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2001 Prelude Type SH, 2022 Highlander XLE AWD, 2025 Camry SE AWD
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
Had a nice chat about her automotive needs now. I did ask if she wanted something like the RDX or a sedan, and she said she preferred something higher. Makes sense, since her DD since 1985 has been a minivan or the RDX. She also admitted that the drive is stressful with all the idiots on the road and people cutting in and out. She really would like to have some of the new tech. Definitely the blind spot, but I really think it would be good to have some of the autonomous braking stuff for her.
was not a big deal before, but her commute is not much fun now. a little local, then 10 miles on local interstate which is frequently backed up (and even worse goes from moving to clogged and back quite often). Also frequent exits on that stretch. basically, tons of cars on and off and much cutting across lanes. So you want all the defense you can get!
so she has not specifically asked for it (probably doesn't want to spend the money, plus the next car is supposed to be "mine") but I think she would be really happy with something newer that has brake assist, BLIS, and Navi of some sort. lane watch is probably overkill.
So, my current plan is to get something in the compact/medium CUV class to be the primary family car, and her commuter mobile. I don't drive much during the week, so really doesn't matter what I have sitting in the garage. The new car would be our going out together and travel wheels. The Mecan would have been perfect, but just a touch out of price range.
I can call it my car, to make her happy, but she can drive it during the week.
main question becomes which car to replace, and whether to buy or lease. the buy or lease (and if buy, new or used) decision, and what we end up with, helps determine which car goes.
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
of course, a fancy luxury sedan like a Q50 or S60 could be made to work. She could learn to sit lower!
will carve out some time tomorrow to scope out a CRV, Q50 and TLX, and maybe the S60 again. Just for something to do. I should think about other options. Would love a CX7 or Assent but those are pricey. Probably too big also.
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
That would actually be a situation where her car would have to get traded in to make it work. That, and being willing to go back to having 2 payments. She would love one though.
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
Mine: 1995 318ti Club Sport-2020 C43-1996 Speed Triple Challenge Cup Replica
Wife's: 2021 Sahara 4xe
Son's: 2018 330i xDrive
'24 Chevy Blazer EV 2LT
2016 Audi A7 3.0T S Line, 2021 Subaru WRX
I saw a great lease on a Ram Big Horn. With the Hemi. That sits nice and high!
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
As you know, your 2013 RDX has plenty of life left it in it but lacks a lot of tech that's useful—CarPlay/AA, BLIS, etc., etc. Given your wife's new and heavy duty commute a replacement for her RDX would be nice. That obviously needs to be an SUV.
But you also don't seem to like your Elantra Sport enough to keep it. Although the Sport has all the latest tech, you've complained about the stereo and the seats. And isn't there something else that you don't like about it enough to keep it long term? Your wife also doesn't like the Hyundai, but it's not all on her—you just don't seem to like it all that much either.
But the impossible challenge is to get two new vehicles and have only one payment. If you were to keep your Sport—which after all has great power, gets great mpg, has all the latest tech, and has 9 years left of its warranty—that would be possible with the plan you yourself came up with of selling the RDX and using that to pay off the Sport, and then leasing a new SUV for your wife.
I don't think you should get a sedan for your wife. That phrase "happy wife—happy life" seems to apply. She wants to sit up high, and wants the newer tech for her commute. But after living with the power and luxury of an RDX, your wife might find it difficult to move down to a CR-V or something like that. The Mazda probably should not be on your list, because I don't think the models that are on the lots now have CarPlay. Same with Toyotas. Mazda and Toyota have finally realized their mistake in skipping CarPlay/AA, but that's not going to be added to all of their vehicles for about a year.
You do have a conundrum.....The good thing is that your RDX has good resale value, and apparently you can sell your Hyundai to Carvana, but unless you're going to have two payments I don't see how to completely solve this situation. As you know, my wife and I decided to get two new vehicles and have two payments at the same time. But how we did it was the loan on the CR-V was relatively small and relatively short term, and the lease payment on my TLX at $229 a month was also small. Still, it was an extravagance and it made us a little nervous. As we have a plan now to pay off the CR-V early, probably in 2019, I'm feeling a bit better about it.
Anyway, just my 2 cents obviously. Feel free to ignore. I'm just avoiding work by thinking about your complicated car issues lol!
Ford - Edge. Escape (Titanium)
Lincoln MKC
Acura RDX
Nissan Murano, Pathfinder
Infiniti QX50, QX60
Honda CRV
Toyota RAV4, Highlander
VW Tiquan
SUbe Outback, Ascent
Volvo XC60
Jeep Cherokee, Grand Cherokee
Mazda CX5, CX7
Definitely a spread there in size, and price, though leasing is all over the place (I could Honcker a 48K QX60 right now cheaper than a 31K CRV).
so we shall see.
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
Imho your list is too long. You yourself have said—more or less—that you can't imagine owning a Ford. After my Ford ownership experience I can't either. Subaru has a cult following, but my parents owned them for many years, and their past vehicles were not refined or at all luxurious. Mazda doesn't have CarPlay. Neither does Toyota. I think your shopping list in real life can and should be smaller....
