you! 
    '24 Kia Sportage PHEV
    '24 Chevy Blazer EV 2LT
  • 28firefighter28firefighter Member Posts: 9,841
    Agreed. I feel very lucky to have this community.


    2025 Jetta GLI Autobahn, 2024 Jeep Grand Cherokee 4xE
  • ventureventure Member Posts: 3,170
    Michaell said:

    With so much arguing and vitriol on the 'net these days, it is good to know there is a community of people that have gotten to know each other like we have.

    Many of us have been around since the beginning. Many have come and gone, and I've been lucky to meet up with quite a few of them in person.

    As noted, there seems to be some tough times many of us are going through. Nice to know there are folks in cyberspace who do care, offer good advice, and generally have one another's back.

    Everyone hang in there!

    You are absolutely correct Michaell. So many forums and groups people hang out in are full of just downright mean, miserable people. Why anyone participates in them is beyond me.

    The most important aspect of any good forum is the moderators and I can imagine you guys have your hands full at times. I mentioned before that I used to be a host on MSN chatrooms for almost 10 years so I can really appreciate the Edmunds groups. Thanks.

    2025 Forester Limited, 2024 Subaru Legacy Sport

  • sb55sb55 Member Posts: 659
    stickguy said:

    Took one for the team today. Wandered down to a little dealer about 30 minutes from me to look at a 2004 Frontier PU for SB55 (apparently the drive from Vermont was a bit long just to browse!). Sadly, it is raining today, and was pouring when I got there, and there was no one in the little office. So I just eyeballed from the outside. Amazingly clean for a 13 YO PU. Looked brand new. Interior was nice and tidy too. Brand new A/T tires.

    Oh, forgot to mention in my PM to him, it has a spray in bedliner, and the neat cargo bed extender (the bars that flip over onto the tailgate if it is down).

    did not get to drive though obviously. It was parked on the grass, which was rapidly turning to mud, so I bet I could have rooster tailed some serious ruts pulling it off the lot!

    TJC, it was down near the Wally World on the BHP in Williamstown. So not far from your work IIRC?

    I may owe @stickguy a commission.
    We are getting a mobile mechanic to take a look on Tuesday morning. If it checks out, a 420 mile (each way according to Google) road trip will be planned.
    These compact pick ups hold their value. Up here in the North anything this age are usually rusty.

    2025 Toyota Crown Signia Hybrid, 2022 Ram 2500 Laramie 6.4 Hemi, 2007 Mazda MX-5 Miata PRHT

  • stickguystickguy Member Posts: 53,436
    Cool. Was glad to help. Hope it works out.

    2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.

  • rayainswrayainsw Member Posts: 3,192
    edited April 2017
    Those who may have seen information on national news
    about the section of Interstate 85 just outside Atlanta that
    collapsed - this leads to making my commute much, much
    more awful...
    - Ray
    May never arrive home from work...
    2022 X3 M40i
  • houdini1houdini1 Member Posts: 8,351

    corvette said:



    On a more upbeat notes, one of my friends dug up this old picture of me with the Jetta I used to have and put it on Facebook. I note that, at just under five years, it's by far the longest I've ever kept a vehicle.

    Why the big antenna? :p

    corvette said:



    On a more upbeat notes, one of my friends dug up this old picture of me with the Jetta I used to have and put it on Facebook. I note that, at just under five years, it's by far the longest I've ever kept a vehicle.

    Why the big antenna? :p
    Nice touch, adding the flag !

    2013 LX 570 2016 LS 460

  • jpp75jpp75 Member Posts: 1,535
    kyfdx said:

    Planning a vacation to PNW around Labor Day.

    Anyone have any feedback on the LeMay auto museum? We'll be driving right by it, on our way from Seattle to Portland.

