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If I did that to a car dealer and involved my wife, not only would I not get a ride home, but I would probably end up sleeping in my car when I got back. :sick:
She reminds me frequently not to embarrass her in public fighting with salespeople.
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
-Rocky
Well, I guess anything is possible. This could have been the first time a kidnapper returned the the kidnapee's before a kidnapping was reported.
Also what were you going to have them arrested for? Losing keys?
No, I wanted them to find my keys quickly, ergo the police involvement. I'm sure the police have heard of this type of behavior before and might have their ways.
However, now I read that the OP had his keys but the dealer lost the keys to the blocker. I'm going to talk to him as soon as I hang up here. :confuse:
Last time I checked that wasn't illegal.
Do you really check this kind of stuff? :surprise:
jmonroe
'15 Genesis V8 with Ultimate Package and '18 Legacy Limited 6 cyl
Then I would write to the dealer's GM doing exactly the same demanding apology big time. I would consider calling media, but that depends how much time I really had.
Even if you have no actionable evidence, there is still a chance somebody who may listen. The only way to teach those pricks anything is actually to make a stink to the point that it stops paying off doing that.
2018 430i Gran Coupe
Sometimes you just gotta man-up and take charge. I know this must come across as comical coming from me but I've tried this, a few times, in a regrettably weak moment.
jmonroe
'15 Genesis V8 with Ultimate Package and '18 Legacy Limited 6 cyl
Now, you see what you've gone and done by not making it clear what was going on here? You got a couple of otherwise mild mannered posters going at each other. I'll bet the guys in the biz just ate that up. :mad:
So, I guess you only preferred to have them remove the blocker cause you don't really like doing landscaping with the family sedan.
jmonroe
'15 Genesis V8 with Ultimate Package and '18 Legacy Limited 6 cyl
-Rocky
I used to live in Northern VA.
He finds another pristine '02 Camaro SS six speed with 19K miles that he bought for $16K. I asked the guy if his son has been to racing school before driving that Camaro. He replied that he doesn't think it's going to be a problem since he can't drive standard. Talk about way too much car for a 16 year old. Imagine doing a burnout on wet pavement with that locker going sideways.
-Rocky
-Rocky
We only think we can detect these traits. It isn’t as easy as it first appears.
Young drivers don’t need nor should they have near racing cars. In fact, I’m not a fan of a kid still in high school having their own car but I know it happens in this busy world we live in now. I remember being told by a “professional driving instructor” that son # 1was a darn good driver at the age of 16 yet he wrecked the first time out. No one hurt, only minor sheet metal damage. If you want to read more about this go to Edmunds forum: “Best Car for a new teenage driver” post 145 and its follow up post 175.
Kids are still kids and they need a lot of supervision from their parents. Hopefully their parents can provide this and they have the common sense to look around and see what can happen when you don’t do the right things. Providing high horsepower cars for kids is not the way I would do it.
jmonroe
'15 Genesis V8 with Ultimate Package and '18 Legacy Limited 6 cyl
Watched a kid hit a car waiting for left turn several weeks ago. He was reaching for his cell phone and didn't notice a red car with red taillights in clear daylight. Luckily no one was hurt other than some cuts for him. He may have been out-of-place for the air bag. Oddly his pride didn't seem hurt as his mother picked him up. New black Cobalt RS with expensive chrome wheels dented? Oh well, seemed to be his attitude. His mother obvious didn't approach the accident the way I would have while picking him up.
2014 Malibu 2LT, 2015 Cruze 2LT,
I won't argue with any of that.
My son couldn't have used any of those excuses. Cell phones didn't exist and only had a standard sedan AM/FM radio which he said was off because the kids in the car were talking about the dance they were going to. :confuse:
He was, however, clearly guilty of not paying attention to road conditions. :mad:
jmonroe
'15 Genesis V8 with Ultimate Package and '18 Legacy Limited 6 cyl
I agree that those things are important, but allow me to insert a plug for the Street Survival program. I strongly believe that teens need quality behind-the-wheel instruction in order to become a safe driver. I also think that you shouldn't put any kid into any sort of high performance car without constant supervision. I instruct at Street Survival events from time to time, and we emphasize that the kids need to bring the car that they usually drive. I've had 17 year old kids show up in a new WRX STi or a Mustang GT. Unbelievable.