2001 Prelude Type SH, 2022 Highlander XLE AWD, 2025 Camry SE AWD
the QX60 might end up being too big. The MDX IMO is, but she might like it. But those are expensive too.
too bad the car show is not happening now. Easy way to see everything in a couple of hours. Though the process could certainly drag on to February anyway, if it involves her car!
next step is to swing through some dealerships when we are out doing other things to see them in person and start whittling down the big list into a serious short list.
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
MDX length 196
I think built-in navi is not as good as CarPlay/AA. And I'm not the only one. Of course having both is best.
'24 Chevy Blazer EV 2LT
And if you’re up for slightly used, the CX-9 (I assume that’s what you mean when you say CX-7) makes a great used car buy.
2025 BMW i5 - 2017 911 C4S - 2025 BRZ - 2025 MB GLE450e - 2024 Genesis GV60 - 2019 Cayman
'11 GMC Sierra 1500; '98 Alfa 156 2.0TS; '08 Maser QP; '67 Coronet R/T; '13 Fiat 500c; '20 S90 T6; '22 MB Sprinter 2500 4x4 diesel; '97 Suzuki R Wagon; '96 Opel Astra; '11 Mini Cooper S
2025 Ram 1500 Laramie 4x4 / 2023 Mercedes EQE 350 4Matic / 2022 Icon I6L Golf Cart
'24 Chevy Blazer EV 2LT
I’m guilty of rolling some negative equity. If I would have done something with the X1, I would have been doing so again and the Tacoma would have been a nice place to bury it.
2024 Jeep Grand Cherokee L Limited Velvet Red over Wicker Beige
2024 Audi Q5 Premium Plus Daytona Gray over Beige
2017 BMW X1 Jet Black over Mocha
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
2024 Jeep Grand Cherokee L Limited Velvet Red over Wicker Beige
2024 Audi Q5 Premium Plus Daytona Gray over Beige
2017 BMW X1 Jet Black over Mocha
first stop, Honda. Met the internet lady, and took a CRV EXL for a drive. Lots of value. Very roomy. Good seats (I liked them more than wife did). But neither of us really bonded with it. More road noise than I expected, and a bit soft handling. Wife thought it felt like an economy car, which of course it is. Interestingly, she was disconcerted by the CVT, but it did not bother me. Overall, off the list. And as expected, they lease like crap, so would have to be a buy. Also looked at a Pilot. wife though it was too big.
then went to Infiniti (after a stop at shake shack. Man that was a good burger! and some more brownie points taking her to Kohls. I am a good husband.). As usual, no one talked to us. Not sure why, maybe we always get there at the wrong time, but they seem to profile us. Guess I need to walk in and yell "who wants to sell a car today???" So we looked at the options. as expected, QX60 was too big. QX50 seemed just right. So we left, but wife really liked the 50 we sat in. Will probably go back during the week and harass them until someone lets us take a test drive.
went next door to Lincoln. Wife is funny. Even though we are discussing how many years to work before retiring (meaning not too many hopefully), she said "Lincolns are for old people" But, drove a nicely equipped 300A package MKC. Surprisingly nice car. well loaded. Quick, comfy, quiet, handled nice. Good size. odd fit in the driver's seat. It was comfortable, just odd shape? Would need to spend more time playing with it. But, from an afterthought, to a solid option on a good deal.
Last stop was Mazda. CX9 (which I insist calling the 7!) was very nice, but too big. CX5 was actually a perfect size. not quite as roomy as the CRV, but plenty of space for us. sat in a Touring, drove a Grand Touring. It is a really, really nice car. Drives well (like a sports sedan, not a CUV). Not overly powerful, but super responsive. No lag, no stumbles, just action. wife was more than satisfied with the get up and go when needed. I thought it was fine too. No, not as fast as the RDX, but fine for our needs. Seats were fine, equipment level was good. we both really liked it. Way more than the CRV. Wife certainly likes the luxo brands, but was fine with a CX5 if one showed up. And I could take it as my DD. of course, question is, will the numbers work?
Oh, for Benjamin, 2019 CX5 has carplay and Android auto standard, but on the 2018, they can add it as an accessory. Which I would, so you have the built in Navi, plus car play when you want it.
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
so last hurdle is timing (kinda tight to get anything in for the November programs, so likely going to roll into December and see what happens). Good chance I will contact a few dealers, and monitor deals for NY weekend.
And of course, making a final decision on what to get first!
right now, the long list seems to be down to the RDX, Infiniti Q50, Mazda CX5 grand touring, VW Tiguan, BMW X1 and (long shot) Volvo XC60 loaner. the S60 (and TLX) is probably off the table. She really prefers driving something that sits higher, so makes no sense spending a bundle to have a car that sits in the garage all week.
BMW and Infiniti we need to drive still. Only sat in them, but not worried about the driving (going to be fine). The VW, that needs a look and drive (she is still not a VW fan, but could be swayed). will try and drive them all this week, since I have next Friday off, and could potentially spend trying to make a deal! My Carvana price lock is good through Friday too.
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
2025 Ram 1500 Laramie 4x4 / 2023 Mercedes EQE 350 4Matic / 2022 Icon I6L Golf Cart
2025 Ram 1500 Laramie 4x4 / 2023 Mercedes EQE 350 4Matic / 2022 Icon I6L Golf Cart
a bit risky buying before driving, but we loved sitting in it, so I highly doubt there is anything about the driving experience that would let us down!
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.