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On a two lane residential street?
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I don’t want to be boxed in to HAVING to buy something because I sold my house and have no place to go (and no, I don’t want to move twice, so no temporary homes).
Push comes to shove, I like the house I’m living in. Would like something with less upkeep, ergo why I’m looking to downsize. But, if something doesn’t happen, I’m perfectly content with my current abode.
Yes. My grand plan is when the kids are out of high school to sell our primary and buy a bigger place at the shore. The current place would become a rental property.
Wife is on the fence about it. I said well it’s many years away so I have time to convince you.
Do you miss NJ yet?
not really. Maybe when I have to pump my own gas! I miss my bigger garage though, but that had nothing to do with NJ.
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
That sounds kinda familiar to the question I asked my old boss when I was asked to come back for my last stint with my old company. The response I got was, “I’m almost afraid to tell you because I don’t want your head to swell too much. But we tried that with one employee for a couple months and that didn’t work out too well and when we talked to another employee who we thought might be able to help (and I’m pretty sure that guy could have helped), he threatened to retire (and I think he was serous). Anyway, this old friend of mine said, “why don’t you call @jmonroe. He’s probably sitting on his axx at home bothering his wife”. Well, that wasn’t entirely correct. So to keep the peace I finally relented and accepted their offer but not until they convinced me it would be good for all concerned.
Don’t knock it. If you enjoy the work ride the train for a while. You can jump off any time you chose. It’s not like you have the same family responsibilities that you had when you were a 40 hour a week working stiff.
jmonroe
'18 Legacy Limited with 3.6R (Mrs. j's)
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
You should see what Edmunds has to offer. Just make sure you get a new car every year. I’m sure they’d appreciate your one year test report. As we have come to learn over the years in here, if you don’t ask you don’t get.
jmonroe
'18 Legacy Limited with 3.6R (Mrs. j's)
2017 MB E400 , 2015 MB GLK350, 2014 MB C250
Mine: 1995 318ti Club Sport-2020 C43-1996 Speed Triple Challenge Cup Replica
Wife's: 2021 Sahara 4xe
Son's: 2018 330i xDrive
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Same story here on renting out the condo and buying a bigger place for ourselves. I’ll prob never fully retire, though. I wouldn’t know what to do with myself. No reason to not do SOMETHING with my time that could result in getting paid. Just a little time.
'11 GMC Sierra 1500; '98 Alfa 156 2.0TS; '08 Maser QP; '67 Coronet R/T; '13 Fiat 500c; '20 S90 T6; '22 MB Sprinter 2500 4x4 diesel; '97 Suzuki R Wagon; '96 Opel Astra; '11 Mini Cooper S
Now that I have been retired for about 12 years I would never have wanted to work those years. I'd be hopeless as an employee, worker, business owner. I lost my motivation and desire to do any of that dog eat dog stuff. I play tennis and/or pickleball for about 2 hours a day, 6 or 7 days a week. By the time I have a shower, read the newspapers, watch some tennis on TV, watch Netflix, take Trixie for a few walks...I have no idea how I ever had time to work.
The way I see it, any years after 60 are bonus years, and they should be used to do your favorite things....and working doesn't count. When it is all over what will you say, I really enjoyed working for my entire life....I didn't get to do what I really wanted to do....as much as possible?
2017 MB E400 , 2015 MB GLK350, 2014 MB C250
There’s no telling where this will end.
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2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
It counts if it is something you want to be doing.
'11 GMC Sierra 1500; '98 Alfa 156 2.0TS; '08 Maser QP; '67 Coronet R/T; '13 Fiat 500c; '20 S90 T6; '22 MB Sprinter 2500 4x4 diesel; '97 Suzuki R Wagon; '96 Opel Astra; '11 Mini Cooper S
2017 Cadillac ATS Performance Premium 3.6
It counts if it is something you want to be doing.
Unfortunately, you wouldn't know what you have missed until it is too late.
You think working is the ultimate......it isn't. It is good, but there are other things you can do that are more enjoyable.
As @henryn and @ab348 have said.....there is more to life than working for the man.
Try to find an interest you can start before retiring so you have something to get you started in your retirement years. You can't go from a full time job to nothing very easily.
Another thing....75% of bosses are either inadequate, useless, on power trips, know less than I do. It is easy to have personality conflicts - you don't get that when you are retired.
And if you do....occasionally I get a tennis guy who is a problem, but I can ignore them, but the boss will be there!
2017 MB E400 , 2015 MB GLK350, 2014 MB C250
2025 Ram 1500 Laramie 4x4 / 2023 Mercedes EQE 350 4Matic / 2022 Icon I6L Golf Cart
The gig in NY will allow me to work with a couple of the folks who used to work for me. That’s a good thing.
I’m working a week every couple of months. That also works for me. It keeps me on top of things in my industry. And, they pick up my expenses and give me money for doing so. What’s not to like?
If I don’t want to do what they request, I’ll just tell them “no” when they ask.