Mine: 1995 318ti Club Sport-2020 C43-1996 Speed Triple Challenge Cup Replica
Wife's: 2021 Sahara 4xe
Son's: 2018 330i xDrive
That goes beyond "Unbelievable". That's SCARY.
And if something happens, I'm sure the dumbfounded parents that sent their kids to the Street Survival program will say, "I sent him/her to good driving course". :confuse:
jmonroe
'15 Genesis V8 with Ultimate Package and '18 Legacy Limited 6 cyl
I'm sure all these scnenarios are in jest. I think what the original poster did was probably the best case. Considering the scenario, he did well.
-moo
'11 GMC Sierra 1500; '98 Alfa 156 2.0TS; '08 Maser QP; '67 Coronet R/T; '13 Fiat 500c; '20 S90 T6; '22 MB Sprinter 2500 4x4 diesel; '97 Suzuki R Wagon; '96 Opel Astra; '11 Mini Cooper S
I was present on Christmas morning to see my two great nephews open their gifts. They are 7 and 9 years of age. My nephew insisted on getting the boys dirt bikes. Their mother insisted on getting them lap top computers. So, they got both. My sister, the grandmother, gave them 19" LCD/HDTV television sets. All of this in addition to clothes and other games. I just couldn't take it all in at the time. Here's the strange part---my wife and I gave them a basketball goal and ONE basketball. That's what they talked about all day. Next year, they will be 8 and 10 years of age. What is left to give other than cars?
Why must children have everything, and have it NOW? I know that I'm old and probably just don't understand, but the year that I got my bicycle and a new winter coat was the Christmas of my life. Dad helped me get a used car my senior year in college so that I could drive from the university to the school 25 miles away where I was assigned to do my student teaching internship. I made payments to him each month when I got my first teaching position. I washed that car every week and treated it like a new baby. Mom loaned me some money once when my wife and I were in graduate school. I didn't hesitate to pay her back when my salary went up the next year. Where did we go wrong with the new generation? Gosh, I'm glad my parents taught me values and appreciation.
I do agree that the poster probably did the best thing that he could at the time. It is easy for all of us to give advice after the fact. Still, I would write the letter to VW, review the dealership on this site, etc. Business needs to learn that there are limits to dealing with customers.
These dealers obviously don't care or else they wouldn't be operating in this manner in the first place. (Provided all the details were as they were presented.) All that phone call to the dealership will do is produce a laugh or two. VW will tell you that you need to discuss this problem with the originating dealership. It IS a franchise after all. VW sells cars. Dealership sells cars. The dealership has to deal with customer satisfaction regarding the sale. VW has to deal with customer satisfaction regarding their product.
-moo
2018 430i Gran Coupe
-moo
If I have a bad business transaction with someone, I simply never use them again. I shared this story before, but I had a carpet cleaning company come by my house and gave me an estimate. We agreed to do business with the folks and they went ahead and cleaned. They told me certain stains would not be a problem to get out but they were. I didn't raise a fuss, I just chalked it up to their overpromising. He presented me with the invoice at the end of the transaction and it was for the estimate that we had agreed upon. Ok, no problem. 3 days later, I get a call from the owner saying they didn't charge me enough. I told them to go pound sand. I'm not going to complain to anyone, I just won't do business with them again. Why? So that I can save myself some time and energy. They aren't worth it to me.
That's my mentality with these sorts of problems. He didn't buy from them and had a bad experience. Talk about it a little bit and then move on. It's not worth your energy.
-moo
I totally agree. Life is short, move on.