    I definitely recommend it! My friend from Portland and I took the train up to Tacoma a couple of months ago and went through it. They had a very impressive BMW display on the top level and lots of interesting things on the floors below. Definitely a must visit if you're driving right by.
  • jpp75jpp75 Member Posts: 1,535
    Bradd, I also posted in the other thread but echo all the sentiments here. I hope you and your family find comfort in each other during this time.
  • Mr_ShiftrightMr_Shiftright Member Posts: 64,481
    Maybe he wanted to be sure to find the car at Big Box parking lots?
  • laurasdadalaurasdada Member Posts: 5,196
    Bradd, words fail. But my thoughts are with you and yours.

    '21 Dark Blue/Black Audi A7 PHEV (mine); '22 White/Beige BMW X3 (hers); '20 Estoril Blue/Oyster BMW M240xi 'Vert (Ours, read: hers in 'vert weather; mine during Nor'easters...)

  • andres3andres3 Member Posts: 13,937
    xwesx said:

    Winter tires make ALL the difference on any car.

    As do Summer tires on a performance car in the dry or a warm wet rain.
    '18 Porsche Macan Turbo, '16 Audi TTS, Wife's '19 VW Tiguan SEL 4-Motion
  • xwesxxwesx Member Posts: 17,697
    andres3 said:

    xwesx said:

    Winter tires make ALL the difference on any car.

    As do Summer tires on a performance car in the dry or a warm wet rain.
    Agreed!

    Yet, it is arguable as to whether most drivers would truly benefit from the added capability of such tread. This is not so in winter situations - with the friction coefficient so low by default, any driver in a moving vehicle will experience significant benefit from better tires.
    2018 Subaru Crosstrek, 2014 Audi Q7 TDI, 2013 Subaru Forester, 2013 Ford F250 Lariat D, 1976 Ford F250, 1969 Chevrolet C20, 1969 Ford Econoline 100
  • stickguystickguy Member Posts: 53,436
    well, winter tires would be useless on my Sonata. 3 winters so far, and the tires have never touched snow or ice. Since it goes back 11/8 this year, I think I am in the clear!

    2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.

  • xwesxxwesx Member Posts: 17,697
    stickguy said:

    well, winter tires would be useless on my Sonata. 3 winters so far, and the tires have never touched snow or ice. Since it goes back 11/8 this year, I think I am in the clear!

    Hahahah! True enough! I did say "winter situations." I can't help it if you guys are a bunch of softies..... B)

    In warmer news, the snow is melting fast and furious around here! I had to get the plow out on Saturday just to get the Q7 up the driveway. It made a valiant attempt, but just couldn't overcome the 8" of ball bearings (aka slush) going up the driveway. After pushing most of that out of the way, it was able to climb right up.

    I figured that if I needed it, so did the neighbors. I'll probably have to run all the drives again tonight after another day of strong sunlight!
    2018 Subaru Crosstrek, 2014 Audi Q7 TDI, 2013 Subaru Forester, 2013 Ford F250 Lariat D, 1976 Ford F250, 1969 Chevrolet C20, 1969 Ford Econoline 100
  • andres3andres3 Member Posts: 13,937
    Sometimes hearing the sad news of others here helps put things and life events in perspective.

    Waiting on an ill-timed replacement rear differential just isn't such an awful thing in the grand scheme of things. I have a loaner Audi, things could be worse, and by far, doesn't compare to losing a loved one.

    Things can be replaced (as it will be to get it tip-top again). Probably the biggest annoyance is the timing, time is one commodity that can't really be replaced.
    '18 Porsche Macan Turbo, '16 Audi TTS, Wife's '19 VW Tiguan SEL 4-Motion
  • breldbreld Member Posts: 6,931
    qbrozen said:

    Possible punch coming. Just waiting on the paperwork.

    Awaiting anxiously.

    2024 Audi Q8 e-tron - 2017 911 C4S - 2025 BRZ - 2023 A6 Allroad - 2024 Genesis GV60 - 2019 Cayman

  • qbrozenqbrozen Member Posts: 33,748
    How about a teaser shot to hold you over?