That’s not IMO “working”. It’s having a fun hobby that makes you some money. Retiring is getting out of the full time/corporate/stressful grind rat race.
I believe you should work to live, not live to work.
2020 Acura RDX tech SH-AWD, 2023 Maverick hybrid Lariat luxury package.
Good point.
2025 Ram 1500 Laramie 4x4 / 2023 Mercedes EQE 350 4Matic / 2022 Icon I6L Golf Cart
That's my plan. Just doing a hobby, for myself, that can make a few bucks.
'11 GMC Sierra 1500; '98 Alfa 156 2.0TS; '08 Maser QP; '67 Coronet R/T; '13 Fiat 500c; '20 S90 T6; '22 MB Sprinter 2500 4x4 diesel; '97 Suzuki R Wagon; '96 Opel Astra; '11 Mini Cooper S
2017 MB E400 , 2015 MB GLK350, 2014 MB C250
Of course, I didn't press 1 and I just hung up....but I am curious to know what would have happened if I had pressed 1. Just wondering how the scam works. I assume you give them your credit card info so they can reverse the transaction.
2017 MB E400 , 2015 MB GLK350, 2014 MB C250
That's my plan. Just doing a hobby, for myself, that can make a few bucks.
You can make bird houses
2017 MB E400 , 2015 MB GLK350, 2014 MB C250
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On a two lane residential street?
I am not talking about the incident described just the comment that passing on the right generally puts the driver in the wrong.
I know around here in the rural areas it's not uncommon on a two lane country road for someone making a left turn to move into the oncoming traffics lane to slow down and make the left turn so not to impede a driver behind them. Of course only when there is no on coming traffic.
2011 Hyundai Sonata, 2014 BMW 428i convertible, 2015 Honda CTX700D
2011 Hyundai Sonata, 2014 BMW 428i convertible, 2015 Honda CTX700D
2011 Hyundai Sonata, 2014 BMW 428i convertible, 2015 Honda CTX700D
Gotcha.
2025 Ram 1500 Laramie 4x4 / 2023 Mercedes EQE 350 4Matic / 2022 Icon I6L Golf Cart
Company gave us off today as a thank you. Wife is stuck working and couldn’t take off.
I took the kids out to a junk food lunch and then to the water park. We have the season pass and they close after this weekend.
Surprisingly quiet for a holiday weekend, because many schools are back in session. Sure in a few hours town will be rockin’ again
2025 Ram 1500 Laramie 4x4 / 2023 Mercedes EQE 350 4Matic / 2022 Icon I6L Golf Cart
We’re doing the same. Down at Legoland for a few days eating terrible food and making memories.
That’s where I was very lucky. My old boss called me because they needed help in an area that was ignored and my boss knew I could help. He told me he knew I wouldn’t put up with game playing and didn’t even want me doing monthly reports or going to meetings that I didn’t feel would be beneficial to what I was doing. I guess you could say I was given a free hand to do it my way and it was working perfectly. Again, I was very lucky.
Why didn’t they do it that way when I was a full time working stiff? The only way I can attempt to explain it is that upper management thinks they know how to direct their people. But in the end when the fire gets too high they throw up their arms and call in a fireman.
jmonroe
'18 Legacy Limited with 3.6R (Mrs. j's)
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
They may have expected a buying frenzy, but the market could be cooling...it is here.
2017 MB E400 , 2015 MB GLK350, 2014 MB C250
2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
2025 Forester Limited, 2024 Subaru Legacy Sport
Maybe I should go to a waterpark now that I am retired.
2017 MB E400 , 2015 MB GLK350, 2014 MB C250
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2019 Kia Soul+, 2015 Mustang GT, 2013 Ford F-150, 2000 Chrysler Sebring convertible
2017 MB E400 , 2015 MB GLK350, 2014 MB C250
You better not before getting a life preserver from The Guy. Water can be dangerous to your health.
jmonroe
'18 Legacy Limited with 3.6R (Mrs. j's)
And, there are lots of videos of Tesla driver's who are asleep. This is a recent one near Niagara Falls Ontario...they shot the video over about 15 minutes. The guys seat is reclined and his eyes are closed.
2017 MB E400 , 2015 MB GLK350, 2014 MB C250
It counts if it is something you want to be doing.
At 65 I'm really enjoying the prosecutor gig; I have a great staff and with but a couple of exceptions the defense attorneys are a pleasure to work with. Today was a good example; we spent most of the day brainstorming strategy for a murder trial that starts next week. I was working on the opening statement while my assistant was putting together the audio visual exhibits. Everyone pitches in with ideas and suggestions. It's somewhat challenging yet fun.
I've told this before, but at my election watch party in 2018 a friend who practices family law asked my wife If she thought I would run again in 2024. My wife replied, "If he does, will you handle my divorce for free?"
That said, she has no problem with me taking retired judge cases after my term is up.
Mine: 1995 318ti Club Sport-2020 C43-1996 Speed Triple Challenge Cup Replica
Wife's: 2021 Sahara 4xe
Son's: 2018 330i xDrive