Exactly. Funny it takes a few years to figure this out. Sure wish I had known this while in my 20's as I would have saved myself a lot of grief.
Why is this so hard to comprehend? I say this car blocking game is just an extension of claiming that keys are lost. Be it the customer's keys or the dealer's keys. :confuse:
I'm sure you work at a dealership that doesn't play games like this and I think most dealers today are better than years ago but we all know there are rouges out there.
jmonroe
'15 Genesis V8 with Ultimate Package and '18 Legacy Limited 6 cyl
Rouge = Red in French
Red = Communist
Are you saying that there are communist dealerships out there and that this is the way they conduct business? I think you're obfuscating the issue here.
:P
-moo
I’d say you did a very good job at naming quite a few.
I’m sure some would say I spoiled my sons. Each generation seems to have more and more. I remember son # 1 saying that they discussed this very subject at various levels of his education even in college. He said to me before he was married, “I’ve heard the stories about each generation having more and more and the reasons why this is but I think my generation may be at the point where we might have to say to our kids, I hope I can afford to give you all the things I had”.
So far he’s doing a pretty good job with his 3 sons but he ain’t perfect. I still have to open my mouth at times.
jmonroe
'15 Genesis V8 with Ultimate Package and '18 Legacy Limited 6 cyl
No...but this is what happens when I don't know how to spell. My teachers told me this would happen but I thought they were just trying to make a big thing out of nothing. :mad:
jmonroe
'15 Genesis V8 with Ultimate Package and '18 Legacy Limited 6 cyl
That's exactly what the OP did. While I still like the jmonroe method, the landscape thing drives the point home a lot faster.
jmonroe
'15 Genesis V8 with Ultimate Package and '18 Legacy Limited 6 cyl
-moo
On another note, I received the survey from the first customers he pissed off that I cleaned the mess up.
And get this, even though I hammered the point home about the survey, they still took out their frustrations with Frank on my survey. I told them "Please, when you get the survey leave whatever happened between you and Frank out of it. Now it's my survey. You promise to do that?" and they agreed. Well luckily I talked to the GSM about it and he said he would not penalize me on it. Right now I'm sitting at a perfect 100 for the month of December but who knows what it will drop to after this survey. Frank is on vacation this week otherwise I would give him a piece of my mind.
Nobody was kidnapped first. Blocking the car does not equal kidnapping, the alleged victim could still leave the premises. They could easily walked away or even had someone pick them up. They were not prevented from leaving.
2011 Hyundai Sonata, 2014 BMW 428i convertible, 2015 Honda CTX700D
Just a mere technicality picky, picky, picky. :P
While I was in full retirement mode, I often went to a coffee shop in the morning and hung out with other retirees (quite a cross section of characters). Got to know a few of the local police too (it’s true, they love donuts). Got to hear a lot of funny stuff especially from the K-9 cop guy.
Where I’m going with this is, I got to know them pretty well. A couple of them went so far as to tell me if I ever got pulled over, to tell the cop so and so said not to mess with me and if necessary to have him call them. Since I’m a good boy, that’s probably not going to happen. So, I don’t think it would be asking too much for them to tell me what would happen if a customer brought a couple of sleazy car guys in who were holding their keys, car, or pulled the ole’ blocker thing on them.
I’m going to put this issue in my memory bank (no wise cracks) and if I ever see one of them, I’ll post what they say. Now don’t even think about suggesting that I purposely get myself pulled over by one of them, cause I ain’t gonna go that far to settle this.
jmonroe
'15 Genesis V8 with Ultimate Package and '18 Legacy Limited 6 cyl
"Imports are superior"
I hope you don't have to work next Saturday. It always puts you in a bad mood. :P
I did get a follow-up call today....I said I would not be buying from them, as I did not like the way I was blocked in. He apologized for that, said that the keys were with a porter to take the car back to the lot....I told him that I did not leave the car their.
At least they did not squish my car (ala National Lampoon's Vacation).