    '11 GMC Sierra 1500; '98 Alfa 156 2.0TS; '08 Maser QP; '67 Coronet R/T; '13 Fiat 500c; '20 S90 T6; '22 MB Sprinter 2500 4x4 diesel; '97 Suzuki R Wagon; '96 Opel Astra; '11 Mini Cooper S

  • rayainswrayainsw Member Posts: 3,192
    Hemi ????
    2022 X3 M40i
  • stickguystickguy Member Posts: 53,436
    nah, it's an old one. 440.

    2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.

  • qbrozenqbrozen Member Posts: 33,748
    Papers are signed and wire transfer sent.
    http://ebay.to/2nwFrLe

    '11 GMC Sierra 1500; '98 Alfa 156 2.0TS; '08 Maser QP; '67 Coronet R/T; '13 Fiat 500c; '20 S90 T6; '22 MB Sprinter 2500 4x4 diesel; '97 Suzuki R Wagon; '96 Opel Astra; '11 Mini Cooper S

  • stickguystickguy Member Posts: 53,436
    congratulations. Now just have to wait for the truck to arrive.

    2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.

  • tifightertifighter Member Posts: 3,791
    Nice Q, I dig it! You're going to have fun with that puppy...

    25 NX 450h+ / 24 Sienna Plat AWD / 23 Civic Type-R / 21 Boxster GTS 4.0

  • tbirdmarcotbirdmarco Member Posts: 3,838
    @cdnpinhead agreed we are all hear for one another hear for you all. like this foram the best on edmans have to say come on hear everyday cant be said for others. that I sumtimes look at from time to time. grate job motaraters keep up the grate work have an good week all. Marco.
  • tbirdmarcotbirdmarco Member Posts: 3,838
    @nyccarguy you are welcome buddy.
  • tbirdmarcotbirdmarco Member Posts: 3,838
    @iluvmysephia1 good luck on everything we are all hear and pulling for you.
  • tbirdmarcotbirdmarco Member Posts: 3,838
    @qbrozen congrads! on the new old car. now we have to meat up one day and go to an car show! good luck with it.
  • laurasdadalaurasdada Member Posts: 5,196
    It's the brelds and qbrozens (honorable mention to abacomike and rayains) that make me feel like the car buying slacker that I am.

    XF has been peachy since it took the extended nap. So, I'm back to loving it. Yet, still thinking of what next and when. I think reality has punched me in the face a few times the last few weeks, so I think I can stop the delusions of (used) S Class Coupes, new Lexus LC or (used )BMW i8 (nowhere to plugin at home, but chargers at work. Practicality be damned!). Not sure what to do, but the Jag XE still appeals to me, just not with the black interior and I need wood trim! I mean, it's a Jag! New A/S5, while a bit overdone stylistically, still is on the list. BMW 3/4, while a lovely car, just so ubiquitous. I mean, the GF bought one! Maybe the new E Class Coupe, but likely that's getting a bit $$$. The Giulia certainly intrigues, but a return to market, first model year from a new factory from a brand as well known for reliability as, well, Jaguar (!)? Perhaps not.

    No lose, if I stand pat, still have the XF. As long as there are no naps on the horizon. But, there will be new tires. Oh, yes there will be tires.

    '21 Dark Blue/Black Audi A7 PHEV (mine); '22 White/Beige BMW X3 (hers); '20 Estoril Blue/Oyster BMW M240xi 'Vert (Ours, read: hers in 'vert weather; mine during Nor'easters...)

  • iluvmysephia1iluvmysephia1 Member Posts: 7,709
    Thanks, Marco86!

    2021 Kia Soul LX 6-speed stick

  • mjfloyd1mjfloyd1 Member Posts: 3,806
    edited April 2017
    qbrozen said:

    Papers are signed and wire transfer sent.
    http://ebay.to/2nwFrLe




    What does NOM mean?
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